What is it about having sex with a provider that makes it 10 times better than civie sex?Is it the thrill of paying someone?Are working ladies known to be nastier in bed?what is it?What are your thoughts?

thrill of doing something that is illegal.  When I walk through those doors my heart pounds and races because I really don't know what's on the other side of door.  After about 15 days or so I still get that excitement and exhilaration.  Oh by the way I forgot to mention that some of the best looking women I have ever seen are in this business and to have an opportunity to be with them is mind blowing in of itself.

I don't think that sex from a hooker is necessarily any better than sex with a civvie.

it can also be that if a provider is any good and has half a brain she is really good at her job, she learns how to read body language and is able to give almost every individual what he or she wants.

It's only what's perceived in your mind...before, during and after

I've got to admit that some of the civies that I've played hide the salami with have been pretty damn good too...  
    Obviously a reflection of what a truly skilled lover I am!   ;

In my experience, I wouldn't say it's true, let alone 10x better. The main difference to me is less drama, less strings attached, etc., but the actual sex, with the right partner, civie or pro, it's a beautiful thing.

It's different, for sure....but it's not necessarily better. There are major pro's & con's of each. Though a sexual encounter is the common denominator, it really is apples & oranges psychologically.

Having sex with women that aren't constantly worried about LE is a definite plus.  Prostitutes are unseemly concerned about getting outed by johns, or other prostitutes.

Very few prostitutes really know how to do a decent BBBJCIM.  

Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret

Ask any hooker, when we play with a civvie, it's like they've just hit the lottery.  LOL!!  Especially when it comes to blowjobs...they've never had anything like we can deliver, and they are VERY vocal about it.  
   
 

all the collateral issues.  Best summed up by saying, "I don't have to call them in the morning."  Reading between the lines, it means, on my schedule, no commitment, no drama, and all the variety I want without pissing anyone off.  Can't get any of this with a civvie girl, but just the sex in a vacuum, both the same for me.

Exhibit A:  A friend of mine who's a civvie but also a monger was sucking my cock very expertly and enthusiastically.  I told her I wanted to fuck her and she said, "No, I need to keep sucking your cock."  Priceless.
Exhibit B: My second ex LOVES to worship cock.  After we separated and I started telling her about a hooker I'd become friends with, she asked if the lady would give her blowjob lessons because, "I want to be the best provider I can."  She didn't really need them. But what a great attitude.

civie that could fuck like a provider. And she was hot ! Civies cannot take it like providers. Some Providers are true professionals and it shows in the bedroom.

a more advanced skill set. Experience matters.

Maybe you 2 curious cats should date lol

So I gave you two examples that refuted it.
Claro?

Ain't that the truth, babe!

what's the difference...
Capeesh?


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it's 10 times more convenient and in the long run 10 times cheaper.

You are really confused. WTF? Get yourself some Namenda.

Of course everyone's perception is different, but the best sex I ever had was during a long term affair with a married woman.  That's obviously because it is an ego thing -- she wants to be with you so badly she risks everything.  So the mechanics of the sex really wasn't any different.  But the thought of pounding away in some other guy's wife ... priceless!

But once you find a true atf, it becomes off the chart sex. She'll meet you at all kinds of hours (4 am before work once). She'll plan way in advance for you, and trust you (one year in advance with one lady). She's open minded about everything sexual. She'll keep you abreast of specials. She'll throw in a freebie every now and then. Lunch is often included. And then there's the in between session contact to talk hobby trash. Can you believe rrasha said that? It's like having a girlfriend without the negative residuals.  

They are pros and it's what they do for a living. Look at it this way. You could paint your house yourself, but if you ever had the miserable experience of doing that, and then hired professional painters to paint your house ... Well, you would think your efforts we like a retarded chimp in comparison. Why? Because the pros are better at it. They do it frequently and if they are NOT good then they are out of business. It's that simple. They are pros.  

At least not that I can tell. I will admit lacking experience with true civvies, given my wife is a working girl, and I was a late bloomer only having had sex with only a few partners before my wife. That said the best sex I even had was with my wife who I wasn't directly paying. (Sex is rarely if ever free.) Now out of her sex has been well sex. Now most working girls will put your needs before her own and civvies want her needs addressed as much as yours. Maybe that is what your picking up on?

Lol!  After receiving the cash your civvie will suddenly change plans  and go shopping with her girlfriends.

The interactions with a provider are (mostly) devoid of emotional anchors.
Civilian females will carry all their emotional garbage into bed with you and therefore
it interferes with their dick sucking capabilities.  Of course, there are a few bipolar girls that will bypass the garbage and suck for the mental satiation.

Maybe when you wake up you'll discover some game.  Your trash talk is weak and tired.

First, there is something erotic about the clandestine nature of the envelope exchange and the thrill of meeting for such a specific and intimate purpose.

and the number of sexual experiences is a ratio of probably 1:100; so I'm not sure if a statistician would accept the comparison as valid.

Experience.

now you're going to tell me my "opinion" is wrong, not because it is, but because you don't understand it ... how is the bliss?

You clearly suck ...

that last sentence by bbfs4ever, is untrue for most of you supermodel looking dudes out there, but for the rest of us, it is oh so true.

It isn't even, as someone below insinuated, all about "game."

Get a life.

I've only been with one hooker that could even score in the top ten of my civie experiences.

There are lots of open-minded civvies with lots of experience.  And some have "daddy issues" and love older guys.  Check out the SB sites.

How are those blowjob lessons going?

My ex benefitted greatly from the BJ lessons given her by my ATF.  At least that's what her boyfriend told me.
Stalk on, scooter.

You're starting to sound like a Board "Blowhard" and  unfortunately, we already have one of those and he's more than enough.

And you've long since been acting like a peevish stalker.  I already have a couple of those, but feel free to join the crowd.  Knock yourself out.  Now scoot.