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Re: Yes, I have.
Tippecanoe 86 reads
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Allergic to coconut oil?

Tippecanoe2645 reads

Just curious, have you had a bad session, posted a bad review, or the provider said she had a bad day - and she offered to 'make it up to you'.

Did you take her up on that offer? What was the result? I'm guessing clients feel like why throw good money after bad. Because its not a free or discounted session, you have to pay again and take a risk that its just really not good chemistry. Potentially worse, that she has a nefarious reason for wanting to see you again in person.

Providers, have you offered this up when it was an off session, and did the client take you up on the offer? Did having a second session help the situation and make it better?

TIA

I had that exact thing happen to me a while back.  Lady was late, (over an hour), the session was just plain bad. She called me up a few days later and apologized over and over and said that exact statement, "I'll make it up to you".  She keep calling me and texting me and about a month later, I set up another appointment.  But this time with exact and unwavering requirements, the first one was, if she was late, even a minute, the appointment was canceled.  Well about an hour before the appointment she calls me and says shes running late and could make it there for on time.  I canceled and she flipped out, cussing just going ballistic, telling me I wasn't be fair and how I cost her money.  

A couple of days later I found out that she black listed me on a couple sites, and had made up a bunch of shit, it was her attempt to get even with me.  Oh well, my rep has been good enough it really didn't affect me.  

But I learned my lesson after that, if the session is bad, post a review, but never go back for seconds.

It was due to them running late and not a bad session... and yes, they made it up to me by fucking me silly when they got there... some things are worth waiting for.  

Now, in the context you're describing, I'd probably pass. I would be very skeptical and rate this one right up there with... "the checks in the mail" and "no, I won't cum in your mouth". Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.

A top rated local provider who has been around for years was a NCNS. She was hosting incall and went silent when I arrived at the location. She said she has a medical condition and fell asleep and didn’t wake up. Of course I was upset. I never wrote a review since the date never happened, but she said she would make it up to me.

I did end up calling her back months later and set up an appointment, reminding her what happened the last time. The play date was 1 hour, but I got 2. Her skills were amazing and obviously why she is rated so highly. Ironically I requested she wear a pair of thigh high boots she has in her photos and she agreed.  

When I arrived, she was not wearing the boots and mentioned that she couldn’t fit in them (because she had gained quite a bit of weight). She has since updated her photos, which are a more accurate reflection of her current weight, but I was not too happy overall. So in my case, she did make it up to me with a long date, but at the time her photos did not accurately represent her current weight and I was still unhappy overall. Couldn’t win on that one lol

They’ve offered to make it up later. I politely say thanks for the offer. However,  I’ve NEVER taken up the offer.

I will wait 15 minutes.  At 16 minutes, I leave.  When the "I'll make it up to you text comes."  I say "No thanks."  Subsequent texts, I ignore.  In 9 years, it has only happened once with an agency girl, and about six times with independents, so I really don't think its that common, at least from my experience.  

John_Laroche80 reads

unless it was one of Senator Blutarsky's friends.

 
On the other hand, if she was a provider that I had seen before and had a good time, especially a regular, I'd definitely appreciate her desire to make it right.

Because it was my error.  Believe me, I was horrified at myself.
It was a small error - time connected. It rarely happens but sometimes sh*t happens in life. Just like sometimes sh*t happens for hobbyists, too. Nothing to do with the session itself which was actually very hot. woohoo! Extended time and gratitude is in store for this hobbyist if he comes back to play.  

On the other hand if ever it happens that our personalities just didn't make a good connection - I think that is part of this adventure in hobbyland.

...an escort I was seeing for the first time overslept. I was left high and dry on the sidewalk. She contacted me as soon as she woke up, apologized profusely and said if I rescheduled it would be for free. I did. It was. I tipped heavily. Great gal. I repeated.

In the first case, a provider passed out after downing a bottle of Champagne (New Year's Eve).   It took a year or two, but she finally made it up to me with a free dinner date.

The second time a gal cancelled at the last minute, and made it up to me by extending a dinner date to an overnight.

These were both gals that I had already seen quite a bit.

 
So, my history with these has been good.

The 1st  time is usually  great..but if for whatever reason is not..the 2nd time around  if given a  chance , is  alot better if not The Best..

usually " I will make it up to you " means "I will fuck you over again"..

I am mildly allergic to many lotions. I told the rub and tug provider this and we agreed to skip it. When it was time to get to the more intimate part of the FBSM when she started to rub her breasts on me. Well she forgot about my issue with many lotions. I guess she was on autopilot and applied lotion to lub her breasts and began to rub them on my junk. Well I broke out in hives and it began to feel raw. We could not continue.

She was mortified about her mistake and offered to make it up to me and refunded my donation minus the cost of the room she booked for our date.

I have seen her a few times before, and she is a very skilled at loosening tight mussels so the HJ happy ending was a bonus, as I would happily pay her just for a legit massage. So of course I took her up on it.

And she did make it up to me with both great massage but also with menu items that were not mentioned in her reviews. I am a regular to this day.

Tippecanoe87 reads

Allergic to coconut oil?

Simular products. I am not sure which chemical exactly  so I avoid all such prosucts I am not familar with and what evee it is it is not in all of them. I always bring my own hygiene items but forgot to grab some lotion like I normally do and was doimg without until the oops.

Because of Lexi's post a couple posts above yours. Your stories are so similar it's almost like you were the customer in her story.😂

Tippecanoe84 reads

Exactly P-Storm. Too close to be coincidence, but I guess it was coincidence.

Posted By: perfectstorm
Re: Pretty sure Tippy was joking, scoed
Because of Lexi's post a couple posts above yours. Your stories are so similar it's almost like you were the customer in her story.😂

This was a while ago, but I booked an overnight for first date and ended being exhausted from travel and just couldn't keep up. Apologized and they were understanding and I offered to make it up and we're still seeing each other.

Relatedly, I once reallllly f'ed up an appt. Totally lost time in a prior appt to the tune of 90 mins and by time I broke away my next date was already there and I couldn't make it. I thought I'd completely lost him but for some strange reason he gave me another chance and again, happy ending, we still see each other and I'm soooo glad he gave me the chance to make it up to him!

Once, a provider I knew pretty well and had had great times with NCNSed me.  She had previously done a near-NCNS but did call about an hour later, gave me a reasonable explanation, and we rescheduled for the next day. The second time, nothing from her for a few days. Then she emailed me and asked if she could call me.  So we agreed on a day and time and talked on the phone, she said she really fucked up, apologized profusely and offered me a free session as a makeup.  I appreciated that she didn't make some lame excuse and offered the free session, so I countered with an extended session late in the day (would be her last session that day so it wouldn't affect her income), and that's what we did and it was a memorable evening.  

The other situation was I'd reconfirmed with a provider the morning of a first date later that morning, and she emailed me about 30 minutes before about an emergency with her daughter and asked if we could reschedule, and offered me a free session.  The excuse sounded plausible (she gave me more details later, it *was* an emergency) so I countered with some extra time on a paid session and she gladly agreed. And when we did get together I had a very good time.  

ROGM77 reads

The providers I'm seeing always make it up to me and I don't even ask them to. That's how Awesome these girls are.

I was traveling in Ft Worth and I called a Dallas provider.  I had no idea how far Ft Worth was from Dallas and she accepted the appointment.  Well the time for our appointment came and went.  I was trying to get in touch with her to understand what had happened.  She finally answered and said that she got in an accident on the way over.  She was so upset.  She said she would make it up to me.  

The next day, I called again and she told me that I could come out to see her but not vice versa.  I drove over from Ft Worth and then I found out how long the drive could be in traffic.  She opened the hotel door and let me in.  I asked her how her car was and she looked at me and said "Huh?"    We did have a great session.

Over the years, I have learned that escorts are, as a class, the world's worst drivers.  She wasn't the first and wouldn't be the last.  In my hobby career, I have had several no-shows and three have had a similar excuse.  Two claimed accidents and the other told me she was pulled over and arrested when it was determined that she was driving without a license.  They are either the worst drivers or the worst liars, LOL.  

about being bad drivers.

 
Of the gals I've known, 3 have been in bad accidents:  One on their way to see me, one on their way from me, and one just out and about.  

 
Then one gal I know is the kind that drives 10 miles below the speed limit in the left lane, thus causing God knows how many accidents.

I met this girl at a GT in Canada a few years back.  We were drinking and smoking in the back of the bar and it was getting.   crazy (long story).  The bar tender was pouring shots for the SPs who would flash their tits and several were flashing him.   I jokingly showed my man boob and he poured me a shot.  A drunk SP saw this and came over to me and started to bite the the buttons off my shirt so she could suck on my man boobs.  Then she ripped open my shirt and bit my man-boob and it hurt.  The next day i got a note from her.  She apologized for ruining my shirt and biting me.  She said she had too much to drink and she was sorry.  She was "embarrassed" and wanted to "treat for me."  That would have been enough and I never gave it a second thought.  

A few years later, I flew in to Canada to attend another GT.  The SP told me before hand that she would be at the party and to look her up.    By the end of the party we were making out.  I took her back to my room (we were too drunk for sex that night).   In the morning she gave me a great BBBJ.  We went out to breakfast and she said  "I hope this makes up for the other time."  It did.      

Yes, I have done this, and I think the make up sessions have gone well (they are still repeat clients!) I think though I am harder on myself and my performance than the gentleman are.  
I had a dominatrix session scheduled in the am and when I woke I had a super bad migraine.  Throwing up and the whole nine yards. I tried to get myself together as I knew he was driving a long way.  It was not going to work.  I messaged him about 2 hours before the time to cancel and went to bed.  Well, he never got the message and arrived knocking at my door.  I told him what was going on and I sipped tea for about a half hour as we sat at my dining room table.  We still did the session, he said he had a great time, but I did not feel I had given 100%.  He said he wanted to rebook,  I gave him a $100 discount.  I still see him about once a month or so.  

You both handled that very well.  Also, sorry you get bad migraines -- my sister and a few friends get those, and they don't look fun at all.  I hope they're rare for you.

I did have a client (older gentleman) who requested a discount/make up because on several occasions he could not orgasm (we went over the session times by 15/20 min on both occasions) and also I had my period (I had told him ahead of time). Um, no.  I no longer see him, for obvious reasons.  

zerofcksgiven82 reads

Got sick at dinner was not at my best behind closed doors.Offered him a free session to make up for it.
He did agree to it but could not commit to a specific date and time this went on every time he came to town for almost a year.Started to feel like I was being strung along.Finally told him I could not honor the free appointment damn near a year later.Ridiculous!

Tippecanoe73 reads

That's too bad. Continued experiences like that ruins a provider for the rest of us.

Posted By: zerofcksgiven
Re: I did once
Got sick at dinner was not at my best behind closed doors.Offered him a free session to make up for it.  
 He did agree to it but could not commit to a specific date and time this went on every time he came to town for almost a year.Started to feel like I was being strung along.Finally told him I could not honor the free appointment damn near a year later.Ridiculous!

ROGM69 reads

Posted By: zerofcksgiven
Re: I did once
Got sick at dinner was not at my best behind closed doors.Offered him a free session to make up for it.  
 He did agree to it but could not commit to a specific date and time this went on every time he came to town for almost a year.Started to feel like I was being strung along.Finally told him I could not honor the free appointment damn near a year later.Ridiculous!
His loss. After almost a year you were still offering a "Make Up" session to this guy?  Kudos to you for trying to do the right thing.

ROGM76 reads

She asked me to drive her to meet a regular client. I park and wait in my car. The session was supposed to last 30 minutes. The session lasted 75 minutes. She got in my car and was upset. Turns out that the client couldn't finish. So she graciously stayed longer than the agreed paid time to help this guy finish. He's an older guy. Around mid 60's. He never did finish. I know next time, if there is a next time, she won't stay longer than the agreed time with this client.    

I have never missed an appointment. I truly hope I will never have an incident where I have to cancel. I have great respect for other people's valuable time. I enjoy being professional, fun, and sexy all at the same time. I like that my clients choose to plan ahead or I like to persuade them to do so. By planning ahead I am able to make sure I put aside that time just for them. I am devoted to that one person and I mentally prepare myself to let nothing sway my good mood. Having a bad day is not an excuse for me.

ROGM72 reads

I just want to say thanks to the awesome providers that make it up to a client. Most providers wouldn't do this. The ones that do I say thank you.

I’ve never had a provider offer to “make it up to me” for a bad experience.  I have had one or two offer to make it up to me for a cancellation and those sessions have been good.  I simply will not repeat if there is no chemistry or the provider is not into it for some reason.  

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Posted By: Rickshaw17
Re: I will not repeat after a bad session...
I’ve never had a provider offer to “make it up to me” for a bad experience.  I have had one or two offer to make it up to me for a cancellation and those sessions have been good.  I simply will not repeat if there is no chemistry or the provider is not into it for some reason.  
I agree. First time bad experience no make up session or repeat for me. On the no chemistry or not into the session vibe I also agree.  

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