Ladies, do you spend significant time dealing with time wasters? If so, what are the various ways that time wasting occurs? Are there some creative guys out there? I imagine the most common category is guys who contact you just for the thrill but don't schedule meetings.

Are you planning on being a time waster?  Have you ever worked in the real world with customers?  I imagine not.

Unlike you I don't know everything and sometimes I think it best to ask those who might have direct knowledge.

that might even give the impression of time wasting. That seems to make things go smoother, and I'm sure they appreciate it.

The most common offense is actually the guys who are too lazy to read any of our info, so they'll instead contact us asking questions that are already clearly spelled out on our ads/websites.  

Let me try and simplify on how not to be a time waster.  Research who you are interested in meeting first.  If she's got a website, review it and most often easy to follow directions are contained within.  

I have both an assistant and  auto response to take care of that. I will not bother responding to anyone who has not been screened or is at least asking a question that makes sense. Guys who constantly bombard our emails asking when we are coming to town yet never offer to get us there, are a waste of time unless it's guy I know from the boards... they generally pm me which is totally fine. Why is it a waste of time from random people?  Because the very same guys who send those emails are never around when you finally DO make it to their town. It's a baseless email unless he is prepared to pay to get her there. If not, then look at the ad boards for her and that's when she will be there lol. Gawd.  

Limit the amount of text.

Contact girl 1-2 months in advance.  Get screened and approved.  Then become her email penpal (email lengthy role play scenarios, wardrobe requests, irrelevant questions.)  Then after 100 emails, he typically cancels the day before the date due to some asinine reason.  (Death in the family/emergency surgery/)

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You sure do spend a lot of time accusing OTHERS of never having a real job, when you backpage bargain hunt in freaking LA lol. Seriously, who the fk would take business or financial advice from YOU? Next...

I do have to agree with this... guys have a VERY short attention span especially when tits and ass are in their face ha ha. I try to keep the fluff on the Home and Bio pages and the Rates and Contact pages are pretty straight forward. I have a form, but do not insist guys use it, nor do I make them go hunting down my email on another page or worse.. not having it there at all. Whether a guy emails me the info or fills out the form, I don't give a shit. As long as the info is there when he contacts me. we are all good.  

Only makes sense.  Respecting their time........is always a good thing.........and goes a long way in building rapport...........don't you think?

but only do when there is something worth my while to read.

It called an interview If I call a lady and she has a tv radio pimp voice or just sound tired I will not book also I call first then Google numbers/ter numbers to see is she ok also cops like thughs move on by the next day so you dont see them. If you dont want calls dont put up sings adds.

Summer Fridays are not days I get a lot of emails (people go away for weekends), and today is no different. I only got one. It was from p411.  

One told me she is an aspiring actress and has worked with Tom Cruise already.

is the provider who communicates with you all week long (up until the night before the date), responds to your emails promptly, gets you excited, and on the day of the date she pulls a NCNS.

I see that you're getting old and now worry that you won't have any guys calling you.  With your attitude I guess that it'll be public aid soon.  You should offer half hour sessions.  These women tell me they make really good money.  I'm meeting a TS later today.  I'm sure you think that is disgusting as well.

Your post about Mr. Needies  and time wasters got me thinking about my own communication with ladies that I have met.  Generally, I only contact a lady when I am ready to book.  I keep my emails as short and simple as possible and still try to provide all information needed.  I will also confirm once or twice depending on how far in advance I booked, but that is usually the extent of our email communication.

Dear Ms. Rayne:
I was just wondering do you cross reference their hobbying activity before you dignify them with a response?  This would be a critical step for those who might have a hobbying history versus those who don't.  Then you or your assistant can discern who to give a response to and who does she not give a response to.  Or would most of the men who interact with you in this manner seem to have an invisible online presence with respect to their reviews?  
Finally do you address the tenor of the letter and decide if this is someone credible from what they are asking or is it someone who might not be substantive in the nature and scope of items that he is inquiring about?  Asking questions of that nature would certainly save you time and keep you sane.

If she initiates contact, it's perfectly reasonable for you to respond.  

As a framing contractor I spend a ton of time looking at and bidding jobs that people bring to me. I am lucky if I get 25% of them. Do I think they wasted my time? NO! They wanted info and a bid and then went a different route. Sometimes negotiation can last for weeks with no positive outcome for me. I receive nothing for my time and effort. So be it. It is how the business world works. You Ho's are starting to feel a little to entitled when you start crying about potential tricks wasting your time.

Pssst, accomplished providers do not have to offer bargain basement rates and put up with guys like you. If I was soooo worried about guys calling, don't you think my rates would be LOWER? Poor thing... broke and deluded. Tell me, how many guys does a provider have to see to make 1k a week if she's charging 100? How many does a provider have to see a week who charges 500 to make that same 1k? How about 700? I will let you see if you can figure that out all on your own lol.

Your business REQUIRES you do that shit... ours does not. We set our own rules, our own hours, rates and schedules. Sorry if you can't do that, but until you have PIMP in front of your username, you will not be telling any 'ho' what to put up with. We don't owe you a damn thing until AFTER you pay. And, you guys need to make up your mind about whether or not being an escort is a real job or not, because I could have sworn it was the latter. In any business a smart person would figure out ways  to minimize the amount of time they spend dealing with idiots... we have figured out a way to do that. Again, I am sorry if the job you chose makes that perk impossible for you. Perhaps we should tell you to 'go find another job if you don't like it.' Is that not what we are told all the time? Yah... lol.

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jacked off and cancelled the job the day before you were scheduled to begin work, you might get a little annoyed too.

I knew it.

while taking up as much of her time as possible (for setting up the fruitless appointment) in the process.

Hate to break it to you, but the men that see me do not run in your circles, nor could they. That is how dumb you are... if you knew a thing about real competition, marketing and branding you would have realized that older and younger women do not compete with each other. The two demographics are like night and day, as you have clearly proven with your ignorant posts. Why are you trying so hard to convince me that theem  women you see are so great? Psst. generally the REVIEWS will do that for them. Can't wait.

Because they are directly competing with the younger, hotter and in shape ones.  Sheesh...you are simply out of touch with reality.  I guess at your age it's understandable.  If I saw you, you would like me.  But I don't pay much.   I like to be judicious with my money.

If she's mailing you stuff (even if it's a mass email) you're perfectly welcome to say, 'Thanks' or 'Hot photo!'  

Think I'd consider hiring a screener/booker. Not the one who just posted that  
"Retirement" BS tho. He's kinda a douche bag.  

Or the provider who goes out of her way to post a lot of local ads looking for business, only to never respond to real (not BS) emails. I have wasted time waiting around for some thoughtless bitch's reply that never came, when I could have been scheduling someone else.

I just relocated my entire family to Frog Balls and now I find out its a den of sin???!!!

+1 there! I don't like waiting for a provider to confirm a time when it should be a simple yes or no. I hate telling them,"hey, "I'm going with someone who was a little more responsive" I have shit to do also ya know.