I need to ask a question...
What would you do if you accidentally found out a providers real ID?
Relax guys... I didn't review her, and it happened a very long time ago.

and I know other guys who do, too.  I never have, and never will, divulge it to anyone.  There is not a single person I'm aquainted with who has this kind of knowledge who has done that.  In fact, I know a lot more than just identity in a few cases.  You are right that girls need to be careful with this kind of info because there are a lot of nutty, manipulative guys in this game (just as there are a lot of BSC girls).  But it's possible to find people you can trust.  I am lucky to know a bunch of them.

You act like some action is necessary.  How about you just keep it all to yourself and do nothing....the fact you even pretend to be conflicted, as the "White Knight" is scary enough for all providers.

It didn't bother me either.. Here is the thing.. We all know that the stage name is fake name. So whats the big deal. Now if a friend in your civvie life were hiding his/her real name from you, and you were to find out John Doe's real identity, I can understand the shock and the overall anxiety..

Please figure out how this site works, as I pointed out quite clearly I never intended to do anything with the info I had.

I googled her photo and came across hundreds of her real photos as a model. I emailed her and told her how easy it was to find out her real identity. Later on I booked an appt.  I kept it all to myself.

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Long ago I was pretty much turned away by my then steady provider who was a little kooky anyway ( I suspect drugs and alcohol abuse ) but incredibly gorgeous.How gorgeous? Every major rag and paparazzi gorgeous.  I never knew her ID when we were together and one day looked up her apt# and there was all her real info because she was listed as the owner. She would  have absolutely freaked if she knew anyone had this knowledge and despite her rejection of me her secret is always safe because in her main stream life she is a huge celebrity and why ruin another's career?. Sure it hurt to have been ignored, rejected and try & figure why someone turned on you but you have to have honor and respect especially when you have a secret life as well. Try and remember the good times and be grateful someone shared all they had with you until they didn't want any further time. We have to swallow our pride it is best solution.

Okay, there was a thread earlier about being Facebook friends. I'm friends on FB with one of my regulars and know all my regulars full names and where a few of them live. I didn't search, they told me. I guess its just a matter of trust that builds between two friends that play in the P4P world.

LMAO. Now we know why so many guy's and gal's full names are all over the blacklist sites. Trust is something that can be easily betrayed when one falls in love, gets pissed for whatever reason, or wants a discount. Did you really use "trust" on a fk board where guys are cheating on their wives, and we take money for it? Priceless.

Exactly

because it would help her not do the same mistake. When you do it, if you do, make sure that it comes across as caring about her well being. I would be scared otherwise if it got brought up to me. Be as nice and harmless as possible. It can only help her in the long wrong.

I met this girl once. There is no way she knows me well enough to know that shit.
Now that I think about it. I should have made a joke about it.
Like. "Hey Dumbass! Put that away!"

So you think it is better to let her keep on outing herself

What you do is, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. If someone tells you something in confidence or you find information about someone you do not publish it, use it for your own personal gain, provide it someone else for their personal gain, use it for anything that would or could harm the person.

BY searching Google, or by using Google to look up her apartment number???? WTF ? You didn't find out jack shit, you're STALKING her with the hopes of discovering some personal info using the most basic of all manners of doing so...

I DO agree with shutting the fk up if a provider tells you something in confidence, but that is not what happened here. If you can google a provider name or email and it leads you to her REAL INFORMATION, you should tell her. It's not creepy or stalkerish to google a provider's info. Guys do this ALL THE TIME to try and avoid fakes, rip offs, and bait and switch, so it is not a revelation that you guys do this.  

...if you see a provider with any degree of regularity.  It is not a big deal.  Just as with other responders in this thread, in many cases, I know a whole lot more than real names.

Just don't share the information with anyone.  The first rule of Fight Club is....(you know the drill).

Who said anything about cheating on a wife? I know I didn't.

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Fact 1: Two Baptists see each other in a liquor store.  

I didn't learn her name online. I learned it at her incall..
I read it... So what right? I just saw a name, and an address.
A combination of things happened that made it obvious it was her.