A question for married hobbiests, do you ever take off your wedding ring prior to a session, or do you just leave it on ?

Providers, do you ever notice the client's wedding band, or is it no big deal?

a reality check...of keeping You/me in check with the Fantasy

why bother? the minute you walk in that room, you are no long a reputable husband anymore.  And you are a jackass to providers no matter you have a ring or not.
Providers dislike us.  But they are very professional.

Asked a lady to marry me once. She accepted, but seeing as how we were at a bar, and well, I was doing some drinking.

Needless to say, it never transpired!

She was a dynamite fuck, though, so you can't really blame me too much!

And I don't mind. Hopefully it reminds the client where the boundary is. I also prefer that they don't come off and get left behind as watches sometimes do.

I am more interested in the Watches!!

I notice the rings....no biggee

But the watches..must come off. I don't want themto get in the way of our feverish play!!

I leave it on. if you take it off you can still tell you ware one.

I take mine off.  It's probably silly.

I don't wear it at home so don't have a mark but most do...  even more silly to take it off with an obivious mark.  You're not fooling anyone.  Actually many providers prefer married men since they're less likely to become a stalker.
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I always wear mine for several reasons:  (1) I don't want to run the risk of losing it; (2) you can tell I wear a wedding ring even if it isn't on my finger due to the indentation on the ring finger; (3) it seems more honest to me; and (4) I have never had a provider who it seemed to bother (and probably makes them feel safter because they know I'm not about to "fall in love" with them or stalk them).  Just my 2 cents.

I can't stand the feeling of jewelry of any sort -- rings, watches, necklaces, whatever. So I've never worn them. Nothing to take off.

I see a provider I have little on me except cash and a single ID.  Its insurance against a rip-off so that, in the worst case, I lose nothing more than I went to spend anyway.  So the ring and good watch stay home.  

After the first visit I relax and don't worry about it. Ladies in the business don't care about your status.  

Many years ago I was in a strip club and one of the dancers asked me why I did NOT take off my ring before I came into the club 'like most men do.'  I literally laughed at her and told her that I knew the difference between a strip club and a singles bar!  And that the only way I was 'getting lucky' with one of the dancers would be with a lot of $$$.  Further, that if I was trying to pick up a chick, I wouldn't have come there in the first place!  Pissed her off that I wasn't stupid, I guess.

MVR

Wow quixote0314, thanks for speaking my mind for me and many others!  

I don't think ill of the GENTLEMAN I see regardless of their marital status.  In fact, I rather enjoy their company and relax and have a good time.  

And I don't see jackasses, and I don't see people I dislike either.  

But yes, I'm very professional, at least you got that point right.  

From what I've read so far, you've got a really skewed idea of the hobby and the people in it.

We're all just people and we usually respect each other and our feelings, if not, there are DNS lists for disrespectful people.  

DNS stands for Do Not See.  

I really hate to see and read of such a jaded attitude and I do hope things turn around for you.  

I notice a gentleman's ring and it doesn't bother me.  In fact it assures me that he is a gentleman, he has someone nice to go home to, and leads a normal life.  I also think they make a mans hands look nice.  I would also assume it would be a PIA to take it off cause that could lead to misplacing it as well or one could forget to put it back on.  No problems.

Thanks

I don't want to get everybody hates me,  We all made our choices.

I am sure that you can select the "gentlemen" in all the applications.  How much do you like them? How many gentlemen will you date without a donation? and how many times will you do that?  Sorry for being a pain in the rear end here.  

To a provider, this is a profession, it is a job.  You see, I have a job.  I had good bosses, and I had bad bosses before.  I really enjoy working with some of them, but I will not do it for free.  Same logic applies to providers.


Why would this gentleman ask a question about the ring?  Think harder.  All the pionts you made were from a profession point of view.  He's not.


A man like us, have no excuse for it.  I blame myself if my wife finds out what's going on in the past a few years.  Yes, the provider I have been seeing is deadly attractive, but there is no her fault if my marriage goes down the toilet.

Yes, you are right, My mind is skewed.  I hope I am the only one here.  I should not drink before 5:00pm, and I should not post this comment.  

Can we go back to the session, relax and have a good time?  

either in the car or remove it upon
arrival. As stated in my website the
world outside is gone and he's mine
with no inturruptions once he walks into
my oasis!



-- Modified on 5/16/2010 10:53:14 AM

Oh no, hating takes too much energy we could save for better thing!  
Oh yah, I did a freebie recently.  You can read all about it!  Hot stuff!

Totally true story, I've nabbed him again since this story for an overnight and I"m planning to see him this coming week before he deploys to Iraq for 13 months.....Yummy!

I bought a cheap wedding band to wear when going out on the town with married men. Waiters, bartenders, hotel staff, strangers all notice that he's wearing one and I'm not.

I find when I put on my wedding band, there are less narrowed eyes from other people.  They seem to think we're a really odd couple, or that I'm a gold digger, or that we're both having an affair. Somehow that's all more acceptable then a single young girl just sleeping with a married man - home-wreckers and whores get a bad rap!

I was with a hobbyist last week. I was naked and he was about to climb on top of me. As he reached for my exposed breast, he was using his left hand and I noticed the plain gold wedding band. I got even more excited than I had already been because I thought immediately, I am about to f*ck someone else's husband and it is so hot! It was an exciting session after that! Extremely intense. The very thought that his wife was somewhere out there and didn't know what I was doing to her husband excited the cum out of me! heehee! So men if you don't mind keeping your rings on, neither do I!!!!

I always take it off.