Providers how do you switch from being a sugarbabe to a provider after you lost a sugar daddy who paying 25 to 100% of your monthly living expenses ?

I know you probably don't wish to hear this, but to be direct, you should have financially prepared yourself and known that it was only a temporary agreement- unless otherwise discussed.  Either way- should have, could have, would have.  
Fast forward to where you are now.  I suggest you do what is right- meaning what feels right between those with whom you are considering ¨regulars¨ and for those that will be meeting you for the first time.
I never thought of lowering my specified donations.  However, I am selective with whom I choose to see- so, even if worse came to what you are describing as worse, I most certainly would not go for a lower donation in hopes of growing your client-friend base in order to make up for what your SD had been providing you.  I am sorry if that is of no help, but unless you want to ¨pump up that VOLUME¨ - stick to what you had prior.  
Message me when you have a chance.  I would be more than happy to speak more directly with you in hopes of helping out in whatever way I can.
And feel free to email, call- whatever is best for you.
In the meantime, I must say, I appreciate your post and how very blunt it is.  
xoxox
Kisses,
Kristen Klein

Geesh , for a brief moment I was actually feeling sorry for you .

Were you born this stupid or have you been practicing in the mirror?
Either way, in your case, I think it's good that breathing requires no thought.

There is a legal difference and courts have found that having a mistress that you support financially is NOT illegal.
 

Kristen,  keep in mind when adjusting her rate the primary question should be how much will the market bear for my services?  This is the question she needs to ask herself when she goes back on the market.  The factors that will critical in answering this question is the last reviews, other women who are in the market and what they are charging and the level of service that she claims to offer.  Also the geographical area in which she lives because that will speak to the type of economy it is and the disposable income of the potential hobbyist who will eventually see her.  Then after she builds up a client base then maybe she can increase her donations as time goes by.  However since she has been out of circulation for quite some time she might have to take two steps back to go one step forward.

They will be $400 or more an hour when they have a sugar daddy.  Then when relationship is over they go to $300/hour or have a riddle for you to figure out to get the discount lol.

Fancy there is. Sugar Daddies pay for specific things and usually give larger donations thus cutting down the need to be a provider more frequently.  Regular clients pay by the hour and are not as financially invested in the general welfare of the escort in question.

Groceries, clothes, cash, driver license, dui fees, cellphone etc are some examples.  It can add up very quickly and cost more than an escort that you see on a regular basis.

I can't think of anything less exciting/interesting than having 2 wives!

But I am lucky, from what I hear.