I saw that a new provider had moved to my area so I sent an email with my info in an attempt to set up an appointment. A couple days passed with no response, so I sent another email in case my first got dumped into the spam folder (its happened before). Not my info again, just asking if she had seen my first. A couple more days passed with no response, I tried filling out her website form. A week passed and still nothing, my TER profile got promoted to VIP again so I thought to try sending a TER message. A few more days passed and here we are. I tried one more email today, so hopefully that will get a response.

Dude, it's not 5 strikes and your out you know, it's three. LOL

While yes, it is polite and good business practice to respond with some sort of answer, nowhere is it spelled she should. If she's interested in seeing you, more than likely she'll be in touch. If she's not, let the chips fall where they may and move on. That's my suggestion. Now smile and find another playmate

...energy to the next exact girl of yours, who will be quicker to response.

If your post here doesn't elicit a response from her, move on. Her silence is deafening. Don't waste any more of your time trying to contact her. Good luck.

Not going to go into all the details but I emailed a provider with all the info she wanted which included my references. She even asked where I worked. Never heard back. The kicker is she sent me a private message on TER a year later asking me a question. I answered and asked if she would set a date with me.  Nothing. Some things we'll never know.

Seems to work well for me most of the time.
But we all have a threshold for indifference ...
what is yours?  

maybe you have gone to the well too many times?  I try to put myself in the other person's place.  In some areas persistence is admirable.........in others........not so much.  Only she knows her comfort level........when all else fails.........regroup.

...its time to put her on your own "do not see" list and move on. Some providers are truly just ass-holes and ignore innocent queries. Fuck 'em. Most, however, will at least reply to a polite email. I recently received a reply 2 months later from a provider who said that my email accidentally wound up in her spam folder. You just never know.

It truly depends on the nature of your email. I wouldn't reply to someone that was disrespectful, rude or vulgar in any way. However if someone did not pass the light screening, or made me uncomfortable somehow or my schedule doesn't allow for me to book an appointment with them, I would absolutely and politely reply to reject the invitation with my reasons. However seeming as you truly want to see her so bad I doubt you've done anything of the sort.  

you've probably built her up in your mind more than she in reality would measure up to (the old "i can't have it so i want it more" syndrome).

Spam folder my ass.

This kinda says it all to me. She probably has a booker and is overwhelmed by the demands. They're also probably looking at multi hours dates and skipping the 1 hour gigs. Me? I'd move along and if she gets back to you, and you're still feeling it, then go hit it.

get the hint my friend. I'm pretty sure there's another provider out there for you. How many times could you possibly keep writing. I would just let her be, if she's not answering she's either too busy (which us providers never are to answer an email) or for some reason she's not interested, the fact that you keep on writing to her probably leaves a bad taste in her mouth. In my humble opinion maybe you should move on.

....but I gotta admit at least she replied. It was way too late, of course - but she did reply. Which is more than I can say for some. But if there is a bright side, the prompt responders heavily outweigh the stupid/clueless/cunty ones by a very wide margin, at least in my experience.

I don't always apply the same IRL restraint and skepticism that I might when I hobby. I said sometime.  

Nope. Some ladies want to do ALL of their own work and refuse to hire someone to help with the hundreds of emails they get, but being none responsive is a sure way to end up on many Do Not See Lists fast. I scratch providers off my list for being non responsive. It's just bad business.

Hope you appreciate the fact that you are one of the few hobbyist on here who can say, "cunty" without getting bitch slapped into last week.  
 

Unless you are saying,"! Want to see you on X date for X hours you're probably considered a "tire kicker".  Girls get 100s of emails when they tour. Not all of them are date requests. Be SPECIFIC. She's not a mind reader. I also use 411 to contact providers. It seems better for getting a response for date requests. Keep in mind the saying,

You crossed a line somehow in your first message such as suggesting sex for pay, or similar wording.

if you have seen her ads etc. Move on. The more you persist now, the worse you will make it.

I so want to change my handle to that.

but once you started posting here again ... you know 1+1 ...  dead giveaway, you have your own style h+t ... oh yeah.

Knew what the majorities answer was going to be before I asked. Just one of those situations where I wanted to hear the answer back before I did it. I will listen to calmer minds and drop trying to contact the lady in question. As much as I would have loved to see this beautiful provider, I would hate to be viewed as some kind of creepy stalker. Oh well as others have said, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.