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Re: Two hours and how many drinks? eom
dipstick50 5768 reads
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I see a few ladies that are bisexual and they primarily date women in their private lives.  These ladies don't see women in their escorting business.  Is it difficult for bisexual ladies to see both sexes or do you usually stick to one sex in your escorting business and another in your personal relationships?

lopaw 29 Reviews 123 reads
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...i have found that providers with female partners or wives typically choose to not see female hobbyists.  Bisexual ladies, for the most part, are more open to seeing both sexes for sessions. I'm sure that there are exceptions, tho.

GaGambler 158 reads
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3 / 33

fucking men is just "business" while seeing other women could be construed as "cheating" for a provider with a female SO.

Not to mention it's not like she is going to take a huge financial hit by not seeing female clients. The headache she might get from her SO most likely is not worth the relatively small amount of money she will be missing out on.

lopaw 29 Reviews 115 reads
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...only to be told "my wife would get jealous". I never press it and pretty much commiserate with her about jealous wives, lol.  
I have also chased some strippers that caught my eye around the club only to catch them and be told that they promised their wife/GF that they would not dance for women. The last one took me 2 hrs to finally wear her down! ;)

dipstick50 151 reads
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5 / 33

This may sound like a dumb question but I don't know.  This is why I ask and don't assume.  Is it easier to see male or female clients for those ladies that escort and see both?  I would think that it may be safer to see ladies instead of men but some of the ladies that I see have had some pretty violent personal relationships {controlling female partners] and I could how that could be a problem with seeing females as well.  I had to stop seeing one of the ladies because I left a pair of shades at her personal in call and her girlfriend found my shades and started smashing up the escort's apartment.  Believe me, females can be psychos as well.  Also, is there such a thing as a Lesbian escort that see men?

-- Modified on 6/19/2017 11:57:34 AM

GaGambler 149 reads
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Yes, there are some 100% lesbian providers who see men. I know a few personally and am drinking buddies with a couple so I know this for a fact.  

I do know a few women who most definitely "prefer" women, but who still manage to offer up a very convincing GFE. The outright lesbians I have no idea how good, or convincing their sessions are as I have never had any desire to have sex with them. I am not going to "turn them" and I don't have sex with anyone when I no there is ZERO chance they are going to enjoy it.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 120 reads
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7 / 33

An advantage, because a provider can, as you say, "fake-eat" a pussy, its pretty hard to "fake-suck" a dick.  Its either all the way in her mouth or its not.  Not much gray area there.  

GaGambler 132 reads
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and I believe what Mia was saying is that a provider can fake "being into" her female doubles partner, not a female client.  

I've eaten enough pussies (and I am sure you have too) to know you can't "fake eat" a pussy and give the woman any pleasure. OTOH women doing a FMF can are often just "gay for pay" and get no actual pleasure from interacting with their female counterpart and only fake it so the guy will believe they are "into each other" It really is amazing just how clueless many men are where it comes to this, I've read reviews about girls that I know are not bi, including a VERY straight ex-GF who did doubles all the time, and got rave reviews about how "into the other girl" she was.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 152 reads
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They have to be sharing the same apartment so no traveling is involved.  Of the ones I've experienced, there tends to be one girl more dominant who really seems to be Bisexual, and the other girl more passive and just along for the ride to fill out the threesome.  I've only had two where BOTH girls seemed equally interested in the girl-on-girl aspect.  The few indie doubles I've tried were even less convincing, because the girls are not working out of the same space for days on end, and so do not seem to have any kind of connection between the two of them.  In some cases, they seemed to not even be that friendly towards each other.  It was more like calling up somebody you barely know because one guy in your golf foursome is out sick.

lopaw 29 Reviews 120 reads
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11 / 33

... always got girls who were genuinely into women,  or they were very VERY good actresses. Either way I had a great time.

NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 170 reads
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... love seeing men and woman clients about the same, as far as I can tell.  And they love seeing couples, and of course three-or-more-somes.  But most of their clients are men.  And to my knowledge, if these providers are in a committed relationship it's with a man.  But I know at least some of them see lady friends on the side, not p4p, with consent of their SOs--and sometimes WITH their SOs.  At least that's what they've told me.  I've only met one of these SOs, who confirmed what his partner told me.  

JakeFromStateFarm 165 reads
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13 / 33

He was thoroughly out and loved to play the queen, so everyone knew he was kidding when he said, "You know, I am really bi-sexual," then added, 'I like gay men AND straight men!"
He got a good laugh.

JakeFromStateFarm 76 reads
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In fact, GaGa, you even know the girls.  Pris and Andrea (a/k/a "The Frenchies) were "really bi" and VERY into each other.  I saw them go at it and it was a sight to behold.  Then there was our mutual friend in Jaco who called herself "Sophia" though you knew her by a different name.  She was with a gal pal and promised me a really good "lezbion cho." Her funny pronunciation was the best part.  The only pussy actually eaten was by yours truly.

EuroModelsShown 63 reads
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15 / 33

Unless they were actually trannys, in that case the wouldn't both really be bi.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 71 reads
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So you're saying some providers don't fake being BI to make a buck?  Now THAT makes no sense to any hobbyist that's ever experienced a bad double.

GaGambler 127 reads
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I understand what you are saying, from YOUR perspective of course. Mia's perspective as a bi woman is much different than yours of course.

Yes, there are many "gay for pay" providers, my ex GF was one of them, but your statement about how the K-girl model has one "dominant bi sexual" girl and another more passive girl seems to be suggesting intent, and I think it is much more a matter of "coincidence" due to a small sample size than any intent on the part of the K-girl agencies.

Mia has already alluded to "gay for pay" I think EVERYONE acknowledges that it's a fact of life in this biz, I think her objection is to how prevalent you seem to think it is.  

Personally I don't much care about how much the girls are into each other, but I would have to say that out of the several dozen threesomes I have partaken in, at least half the times the girls actually enjoyed playing with each other, and please keep in mind, in my case it's not a matter of "seeing what I want to see" as I really don't care if they are into each other as long as they are both into me.

GaGambler 112 reads
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I have found the "lezbion cho" in Costa Rica has a much lower percentage of girls who actually interact with each other. A good percentage of the time you only get a tag team and while one of the girls is fucking you, the other is rifling through your wallet. lol

It is ironic, because I know a LOT of bi and lesbian chicas in CR, but they are rarely the ones working in teams. I have had a couple of dozen threesomes in CR, but I have probably had a thousand offers, obviously I turn down a LOT more of these offers than I accept.  

I am sure you do remember two ticas who work VERY well together, "Natalia" and her friend, the ones who threatened to take your dick home with them. Those two are up for ANYTHING and I remember Natalia pouting for hours one night because I could only fuck her for an hour on an overnight date because I drank too much tequila. lol

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 74 reads
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19 / 33

on my own experiences.  As I said above, I have only had two doubles sessions out of a couple dozen where the girls were genuinely into the girl-girl action.  The rest of the time, it was just a fake show for my benefit, and not a very good one at that.  Maybe I'm just not good at picking the right girl to set the double up, and they're just calling up any random girl they know that coincidentally has some free time to take some of my money.  For me, without the girl-girl action, there is no reason for me to do a double in the first place.  I'm the same age as you, and I have always booked two hours for a doubles session.  It usually takes me at least 20 minutes after the  first pop to be up for round 2.  What I want is to watch a little girl-girl action that is real and not being faked during my 20-min "down" time, then its back to the action for all three of us.  Watching them fake it just makes me feel ripped off, and then I don't do doubles after awhile.  I think many guys here would agree with me that MOST doubles sessions are just two girls tag-teaming the hobbyist, so they split the work, but still get paid as though they were doing a single and each carrying the work load by themselves.  

 
So I don't think I am broad-brushing anything, since only abut ten percent of my doubles experiences involved genuine really-into-it girl-girl action.  I can respect that Mia is BI and so 100% of her sessions may be genuine girl-girl action, but that is not the experience most hobbyists I know have had generally.  My post may make no sense to HER, but she has had sex with far fewer other providers than I have, and she generally gets the benefit of picking girls she knows she is compatible with.  Many hobbyists don't, they rely on a girl they know to line up the other girl.  In the Kgirl scene, it comes down to who the other girl is that's working at the incall.  There are no other choices.  

JakeFromStateFarm 90 reads
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I saw her in Jaco last Feb. and she still looks great.  She is the best kind of crazy.  I did doubles with her and her friend (yes, that was the time they wanted to take my dick home) but they didn't really interact.  What they DID do was good enough though.  Of course, what they DIDN'T do was even more important.  Fortunately, their English was good enough to understand, "Get that knife away from my dick!"

EuroModelsShown 108 reads
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Posted By: JakeFromStateFarm
Re: Are you fascinated by trannies?  That's hardly a surprise. eom
I've seen you give the guys who go for TS a HARD time.

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 115 reads
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23 / 33

Male clients. I love love females. I just don't care to find myself posting a Thread on how I fell in love with a client. Actually I am more worried about seeing a female client and if I am not attracted, not being able to fake it. So there is two reasons I just say no. I have had several other providers try to set up appts with me (and female hobbyists). I just say no. I am more comfortable hanging with the men, even though women win hands down!  

It feels more personal for me if I am with a female.  

Guys are fun to be around. Yes, sorry ladies but I love the way men are and their personalities. Women tend to try to out do each other. Not all, but quite a few.  

I have and will continue to offer doubles with women. I have to have a lot of trust in her, know she is good at what she does for the guys & treats them well, and I got to be hot for her. I don't care if her pussy is made of money, if I am not hot for her, it's not happening. LMAO

keystonekid 114 Reviews 105 reads
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JakeFromStateFarm 97 reads
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25 / 33

About as much sense as 99% of your other posts.  No sense at all.
Are you in some sort of group home? I really hope so.
Can you even feed yourself?

BstyBlndEscort See my TER Reviews 143 reads
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I date women in my personal and professional life. Same with men. I do what makes me happy. My partners don't get jealous -- possessiveness is not sexy. :)

ElTorro 15 Reviews 106 reads
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Because it means that they're more open to girl on girl action, and what straight guy doesn't like the sight of 2 hot chicks making out?

Clarafox See my TER Reviews 128 reads
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29 / 33

I date both women and men. I've had a few women hit me up as clients, but it is truly rare, like 1%. More common is that couples will hit me up.  

:)

lopaw 29 Reviews 92 reads
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30 / 33

I'm hearing from more and more of my local providers saying that they have been approached by female hobbyists, so I know that the numbers are growing. They are still small, but starting to be more vocal in seeking out female company :)

blondiegirlxxxx See my TER Reviews 80 reads
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I am a true bisexual and see men, women and couples and encountered "fake pussy eating" and girls who are "gay for pay" and I personally think that unless you are willing to eat pussy for real and really get into it then you should not be doing it.  Guys are paying a lot for two girls and one of the reasons for wanting a duo is because he wants to see two hot girls really get down with each other.  Personally, if I was the guy paying and saw some "fake pussy eating" going on I would be pissed and eould feel cheated.  

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 69 reads
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I love females. I do not see female clients. Kind of hard blurring the lines. Either I really like ya and want to date you or not at all.

I see men and TS gals only. Much easier to keep boundaries.  

PS: because of the way TER use to have their rating system, the vast majority claimed being bi when they were not!!! They just wanted the extra point. I am sure Lopaw can back me up on that from the west coast.

Because of twitter, I have found many ladies who are bi or lesbian that primarily stick with seeing men business wise. I can't say much because I get it from my perspective. If I have a SO, yes it does feel like cheating, to me.

BigBoyPants 5 Reviews 57 reads
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I have ties to that community and I meet a lot of people that live a different lifestyle.

What I have seen in most bi/lesbian relationships is that the rule of thumb for women is:
"You can fuck any guy you want, but you need my permission to fuck another woman", if fucking another woman is even allowed.

My lesbian sister and her girlfriend went to a Mellisa Etheridge concert once and got backstage passes and met Mellisa.  Mellisa started hitting on my sister, her girlfriend got furious, it ended up breaking up their relationship even though nothing happened.

Hell, there's a bi/lesbian Ex Marine girl I work with and she says it would be ok for us to fuck but she'd need permission from her wife to see another woman.  Haven't taken her up on it... yet. 😁

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