While the rest of us just look like Goddamned Greeks. lol

I am sure that you are one of the very, very few that get these kind of comments and you should feel very, very good about yourself.

you need to ask a sibling.

I come from a large family that just celebrated Thanksgiving, and I know of that which I speak.

I have  a question.
 
So I've seen 12-13 providers this year after taking a break from the hobby for 5 years.

I'm simply too old for something like that.

I once had a lady tell me I was the hottest client she ever had. It cried a little inside for her.

-- Modified on 12/11/2014 1:39:04 PM

You pay these women to provide a service: to have "romantic fun" with you and make you feel good. Compliments are part and parcel of that package. I would not take what they say as any sort of objective evaluation of how you actually look. For that, you are better off simply posting on an anonymous internet site (hot or not maybe?) or something, where anonymous people who have nothing to lose will let you know honestly. Not people who are trying to make money off you. This is not to say that none of these women mean what they say, as there are many (including myself) who try to be honest, or at least not say anything if there is nothing nice to say. However, it is simply not a good way to find out objectively what you look like (if that is indeed your aim). If it's not your aim, then I guess just believe whatever you like.

If so, you can look at your reflection and decide for yourself if you're good looking or not. Some people look better than ever, and presumably you spruce up a bit before heading off to visit a woman. So, it might very well be true that you're good looking or cute. I've often been told I'm handsome. Never cute. But she's going to give you whatever compliments are within the outermost ring of the target. If both sides of your face are more or less symmetrical, that can pass for cute, IMO, or for handsome or good looking. Also, if they let you have a mirror, they might let you have a scale. If your weight is proportionate to your height, that would deserve a compliment. They're probably telling you the truth. Good looks aren't that rare.

All true. Although none have ever said I have a huge cock(which I don't). I would know that's a lie.

For starters, I place you all in a giant pool. In that pool, there are really unattractive to decent, although not decent enough for me to be attracted to (very fricken picky like some johns are).

I would like proof that the OP is actually a "grown ass man" I seriously have my doubts.

I sometime ask them and they say most they see are either old or fat. So in comparison, I can see where I would be an improvement over both!

I try to say nice things to people but I never say anything I don't think is true. So if they are very good looking or hot then I tell them that. Maybe they have something else that I find attractive and I will tell them that instead. There is always something that can be sincerely complimented whether it be your smile, eyes, physique, voice, breath, clothing, the way you touch me. But if you are the complete package in the looks department then I tell you you are hot or really good looking.  
Enjoy the compliment. You are a stud.

...for George Costanza...

I do the same thing with providers.

Listen to it. Love it! Fucking believe it!  
Then, when the time is up. Go home lifted. Hey!
I know it's mostly bullshit. But "tell me more!" Thats what I say!
That's how I get pleasure from comments like that from escorts.
It's just another fun thing to do. Done well it can escalate to erotic whatnot's..

When I look at the mirror, I think I'm decent to good looking. Obviously all IMO. Just surprises me that they would agree with my assessment, since the girls I generally see are attractive to very attractive.  

You made me laugh...thanks. Especially the last sentence.

I think she intended it for my "cute" wallet...

Or maybe not, I obviously don't know you...
But I will say, I have gotten a lot out of this hobby that has transferred to other situations.
Of course every compliment doesn't come with the same level of sincerity, but who cares? Just accept them all the same.
I'll admit I needed a little shot of confidence before I started this - but just being yourself, friendly, respectful, and taking care of your body goes a long way toward getting positive reactions.  Having done "everything" with so many absoultely stunning women certainly has made me more relaxed and confident around other women - and somewhat to my surprise I've basically gotten similar reactions from them too (okay, obviously they aren't sucking my dick within 5 minutes of meeting me, lol - but the flirtation is similar).  Friendly confidence goes a long way...

If we say you’re handsome, it means you showered within the last 12 hours.
If we say you’re cute, it means you still have some of your hair.
If we say you’re hot, it means your socks match.
If we call you a stud, it means your boobs are smaller than ours

A very beautiful woman will see you the same as an ugly woman. If you are attractive to one, you'll be just as attractive to the next, doesn't matter what she looks like. It's like a burger tastes the same no matter who eats it.

I know I'm not an attractive man, not ugly just not attractive. And that's OK, if everyone was beautiful, then no one would be.  

you have an amazing ass.

I'm talking to myself.

Been told the same either real handsome ,or hot for my age, but most of all is my dick size and girth.

after or during a session and say "Hey, you know what, You ARE kinda cute, in a sort of surprised manner, like they weren't expecting it.

I don't get compliments,  

I'm lucky, got great genes from my parents. Still do my mini workout 5 days a week. So I'm still holding on. To my six pack at age  53. I get complimented more on my body than looks. But every now an then I'm told I'm handsome or cute.

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Your honor, Look, I get it. I know, I have been in a room alone with him... But look, my offer to plead to 2nd degree idiocy is still on the table. There is no need to waste the court's time and resources with a trial on this... Get the DA to take the deal and my guy'll get the sterilization and the giant I tattoo on his forehead and we can all go get a drink somewhere on me? How's that. Win/win/win!

....that's a compliment that does not often come out of my mouth in the hobby or outside of it. I might think it more than I actually say it.
So ... if I verbally compliment you on your looks you'll shut up, take it and like it.
What should matter more is how we treat you (like a king).
'K bye.

-- Modified on 12/12/2014 9:14:51 AM

Probably writing an email to a hooker asking for an appointment. He only has 3 hr window you see...

Nice! I workout 4 days a week. A sixpack at 53 is awesome!

Maybe it's just me but I'm not sure I'd talk too much about keeping track of the providers who say your cute vs those who do not.   Sorry, but I think it starts to sound a little narcissistic.    

-- Modified on 12/12/2014 2:17:46 PM

Wasn't trying to brag or be narcissistic.

Yes. I do not want to brag too much, but most providers tell me I am handsome. I work out on treadmills and ellipticals 5X per week, sometimes at 90 minutes a crack. I do not smoke, and I do not overstay myself to the outdoor elements, so as a result I have smooth skin.   Most of the time, I am dressed well, when I meet a provider.  It also is in the way I carry myself.   An ex-girlfriend told me I have an air about me, that women who have never met me, automatically assume I am wealthy. Many providers are shocked that I do not have a SO, and have never been married.

Some are mad because they fee some hookers fake it or lie. Well some hookers do, and do both. Because we are selling you an experience. And yes sometimes it really is just part f that experience and sometimes it is the absolute truth.  

rue. There is the illusion and it's easy to break if your compliment is too far out there. Like if the provider said I had a huge cock, I would completely lose that illusion. Since I'm average at best in length.

a man just because they are physically fit.

all they care about is getting paid, and on to the next one.

Find it really funny when some guy thinks he is hot and I am like ok whatever as long as you have washed and you are a nice person no one really cares or sees it. There are tons and tons of good looking guys that visit sex workers. Has the pussy doctor once said seen one pussy seen them all it takes a little bit more personality wise. Most girls prefer a lovely guy.

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