You may or may not remember. I'm the wife that did something special for her husband's 50th birthday. It took a year to pull it off... newbie problems. He met with a terrific gal traveling to our area. Well another birthday is coming up. But his health is not that good at the moment. I don't know if it's a good idea to repeat with another provider or if it will end up not a good session and upset him. My question is to you men... would you like to be put in that position knowing it may not work out?

Sorry your husband isn't well.  But as long as he doesn't put his expectations too high he'll still have a great time.  Sometimes it's all about the journey.

Don't know your husbands medical condition but that may more than he would want ! Y don't u kids just watch some porn !  

Thanks inicky! I have to admit lurking occasionally. Just didn't have anything to add because we weren't active in the hobby. Hubby is okay, just not the usual bunny rabbit because of a long time medical condition.  It's nice to be back on the boards.

Hey Black_In_Black!!! Good to talk to you again. I was trying to imply the problem without spelling it out. Guess that didn't work so well. lol My hubby is okay but takes a lot of medicine for a long-time medical problem. Side effects of the medicines suck. I don't know if he can perform with a provider. Not sure what to do here.

A lot of fun can be had with perhaps a nice exotic show performed by a pair of lovely ladies while you guys watch then perhaps join in slowly ? Even slowly teasing him along the way ???? Sensual music , candle lit room , lots of touching ? I think he may like that ?

Never thought of that. I think it would have to be the right provider. Someone who is comfortable dealing with the possible situation.

Who knew?

You look for a more well reviewed girl , what's his taste ??? Age range ??? Now as far as his "condition" for most ladies it won't be an issue . Has he ever mentioned a fantasy ? Does he like dancers ??? Common make it hot , sexy , and classsy, tease him , and you ! Trust me he'll love what you did ! Any questions ask ??? Okay . Best to you and your husband , lucky guy !!!!!!!

I'm a lover ! I love that romantic stuff . I spoil the ladies and myself of course !!!!

She takes you to a nice hotel or back to the house , romantic . Then the bell rings door opens and its candle lit , soft music your favorites , two luscious ladies scantily clad on the bed gently kissing one another as your brought over , they lay you down and as you hold ( well u aint married ) u know . Okay then they begin a nice two girl show , in between undressing you , still with me nick ??????  Good ! Okay so you have 3 ladies and you ! Would you be happy ?  

I like it.  I like it.  But nick is nastier than that.  Nick would take Cannon and two chicks to a strip club, buy them all lap dances, pick up the hottest stripper in the joint and take 'em all home for a FFMFF.  Just add baby oil.  End up in a puddle.  Not cheap.  But nick always flies First Class.  Unless he flies Corporate.  Ever screw in a G5?

Like the strip club idea. But you're leaving out a hot young guy for me!!! TER won't let me post my wish list picture. We are fantasizing after all.

I LOVE LIMO dates ! Dinner , club , and doin it in the car . I do the strip clubs too.  

Me and Nick do doubles , but we ain't cheap ! Lol

Limo and strip clubs. Foreplay between clubs. Now we're talking! He last date was dinner and hotel suite. Which would you rather? Do VIP escorts really go for that limo and clubs idea?

I'm not young but I'm hot.  You set up the rest and I'll be your guy.

And she has no shortage of friends ! A lot of Vegas girls call limos their second homes lol ... yes a nice night out in motion , what more could a man want . Or a Lady , a night on the town .  

as you, life would be so much better.  

Thanks Keystonekid. But in fairness to other wives, I was not always like this. It wasn't until I became secure in myself that I could understand that a good romp is no threat to me.

if I can pull this off. I've got two months to plan it so wish me luck!