Hopefully, this is an 80/20 issue with most hobbyists being pretty decent. That being said, a lot has to do with guys' work schedules. I see you're touring in Washington, DC. I don't know about the rest of the country, but it is notoriously bad in this area. Schedules change at the drop of a hat. Too many self-important people changing meetings or adding them just because they can. This causes a waterfall effect and cascades from the top down (President of the United States, CEO's of companies and associations, C-Suite, etc.) It doesn't just drive you insane it drives us insane, too.

to be disrespected like that! Unfortunately, most hobbyists have no clue how hard it is to deal with them. And you didn't even touch on having to put up with their sweaty balls and smelly asses.

COVID has tossed a monkey wrench into the mix.  I have had to cancel two dates for fear of transmission.  And yes, they were at least 24 hours in advance.    

A couple of times, and she is a really cool woman. She is very quick to respond to inquiries. She does her own admin, so you gotta understand her plates a little full for dealing with bullshitters.

Weren't you previously known as Jenna Styles / Kayla?

And this is probably not the best place to vent. So what's the point? You have no control over what THEY do. What do YOU do?

Is this a vent post because one guy just ruined your day but in general all your customers are fine? Or are you saying all the customers you have are like this?

That's why Blacklists were created. No one needs to deal with that kind of behavior from any client. They expect this best from you and you expect the best from them.

I absolutely HATE it when my time is disrespected. Try flying in from a different state just to see a single client and getting a NCNS sometime. Not just my time wasted but well over a grand in actual expenses as well, so I DO get it.

When ive met with her, she's been nothing short of great. If anything were bugging her at those times, it never shone a light into my appointment. Shes super easy to get along with, and I felt very comfortable with her.

Now, I/we hear you, we actually get you as many on both sides have felt what you're feeling. It's frustrating, I know. I wish I can tell you the many times, I've sat at the bar waiting for my date to walk in or the times I've sat in my car waiting for the call. This just happens, and I'm sorry to say it isn't going to change. Now I'm sure not all clients are wired that way. So don't go crazy pulling your hair over this. It just happens and it's something you'll have to learn to adjust to. Of course within reason. There is no magic wand to wave over the crowd to change the so called "Rude Clients" they' are who they are.

Sorry that you have to deal with rude clients. Unfortunately, this is a part of any business but mosts often the majority of clients or customers who are good outweigh the bad. However, in the heat of the moment it may not feel that way.  

a sugar-daddy (or two).  Maybe you should try that and see is it makes your life a little easier.  

In any service based industry, you are going to have to deal with difficult customers. Dentist, restaurants, body shops, barbershops, etc all have to deal with customers. If it bothers anyone this much, working in a service industry is likely not for you.  

And it works both ways....I am a relatively successful Sales Rep;  I have serviced the Same Turf for close to 40 years.  I cannot speculate how many customers I have serviced, but I am pretty certain I have closed over 50,000 sales.  I have encountered rude and difficult clients.  But for every negative experience I have encountered, there are 300 positive ones, and I would rather focus on the positives. Dwelling  on negative encounters is consuming negative energy.

If we respected our wives, we wouldn't be seeing providers...

I find it interesting that Ms. Audrey is complaining about the promptness of Hobbyists.  Although, I have never seen her and have no reason to doubt that when she arranges a date she is always on time, I believe my experiences are no different than most Hobbyists.  I can count on one hand the number of times a Provider has told me she is ready at the agreed upon time.  In almost every tryst, I have to wait at least a few minutes before going up.  I remember reading somewhere and confirmed by a Provider that being at least a few minutes late and making the Hobbyist wait is an issue of "control."  If the Hobbyist is willing to wait and accepting of tardiness, the Provider has established control and it's at least an indication that the Hobbyist is not an impatient, irrational jerk.

Check out my review - I had a session once that stared 20 mins late and the time was never adjusted to get the paid for hour.

I started in 2004 with a high volume agency.  Boston buddies, remember RSG?  Maybe all agencies were high volume...back in the day.  You had your appointment at a set time and if you were late you lost that time because your endtime was already set.  

Pretty rich of her to complain when I experienced similar behavior from Mer. Flaked on me one time without any reason (except she over slept). Everything was set up by her assistant. When I texted from the parking lot, I never got a response. Got a text after a couple of hours  

Cheating married guys tend to treat their wives very well.  It makes them less likely to be suspicious.

That issue of “control” can cut both ways and the savvy provider won’t  get too cute with it.  When a provider is going to meet me in the hotel lobby before going up to my room I’ll wait for only 15 minutes past our scheduled appointment time.  My vacation is too valuable to spend it in a hotel lobby getting strung along with a series of texts explaining why she is going to be late.  Same thing goes if she calls me well before the appointment time, after we have scheduled, to reschedule later.  I’ll take a pass.  I’ve heard some seemingly legitimate excuses and all the bullshit ones.  The provider either wants to deliver a quality experience or she doesn’t.  I worked in the service industry long enough to not accept the “life happens” mantra bandied about here so often, from my employees or outside firms that worked for us.  Of course, this issue is proliferated by the flaky and disrespectful escorts as well as the spineless mongers that put up with it - and through their actions actually encourage it.

Did you at least get a significant discount? If a lady slept through an appointment, there is no next time, unless there's a sinitifant discount or extra time involved.

Picture this, an "old married couple" who haven't had sex in a decade and all of a sudden the husband starts treating his wife "nicely" if that doesn't raise suspicion, I don't know what does. lol

Nope. No discount. I went through the appointment next time because of my dry spell and in general a dry phase in Boston after Sesta. Forget about discount, there wasn’t even an acknowledgement about the last missed date. That’s the reason I find her post very surprising to say the least

If our wi es respected us, we would still be having sex together

To make a guy say....'Next'. Men are looking to fulfill their fantasies - not get bitched at.

I have seen you before in Tampa and yes those reviews look a little suspect.  You should probably stop offering 30 min appointments to get rid of the riff raff.  You should also just do the right thing and combine your profiles: your current Audrey one and your old Jenna Styles / Kayla profile.  

I 1st met Audrey as Charlotte. Ive read the two reviews, and they definitely don't jive with the experiences I've had with her...
CBJ, or restrictions weren't evident in my meetings with her. In fact, I believe the only thing off the table was Greek..and of course bbfs. The latter should be a no brainer, but ya gotta say it, cuz there's always someone who will try to read into it.

I am posting under an alias.  I have reviews under my handle.  Not worried.  Just a little annoyed.  Having several different profiles doesn't help with credibility.  

and then saying something slightly dickish pretty much negates the whole "not to be a dick" preface. Thar being said, 8.5/8.5 isn't a bad score at all.  

I have had this alias since 2008.  You could click on my alias and see my posts.  I am very fit for a retired, old guy.

...it appears to me you need to hit the gym more often lol.  Besides that, reading this thread your attitude sucks!
Good day and thank you.

Never have seen you Ms.Rose...nor will I ever. Poor attitude and overweight to boot.
Goodnight and thank you.

"When you find yourself in a hole, quit digging"  

Wait.

One "hobbyist" over here might get mad that you are 5 minutes late

I haven't written a review in a while.  There are rules for this site.  I believe that you can only have 1 account with 1 handle and 1 alias.  Also, I don't believe that you can post under both your handle and alias on the same thread.  If you do either, then TER will revoke your posting privileges and put you in time out for 90 days or something like that.  

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but I will confess I do get a bit of a guilty pleasure watching people crash and burn on this board.  

closed in on the trifecta, . . . . poor attitude, overweight AND old.  Or do I not know what I'm talking about since I have not seen her in person?  

Ah, It never fails; anytime a provider has a few bad reviews (especially if she posts on the boards), you suddenly see all the simps running in, suiting up in their shiny white knight armor, and now suddenly she has a bunch of new rave reviews in an attempt to discredit the bad ones...same old, same old...

Equally true of course, but still cynical. lol

You can still PM her from your alias to provide links.  You do not have to disclose your review handle.

Nope, they don't eat crap fast food, walk frequently, and take care of themselves.

So I guess we can add racist to your growing list of "qualities" good to know

I don't really see why you have to insult some lower-priced gals as crackheads or toothless.  

about your Asian competitors is almost as astounding as your lack of knowledge about Asians in general.  They are actually much more health conscious than Americans, and many of the working girls I have dated on the outside can eat more then me at a good  restaurant, and I'm 6-0 and 195 pounds to their 5-4 and 105.   As GaG says, they don't eat crap-fast-food.  They don't starve themselves and they don't puke on purpose. However, I think its safe to say their work ethic leads to a lot more exercise in one day than many American providers get in a week.  if you were more energetic during sex, some of those  extra pounds might disappear.  If energetic is not your style, then some gym time would help.  If you were as toned and fit as the girl in the link below, who I have seen and reviewed, you would be fully booked like she is.

Well....
I was not able to book an appointment with her, when she passed through due to some family matters....
And she has blocked me on P411, so I guess im added to her growing blacklist.  
I feel bad that I wasn't able to see her, as I had told her it was my intention, but shit hit the fan in my house on Sunday morning/ afternoon....I messaged her through P411 to let her know that I was not going to be able to see her on her visit to my area, and she proceeded to immediately block me.
I make no excuses for myself. I never booked, and wasn't able to....if that makes me a time waster or whatever, ill have to live with that.

Dont  let some Bad Apples Spoil The Whole Bunch..
Turn the other cheek..
Women are from Venus
Men Are FROM  MARS !!
LOL

Not sure why guys are so afraid of being blacklisted. Remember, for most of these ladies they NEED our patronage in order to pay bills, etc...we don't NEED them; it's a leisure activity that we can survive without. I've been blacklisted simply for writing an honest bad review...and I couldn't care less. Plenty of fish in the sea.

All blacklisting does for me is make me not want to see the girl that does any blacklisting.  I never wanted to see Nikki Irish...and I never will.

Audrey, I've seen your pics and your reviews. You make me wish I lived in your town. I think you're amazing.

And as I said...." added to HER growing blacklist".
I am sorry that I was not able to book with you, as I've already said...it was my intention to do so. You were a very cool woman when I met you previously, and if you'd had a little more understanding of my situation, I dont think things would have played out this way...but it is what it is.
You are well within your reasons to file me anyway you feel necessary...I dont begrudge you that at all.  
I tried to do the right thing, and let you know that I wasn't going to be able to see you. That obviously pushed a button with you, but I did not book and then cancel, so I never messed with your scheduling....I simply wasn't able to book an appointment.  
I wish you the very best...

Somebody starts a statement with, "To tell you the truth . . . .", they are about to lie to you.    Lol

I don't think he broadcasted anything. He's being very nice, almost gallant about it too.

Yes, I hear a lot about rude clients.  That is a terrible thing.  I am sure many are beyond rude.  Some are abusive.  And that type of behavior should not be tolerated.  And I have had to cancel appointments due to health reasons.  The providers I use understand that I have had serious health issues over the past few years and on occasion I have to cancel.  If possible I offer them compensation.

making you look like the unreasonable party here.  I agree with Rocket that he's being a gentleman about it.  You made some pretty pointed accusations, and he's entitled to tell what happened from his perspective.  You're the one that started this thread . . . .  remember?  Why is it all of sudden important to keep it private?  

CDL....just to point out, she didn't start this thread in regards to me. The situation between her and I soured when I wasn't able to book an appointment when she was in my area last week.
I think she just has a cut and dry policy that if you're going to contact her, you better book an appointment....something I failed to be able to complete.  

You are being MUCH nicer about this than I would have been, of course you are probably a much nicer person than me. lol and of course pretty much everyone here is nicer than me, even that dick CDL or even that argumentative prick Rocket. lol

Has not come up in one of your posts before, so just for clarification, which is worse, a dick or a prick?

By worse do you mean how much they measure up against a cunt?

Leave the cunt out of it.  I just want to know if he thinks you (the prick) or me (the dick) is worse.  I will be  a little insulted if he says you're worse.  I've been working on my asshole credentials here for years and you just got here eight or nine months ago!!  However, I'll admit that you have more of a natural talent for being an asshole, so much so, that I'm sometimes jealous, because I have to really work at it.  Lol

Time to pile on.....or not?

I would say that "argumentative prick" is at least one step down from plain old "dick", but I will admit I did have to put some thought into it. That said, I prefer either one of you to the REALLY argumentative not to mention  BSC cunt that is the OP.

Audrey- You should tell these losers that real meat is reserved for tigers & lions while dogs & Hyena’s wait to nibble on bones.

She has a gifted body, one I would like to gift to another lion who likes a little more marbling in his "meat" and doesn't mind all of that extra cholesterol.  Lol  

I wondered who would be on the other end of the link and when I saw the "Beautiful Gem Amber", I thought it was overkill! But, I thought about it and even though most of the Kgirls & Asian providers could make your point, I was glad to see Amber was your pick!! She's an all around perfect example, looks, personality, session skills and fun to spend time with! Bravo!

There are providers who actually start the hour when they are still in parking lot? Not trying to tell people how to run this biz but that seems odd to me.

Rude is almost as bad as unreliable.  I am really good at remembering names and faces, but if you flaked on me a year ago and we never met how can you expect me to know who you are when you text "available?".  Then rude when I ask "please remind me who is this?"