When someone is forced into submission as you are describing...seems like a rape situation.

What I find particularly odd with your story however is that this gal allowed this to happen more than once presumably with the same dude?  If that was the case why in the world did she see him again?

And honestly...one dude has somehow enlisted enough guys to not see this gal seems preposterous.  And if she was so dependent on this dudes circle of pals...she could easily have moved to another town.  

Sorry...but I think you are leaving quite a bit of this story out.  

Maybe you have a more interesting agenda for posting this?  And why in the world are you only now concerned since this event(s) happened 5 years ago.

how it is that the back channel can affect her business so much that she has "no means of making a living."  Because truly, the men on this board who back channel are a very, very small subset of the total hobbyist population.  The vast majority of hobbyists out there don't even read this board, and even among the ones that do, the percentage that back channel is even smaller.   I know that a few of these back-channelers have delusions of grandeur, but don't buy into their own hype about their importance.

Perhaps there are other reasons her business is affected; for example, perhaps her depression is apparent when she is with clients?

I have no idea who you are talking about, but I hope she makes a successful recovery.  But I think that doing so means recognizing all the real sources of the problem, and not pinpointing the blame in just one spot.

Sorry to hear about your friend....

But she should not let anyone especially a man rule her life.. This is her life, she should take control... Who care what a BOARD TROLL says or does.. Please give these hobbyist more credit then what's said, no one is the "leader" here....  We all have to take responsibility for our own lives-what paths we choose, even suicide isn't anyone's fault expect the person who CHOSE that path... YOU ARE THE OWNER OF YOUR LIFE, NO ONE CONTROLS IT, NOONE CAN MAKE IT BETTER, NO ONE CAN MAKE IT WORSE UNLESS U LET THEM..... So OWN YOUR LIFE!!!!!    I hope you're friend finds the strength within herself to OVERCOME whatever she's going thru & show the ASSWIPE your referring to that SHES A STRONG HUMAN BEING...  

GOOD LUCK TO YOUR FRIEND.....  (Just my 2cent).....

I am not going to "blame the victim" here....

or put the onus on her for the situation -

I realize well that in some "relationships" people unwillingly or unwittingly give too much power to others

and I am certainly not going to excuse someone(s) who coerced her in whatever way into BBFS

I am going to address you -

take care that you do not get drawn into some situation in which you really do not belong -

there is a shitton of hobbyist / provider drama out there and people with white knight tendencies often find themselves put in bad positions due to their inherent kindness and a dash of naiveté.

You cannot do anything to change the situation at this point so please carefully evaluate your own actions and responses to it......

EH broke condoms inside her that is why the 2 abortions happened.  She was not able to put it all together until the second abortion and how the condoms were being damaged to malfunction inside of her. And he has also sent one of his goons to threatened her that he would hurt her family if she reported this to the authority's.  She is very frightened to come out since this incident she has tried to travel to different cities and received nothing for work.

Did Walmart have a sale on "balls" this week you couldn't pass up?

What made you keep "silent for way too long?" You must be a great "friend" to have waited this long by doing absolutely nothing for 5 years.

And exactly what did he do to "blacklist" her? Even if he had access to the R.O. board here, there is enough WK's in there to fill 20 other boards. Trust me, that isn't a kangaroo court in there, far from it.

This whole high school shit of putting out initials like you are using a dog whistle or something makes you look even more foolish. You say "EH", I say mEH.  

And if you are "sure" she will soon find out, why wouldn't you get her blessing first? Ever think she WOULDN'T want this posted and thus making her situation worse?  

My advice? Take those fake balls back to WM  (you never used them so you should get a full refund) and stay out of this girls life. And while we are at it, stay out of Walmart too. Costco is better.

wow

well..at least she wasnt accused of being a leaker..there is no fate worse than that..

Your little PSA likely just embarrassed the shit out of both of the ladies you've reviewed (whether one of them was the one involved or not). Way to go, asshole. I'm sure whomever it is sure appreciates you posting her extremely personal business on a public forum. Jesus tittyfucking christ.

So it wasn't BBFS that the phantom EH imposed on this delicate flower, he just manipulated the condom so he could cum inside her? Is that a thrill I'm not accustomed to? Once he cums inside her, she is clueless that it happened? (Not being a woman I'll need to defer to the ladies on that one). Then, she has him over again for an encore, even though by now she's already had one abortion, but hasn't quite figured out the paternal donor. Now we have a little déjà vu going on and she still doesn't realize he's dropped his load in her. Finally, after the second abortion something clicks (which remains a mystery because you haven't explained it) and she realizes the phantom EH impregnated her against her will on 2 occasions. Finally, the poor girl is suicidal because she can no longer make a living in the profession that supposedly subjected her to such trauma and devastation.  

I just want to be sure I have the facts right before assessing the validity of your claims. God knows I don't want the phantom EH on my ass for no justifiable reason should I decide to join your crusade and dispense justice. lol.

assume this is true.  As a supposed friend to this lady, do you really think a post on this message board will in anyway help contribute to her overcoming the demons in her life that led to her suicide attempt?  Perhaps this can be part of that, but I doubt it.  Love, unconditional support, just being there - if you are truly a friend.  I'd think getting her mind as far away from this business and rebooting it with positive people and influences would be the way to go.  If there are individuals who did underhanded things to her, then deal with them individually - but even then, would she really want ANYONE to know about the suicide attempt??  I seriously doubt it.  I do feel sorry for anyone who has reached that point though, so I hope she finds her way out of the hole she's in.