Ladies & gents:
Who is into multiple hours 4 - 8 hrs and or over night stays?
I personally love them. Gives time to know and explore without rushing the fun.
Who likes watching a clock tick.....

I like to have time to relax with a girl and am not a bang and run kind of guy.

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it is more for gents who are more into emotional connection that straight up bang bang ....i love a good conversation and romantic connection

Overnights are great but imo are best with someone you've developed a rapport with. It really takes the client/provider relationship to a more intimate and passionate level, beyond the basic experience. It can really intensify the experience. I'm sure it can also go left, but thankfully I've never had a negative experience.

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Those are usually the guys who love mental stimulation, share common interests, and know how to psych-asm. You know, where you're sitting at the dinner table, eating a fucking steak dinner (no asparagus) or cheese and drinks with italian with a sexy, smart man cracking jokes and trolling the wait staff. Bantering back and forth, laughing and also hitting on topics that are beyond the physical sex and into mental sex...

I have done 5 or 6 all nighters.  They were my 2 ATFs (not at the same time, unfortuneately).  It is a great experience. During the last one I was pleasantly awakened to find her mouth engulfing Mr Happy at about 2 AM.   One of the best nights ever.   Just make sure you know the girl.   Multiple hours are fun too.   I dont get the 15 minute sessions.  I can knock one out myself in that amount of time and save up for the longer stays

I've done hundreds of overnights, both paid and otherwise, and I never needed a bunch of shorter dates to enjoy myself. Yes, I have had some negative ones, but again that happens with civvy one night stands as well.

But would you dispute that having a rapport makes it more likely that you'd have an enjoyable time versus having to take some time to get to know someone? Sure, it isn't necessary but I feel like it makes for a better experience. What if you first meet this person and they turn out to be a pain in the ass? That would certainly diminish any chance at a great time.

My point is that having a rapport would minimize the likelihood of having a shitty time. But I don't necessarily mean going on a bunch of dates beforehand. Being intimate with someone just once lets you at least know what to expect.

lunch, dinner, whatever... as well ass plenty of BCD time.

I suppose looking at it from a typical "Hobbyist's" POV, you would be absolutely correct that scheduling that much time with a person you have never met might be fraught with risk of a lack of chemistry between the two.

BTW, I saw you posted recently about being single again.  You have a new lease on life as you join many of us single "mature" mongers.  I completely agree with you and always make extended dates.

Well then I'm sure you're quite the charmer But I definitely agree that spontaneity aspect of a one night stand also increases the passion because you're running off of pure desire and chemistry and what beats that?  

Charmer - No
Legend in his own mind - Yes!!!

first off a toothbrush takes care of the "funky breath"  

...ordering  7 gallons of whipped cream from Room Service at 10:50pm fora night of naughty fun...or skinny dipping in the pool at 1am...
At least in my experience.
Passionately,

Unless the overnight is free, than I am ok with it.

I agree.  That is how most overnights with new clients happen.  Spontaneous.  They usually book 3-4 hours, then they don't want you to leave, so they just go into the safe and add more $ to the envelope.
At least in my experience.
Fredrica

Ok, I see. Spontaneous or not, I enjoy overnights either way.  

to watch hookers sleep and eat, some of these losers will also pay hookers to sit around and watch them gamble?   Wow!  And I thought I had heard it all?

I just didn't want to give the impression that I was claiming that women love me so much they just can't bring themselves to leave after an hour with me. lol

I agree I enjoy taking my time going out to eat and great conversation. In fact I have an overnight Friday night ! And skiing Saturday. Looking forward to a great weekend, making a new friend

they won't watch me eat nor sleep. But there are some boys I like to watch sleep if they pay to watch me sleep. I'll also drool on their chest passed out so they can't roll over.

I don't think maybe but once or twice I entertained an actual hour date...which btw, of course went over anyway. An hour isn't long enough for just about anything when it comes to introducing yourself to someone, let alone what happens here. Come on now lol. I find that 3-4 hours is terrific for an intro and longer for that someone "special" lol.  

It sounds hot hot hot

I tend to prefer 4-5 hrs lunch or dinner dates, over shorter sessions or overnighters.  It also helps with my comfort level (and probably hers too) when I'm seeing a new provider.  

I practice safe sex, I wrap myself in Saran wrap.   It boggles the mind, a guy pays to watch you eat and then he lets you use him as a pillow?

If I like to pay gals to eat and sleep too, I'm doing "it" all wrong?

Awfully touchy tonite, you big oaf. LOL

Well you are the self proclaimed zenmeister of TER no?

I am just a dick poster and Dean of Admissions at JDU.  

Ahhh I see. That method seems ideal. If only good ole 'Merica can just get with the program. *optimistic sigh* lol

do you need me to once again try to put in a good word for you? Why am I always carrying your water? JK I don't mind Zenmeister.

You guys who pay for multi-hours must have a lot of time and money to waste.

You get those old lonely guys to pay you to watch them lose money  hahahahaha

than shorter engagements. It's about savoring the journey, relishing each moment as a tantalizing step along the way to fulfillment. Men who like these kinds of engagements are much more likely to be intelligent, thoughtful, and indulgent individuals, which means we will both enjoy our time immensely.

Some of us actually have something valid to say and believe it or not...some gents actually LOVE what comes out of that hole lol

After all, the lost souls are the ones who doing the fooling, not so much the ones who are fooled. Come on, you know better than that. I feel they are assisting me and guiding me to find a future, where I wouldn't "have" to lead souls astray anymore.  

Courtney - SUCK IT! LOL!  

from talking over the phone and email in reasonable manner of course.
It is just a chemistry ..and you feel chemistry right the way - in many different ways.

That is why I have the hourly minimums that I do. I think that when a better rapport is established, it just make everything better. Who wants to be rushed?!

I have a sleep disorder and I must be able to get my deep sleep or not be able to function at all the next day.  It is what it is for me.

Just wondering...

I have the best of times!! My last one was very memorable. He took care of all the arrangements. I was free to be myself and enjoy all that was offered. Time stands still when your not thinking about it!!

Affordability is the main impediment for many of us, but when we can splurge...  

Note the poor fucker did not fall asleep, she fell asleep on top of him.   The poor bastard probably had a raging hard on, I mean, talk about blue balls.   I bet he was so stupid he took her to breakfast the next morning, hahahaha.     I want the FL franchise of JD's Remedial School for Johns, I would probably make a mint.

Anyone with blue balls after seeing me most definitely needs to have his head and dick examined. I'm sure the guy was thanking his goddess that I fell asleep so I'd stop pulling on his dick.

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