i have always been perplexed .. and frankly annoyed but ladies that will enjoy my skills at DATY  and have massive wet orgasms all over my face but when its time to reciprocate,  on goes the condom for a CBJ.      now let's think, during DATY there is tons of fluid transfer and very intimate contact sometimes for up to 10 minutes ...    but nearly none with a BJ, especially us guys that don't or barely precum   ...and come on, a girl can tell when a guy is about to pop.  and hey if a guy surprises you, you have plenty of time to pull away for most of it.   compared to the flood i just swallowed    and if you are worried about surface contact, why aren't you worried about your own getting infected by oral contact.      

This won't happen.  The very first hooker I saw gave me a CBJ.  I hated it, so that was also the last.  After that, if BBBJ was not on the menu, then they don't get my business.  Its not that complicated.

Yeah, I'm with you, this confuses me too. I was in this exact scenario recently,  saw a lady that enjoyed my DATY skills, we went at it for a while and my face was covered in her lovely juices, and then when it was my turn she explained that she only does CBJ and everything else covered for safety reason, so then at that point what can you say. Nothing really.  I put it in my review just to help other fellas know about CBJ.  I agree with the other comment, do your research.  So I blame myself, I should have done my homework first.  In my case tho, this young lady was otherwise an amazing experience so it didn't really bother me, but it still didn't make sense that she allows DATY but then gives CBJ.    I suppose one thing you can do is ... don't do DATY first but instead ask for BBBJ first, and then if she only does CBJ, you can always skip the DATY so you don't feel cheated.  Hahah  

Look, CBJ equals no business from me, period!
Not only that but once I discover any mention of CBJ, my research on her is done.
does not matter how DDG she is, Not wasting my time checking out any additional information/pictures of her.

Keep on drinking the Kool-Aid. Some do, I suppose. But most are just good actors who want repeat business or a good review.

With DATY they need not look at you or Kiss  you and  you are not  creating callouses on their VJ
Even if they do not  enjoy it it is a lot less work!

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Some women naturally self lubricate very well, others apply lubes that don't have a taste, etc. But I guarantee you that they're not having multiple orgasms because of your supposed world class DATY skills. I mean really--does anyone over the age of 19 really believe these women are popping after a couple of minutes with your tongue? The last couple of professional women I saw who had what looked like real orgasms achieved those because the other woman in the duo performed DATY on her.  I'd love to believe I'm that good but that shit ain't the truth.

My ATF (retired for years now, sadly) had Oscar worthy faking skills. But when I started booking longer appointments with her, she looked at me and offered to teach me how to make her O.  

yep CBJ deal breaker  . i say no if thats what is offered and move on.   just means more time on her back .he he he he he . so its her call what she prefers    

but a distaste for CIM.  I know a few providers who’ll do CBJ until they trust the guy enough to know he won’t CIM.

Agreed. I have only seen two.providers with any real longevity, and I could bring them to O, but it took quite awhile. And one of those, I only got there twice in many appointments.  But she was quite honest about not really being able to cum from intercourse....she had quite an affinity for her Hitachi....
Hard to compete with that, and I suspect continued use of one would cause a desensitization of her clit.

While I agree in principle that it’s practically not very different but..Let’s think about this for a bit.  She most likely has a set menu when it comes to what she would do to you. What’s on the menu is generally on the menu and what’s off the menu is off, regardless of ones skills in the DATY arena (not saying there aren’t exceptions, but there’s reason there called exceptions). Rarely is there a secretive menu that you can partake in because of ones commanding skills in the language of cunnilingus. As previously discussed, giving the fine companion partner of yours her giant O is always great, but generally doesn’t happen after a few minutes.  I know we all like to think we are kings and can cause her to achieve orgasm simply by introducing ourselves, it’s more likely that she will l gladly lie on her back do nothing and let you do the work for however long you desire. Think of if the tables were turned and you were the provider and she was paying you. She pays you for an hour of your time and mentions you could give her DATY most of the time or instead, she offers that she could give you a nice long CBJ. Which one is more work for you??

Like many of you, I’m sure, I love a good blowjob. Vastly prefer BBBJ though I’ve had (just) a few good CBJs.  

A way I gauge if a lady is really interested DATY, is I ask them this question; "I take direction well, please guide me so I can give you the most pleasure".  It is not a test question, but I often find the ladies which actually verbalize, or physically guide me with their hands, at least have a spark of interest in the event.  

that don't will still tolerate it with a faux response for the reasons you state.

Once in a VIP room in a strip club in N Myrtle Beach.. it was great.. when I get one from a provider... not so great..  
I think the one in the club was a very nice surprise.. that was 6 years ago...now I still see her when I go to the beach.. but she comes over to my place..

I guess this is why you like longer appointments.

Some guys love to pleasure a woman and it's a big part of their enjoyment of sex. To them it's not just about fucking. But, hey, at least you're in touch with your own needs, so go for it. Sex is a many-splendored thing.

I realize that, I'm just stating my humble opinion on the matter.

Yes, all depends on the environment.  CBJ at an AMP is also standard.  Expected and enjoyable for the price.
Disappointing level of service from an escort though.