Why can't we all just get along? Is this an extreme case of jealousy? It's just sad.

No matter how much she harasses you, do not engage.  

and sometimes it's not pretty when BSC hookers go to war with each other.  

She doesn't need to prove her site and artistic expressions are stolen from that other provider. If the other girl took the time to harass month after month; she's someone to stay away from. Simple as that.

That ridiculous. I've had problems with references too, one of them went crazy on me cause I saw the client. She gave him a bad reference and called him a pedophile for seeing me. He send me the screenshots.  

Everything from malicious board posts, unfounded accusations made anonymously, to blackmailing any of her supporters, all the way to outing and dropping a dime to LE.  

I don't have time to engage petty people. I am drama free. Some people can't handle it when someone is doing well. Always want to start something. They thrive on drama and negativity.
Last time she harassed me she gave a fake apology for "getting out of character and overreacting". It's almost bipolar.

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You can only have a fight if there are 2 people involved, cut yourself out of the fight and she can't do much about it.
If she tries  to contact you with a different email address block that one to.  

than them. Works like a charm.

Holy cow!

Providers don't have an exclusive on that. I've run into crazy clients (I'm sure providers do too), crazy drivers, crazy presidential candidates etc.  

Newsflash, but being a high school teacher is only one very small step up from selling woman's shoes.

How references work is one lady grants her time out of courtesy by giving a reference for another lady.  That lady in turn grants her time to give references to others.  Now...we are all paid for our time, so if there is a lady like me that simply does not ask for references, it makes no sense to put the time into giving them.  There are also ladies that don't give references after a year.  Now, how long does she have to be on the line to write references for one visit?  It makes no sense monetarily, so everyone isn't always jealous of you.

I second that.

Posted By: Alan_Nimm

Providers don't have an exclusive on that. I've run into crazy clients (I'm sure providers do too), crazy drivers, crazy presidential candidates etc.  
   
 Good advice above to not engage... stay as far away from the crazies as you can. But if they threaten you or your loved ones, do what you need to do to protect yourself and them.

obviously not, or you wouldn't compare it to selling shoes.

I'd much rather be Al Bundy selling women's shoes

While the rest of the comment does sound a little BSC, this first part ...

I've had several go off the deep end on me. The stories I could tell. I've also heard some pretty scary stories from atfs. I'll add yours to the list. However, I do know a gentleman who fervently believes that the crazies make the wildest lovers. I'll take a pass on that. Vanilla works for me.

Thank you for the compliment dear.

I never said the reference lady was jealous of me. Where are you reading that? Reference was in reply to Miss Sasha comment.  
The main topic is the lady harassing me for no reason.

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Before I knew very much about privacy or safe providing, I had an escort bullying me.  She accused me of " stealing" a part of her name.  I was perplexed, yes at the oddity of anyone in this bizz trying to claim ownership of any words, but also, at the time, I had been using my actual birth name.  I was naive enough back then to just use my reAl name.  So obviously I was not copying her.  Petty.  But I just deleted her raving lunatic emails and avoided her.  No harm.  She's the one who lost sleep over it.  I just went on with my life.
Lolol seductress... That's a pretty common word in this industry.  Ridiculous squabbles.  I don't think that someone who is doing well and is happy with their personae and status would be fretting about someone else's verbiage or stage name.  If you're doing well it's a lot more to do with ... Well..other things.
Now... Nobody else better use the word.. "Verbiage" in their post cause I came up with that and you'd be copying me.

SAG has rules about UNIQUE names: "Like other guilds and associations that represent actors, SAG rules stipulated that no two members may have identical working names unless it is the Person's Birth Name and then they are allowed to use it."  But many add a middle initial, just to keep things clear.

Best line of the thread!!!😀😃😆

There is a hooker in Atlanta that goes by VIP Veronica who was just this week called out for bad behavior with a client who once went ape shit on some other woman who committed the sin of using "VIP" in her name as well. I guess this BSC hooker thinks she can copyright the term "VIP" like your BSC hooker thinks she can copyright "seductress"