Having so much noise that I couldn't hear her would be annoying. But that would be the same for anyone I was talking to on the phone, in any context.
But as to the fact that she has children, and a life outside of the hobby, that doesn't bother me at all. It all depends on the guy, I guess. In fact, it is kind of reassuring to me. It hints at stability, practicality and a better understanding of discretion. If she has a real life, unlike the hypothetical teddy-clad lady who does nothing but wait for admirers to call, then she understands the value of privacy and separation of her two lives. Just like many of us have a separation of our two lives.
Besides, a mom has a handle on how to deal with children. And in our own way aren't we all a little childish? I know that I have some of that curious and mischevious little boy inside that I never want to lose. I don't have a mommy fetish, but I am attracted to the MILFs.
I believe this has been discussed before, but I called a provider the other day and I could hardly hear her with all the TV noise in the background, kids screaming and misc. sounds. The same thing occurred a couple of weeks ago. Is it just me, or is there nothing more "mood killing" than when you see a post witha photo of a beautiful lady, you read what she is about and sense she is your perfect match, and then when dial the number with anticipation you hear all these annoying sounds in the background. I didn't set up anything as I was no longer interested. Anyone else have these same issues?
I guess I can see why it would bother you, but thats life I am afraid. Quite often I am driving with the kids in the car or making dinner when I get a call and it isn't always possable to excuse myself from the situation.
You don't think we are all just lying around in teddys and heels just waiting on a call from you do you? Its almost like when your kids see their teacher in the grocery store, kind a blows the fantasy huh? Well the reality is, we have real lives as well and sometimes they do run into each other. then again, if you have a milf fantasy, hey it might work for you. Try to have fun anyway, I am sure she will leave the kids at home with the diaper bag.
Durn you for ruining my fantasy. Here I was picturing you "lying around in teddys and heels just waiting on a call from you". Now I have to come up with a new one. And that one was working so well for me...
I wasn't talking about myself so much, oh no I am here in heels and a teddy phone in hand... but they can't all be like me. lol continue with your fantasy.
Having so much noise that I couldn't hear her would be annoying. But that would be the same for anyone I was talking to on the phone, in any context.
But as to the fact that she has children, and a life outside of the hobby, that doesn't bother me at all. It all depends on the guy, I guess. In fact, it is kind of reassuring to me. It hints at stability, practicality and a better understanding of discretion. If she has a real life, unlike the hypothetical teddy-clad lady who does nothing but wait for admirers to call, then she understands the value of privacy and separation of her two lives. Just like many of us have a separation of our two lives.
Besides, a mom has a handle on how to deal with children. And in our own way aren't we all a little childish? I know that I have some of that curious and mischevious little boy inside that I never want to lose. I don't have a mommy fetish, but I am attracted to the MILFs.
I am sorry, but we here at Marvel will now have to let you go for failure to provide us with the approopriate fantasy fulfillment image. In our contract we were to provide you with $300 per hour when in our presence and you were to remain on call 24/7/365 dressed in high heals, teddy and completely shaved nude. You were also to never menstruate and be appropriately "wet" upon hearing our voice.
You have failed to live up to your part of the bargain. I cannot understand your desire to "have a life" outside of my presence... I mean, aren't I all that you live for? While the presence of children may mean that you are fertile, I am apalled by this evidence that you have actually had sex with another male. (uh, they are some other dude's progeny.... right???) Am I not sufficient to keep you well serviced? Is it not enough that when it suites me, that I call you and allow you to service me... heck, you should be paying me now that I think of it....
So, phuleese keep the rug rats outta my sight and earshot, as they bother me..... whenever I call, at my convenience... And next time I call, you better be sexed up, and hot and wet... and you had better drop everything you are doing.... and be prepared to service me...
The fact that you feel I have let you as well as Marvel down, saddens me to no end. I am willing to do what ever it takes to get back in your good graces once again. I think a spanking may be in order here...lol for you...
Waiting for you, shaved in heels, teddy and wet... xoxox Nicole
This is the main reason I only use my email as first contact. With two kids and a busy life, I can't always talk freely. I am a "fantasy", whatever that may entail -- Probably the MILF who is always dressed provocatively, smile on her face with two faceless children quietly following behind her. Yea, that's my life. NOT. lol Reality is a much different picture. But as I am being paid for the fantasy, I keep phone contact to a minimum.
I could get into a Tennesee Williams kind of fantasy involving seducing a harried and sexually frustrated housewife away from her kids and stove and making her run off with me for life in the fast lane.
Or getting her to walk around the white picket fence between your houses and sit having an iced tea on your veranda before wandering inside for a bit while the kids play outside. Since this is Mayberry, you know Andy and Barney would never bust you.
Huh? You mean we have to have total silence now on top of everything else???
Why on earth should I turn my TV off just because the phone rang?? Sometimes it rings off the hook, other days not so much. I'm not going to "pause" in my life just because you were kind enough to call me.
Filing this one under "Oops, I forgot once again we ladies aren't allowed to have a real life"
How about you suggest to your "beautiful Lady" that you/she call back when she IS ABLE to talk.
If you suggest something like that...she might get the message. Sometimes we have to teach by example. Not everyone has the same set of business/life skills. I think we all need to be more pro-active. I know if you had suggested talking at a more convenient time, you might not have been frustrated. You might have connected in a later conversation and ???? you might not have made this post.
First, I don't have children, but second I don't want my phone ringing all day (half of which are obscene callers), and also because I do freelance work and don't want to be constantly distracted from it -- just as I don't allow distractions with my dates.
Once we have gone through the screening process, then we may talk on the phone if you would like to hear my voice. I find this is so much easier, less time-consuming, and then I only get serious people looking for appointments, too.
The keypad is too small and it takes too long. Now, if a gentleman wants to text me to say he just got in and gives me his room number because he cannot talk, that's okay. But remember gentlemen, a lot of ladies (especially mature ladies) do not like texting. I don't even have that as part of my cell plan so I get charged for it, so please DON'T TEXT ME!
Texting a friend or lover while you're in a boring meeting. Geez can't people wait until they get a call? What would these people do if they had to go back to being at home to get a phone call, or when there weren't any cell phones, texting or even answering machines.
this is yet another reason why i also use email for initial contacts. not only does it weed out those who are just getting themselves worked up looking at sexy pictures and want to see someone immediately (not what i do at all), it also makes the first phone conversation something special that you can each look forward to.
the first time i call a gent (i always call first, as i do not provide a phone no. to those i have not seen), i am relaxed, you will hear no television or household ruckus, just the sound of our two voices mingling and getting accustomed to one another. i can totally understand how hearing kids, a loud tv, etc. would be a turn-off..not so much because we providers are not supposed to have real lives, but imo moreso because it's showing you as the potential client just how low she is placing you on her scale of priorities at that moment. if she does not even feel you are worthy of a private, attentive phone conversation, i do believe that says something.
but then this is coming from a provider who does email first, so what do i know.
Use some common sense here! Providers have personal lives, too. Many of us have children, I for one have 2 teenage sons..do you expect us to lock them in their rooms in silence, just in case the phone rings? I've answered calls while shopping and the intercom is going off, while having dinner at a restaurant, hell I've even answered the phone while I'm at the firing range! Does that make me any less attractive or affect my ability to take a man over the edge in the bedroom? I think not!
The first two years of their lives we spend countless hours encouraging them to talk and walk, then for the next 18 years we are constantly telling them to sit down and shut up.
And of course we all know that S I C k means they rock!!
I know. Forget about teaching kids to walk and talk.
It should be Text and SURF
I like the sounds that come from kids....unless I am trying to talk on the tele. And kids always know when we are on the tele...it seems they get louder. it is amazing what happens in a house with kids when Mom answers the phone.
I'm much more interested in seeing people who are real and with whom I can find some common ground to share life experiences. My kids aren't at home any longer but i can sure remember those days!
I contacted a provider who does not use email. A man answered and it caught me totally off guard. What is an answering service, a boyfriend, a cop, another hobbyist? There was no way to tell without asking questions, so I apologized for the wrong number, and moved on to another provider.
I am nervous naturally on first contact, so this kind of freaked me out. A real woman with kids, and noise are more familiar to me.
When I go camping I like the sound of birds in the morning ,and I am assured there is no incoming and I can go back to sleep . When I visit a MILF, if I know she has happy screaming children she is also happy and will keep me coming without letting me sleep.
Seriously, some of the hottest women I've been with are moms..... hot mamas...
AND if she advertises as an indy, well, you know she is if she answers with the kiddos in the background.
I would say you've limited your pleasure. In my experiences, I can no longer tell if a woman has had kids, never had kids... or even wants kids... Mostly though, if a woman (or a man) has kids, they seem to respond differently to things... they are less driven to have everything be perfect... and in that light they are more able to laugh off more easily some of lifes imperfections...
That is not to say that some who've never experienced parenthood can't have those qualities, and that some who have had kids are this way, but as a general rule - mostly that is what it seems to me....
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