At the very least you read the important bits.
The price, additional charges
The rules
Where to pick up & drop off
Where to pick up and drop off
The limits on mileage
etc
It would make sense to do the same before contacting a provider...
Read everything pertinent.
You dont need to know their favorite fragrance but you should at least know how they prefer to be contacted and how to screen/book. Contacting someone saying "Are you available...what do you offer" when all that info has already been provided on the website/advert/profile just gives the provider an impression that you will be, at best, an inconvenience, at worst a terrible client.
Advice for hobbyists:
Always read the providers website prior to contacting.
Advice for providers:
Always collect your contribution prior to preforming.
These are just 2 that stuck out the most for me because I’m tired of Joe Blows who waste everyone’s time by not referring to the providers website & I keep reading providers state he didn’t pay me.
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Yes, clients should read the websites in their entirety but I also think the lady should restate anything truly important in the pre-meet up email or text e.g. where/how to place the donation, any etiquette things the lady in question may be particular about, etc.
The biggest piece of advice to guys would be to use the method of contact the girl requests i.e. some ladies hate phone calls and prefer text, others want email only correspondence until the day of, etc.
On the day of the date, guys (and girls) should refrain from eating anything that greatly affects breath such as onions, garlic, cigarette/cigar smoke, etc and hygiene should be pristine.
My point is, do everyone a favor & clearly read the providers website entirely prior to contacting them. I receive emails, messages & the questions can all be answered by reading the website I created. This is just a general post. If anyone wants to add more details feel free.
You must remember that a large number of potential clients have not seen anyone having more than a phone number .
Then they upgrade to the next level that may have an email.
Now you are asking them to ready a website and respond with something better then “Are You Available in an Hour”
Now you expect a deposit
Oh they choke on a $300 Tryst but may send you an ID .
Just pulling your chain a little but can steer you to some sites they inhabit .
Did you read all the info on that contract when you last rented a car? lol. Of course we should read everything all the way through but we are all human and sometimes we skim or just miss things. But I hear you.
Yes sir indeed I did read the contract before signing.
At the very least you read the important bits.
The price, additional charges
The rules
Where to pick up & drop off
Where to pick up and drop off
The limits on mileage
etc
All the pertinent info for renting before you drive it off the lot...
It would make sense to do the same before contacting a provider...
Read everything pertinent.
You dont need to know their favorite fragrance but you should at least know how they prefer to be contacted and how to screen/book. Contacting someone saying "Are you available...what do you offer" when all that info has already been provided on the website/advert/profile just gives the provider an impression that you will be, at best, an inconvenience, at worst a terrible client.
It's so important and would save us all so much time!!
All based on real experiences:
If the lady is hosting, basic cleanliness and hospitality, please. Nothing says declasse quite like having to dry my hands with toilet paper, a wastebasket with condom wrappers (or worse), or a room that reeks.
Ladies, I love talking to you, but not about your boyfriend, your FWB, other clients (particularly the one you just pegged), or your competition.
Not everyone is 420 friendly. More power to you if you are, but an apartment that smells of weed is not everyone's preference.
waste basket WITHOUT condom wrappers is going to lead to "salty" DATY?
I love hearing humorous anecdotes about things that happened during sessions with their customers, but of course, I'm not the insecure type. Guess what, she's a provider and this is her BUSINESS. There are bound to be amusing stories in this biz just like any other business. Loosen up, bro, and don't be so serious. You'll have more fun.
...the restroom to wash my hands but also to see if the garbage can is full of little wads of kleenex. No, I don't dig thru to check for the % of dried crusty ones but it can give some indication of what may soon occur, lol.
at an Asian massage parlor unless my tetanus shots are up to date. Lol
Here's the thing, lots of Providers spend top dollar to get the fancy, slow fading, twirling, invisible font color, slow loading confusing websites built.
It seems like you're trying to compete with the other providers to show off.
Lots of Clients don't care one bit about any of that mess.
I want to find what I'm looking for get in and out of a website as quickly as I can.
For me, all I need in this order:
Rates w/some list of activities, Pictures (Selfies) and your location.
If that could be on the front page, that would be awesome!!
Agreed. A site that gives all the basics in one easy to read and understand place. Include selfie photos too, ladies. Those airbrushed high end magazine model shoot photos look great but the lady you end of seeing almost never looks like that and neither does the Incall environment. The pictures show a high end luxury suite at the Waldorf-Astoria and the actual Incall is a Motel 6!
I agree. Years ago, some of the issues were:
- Audio files (loud sexy music or video) that would AUTOSTART. NO AUTOSTART! NSFW!
- Huge hi def images. Slow computers or slow connections and your computer could freeze up just as someone enters your work or home office. No choice but to pull the plug and crash the session.
- Avoid outdated code and protocols (e.g., scripting languages)
- Do not overuse scripts (fading, twirling, ...) They can be memory and CPU-hungry annoyances that can freeze or crash our computers
- This is not Yahoo or Disney!!! We don't need fancy and complicated!
- KISS: KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID!!
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Computers are faster and better. Even slow connections are usually fast enough not to freeze up. But it's still the same basic idea today: Make your websites for the Clients!
- Fast loading
- Clear, readable fonts
- If you want to add fancy stuff, make it OPTIONAL for users to click on. E.g., many websites now offer videos but users have to click on the start button.
- Different today is the increasing use of VPNs. Some websites block anonymizing VPNs so the pages won't load and generate an error message: "Unable to access this site ..." "Your location is blocked from accessing this website due to (too many requests, possible malicious behavior, etc.)" "Contact your ISP about ..." Try testing your site from various sources and use some VPNs. Maybe ask friends with alternative means of access if they can access your website without issues.
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And maybe some other considerations.
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Thanks for listening!
Here's the thing, lots of Providers spend top dollar to get the fancy, slow fading, twirling, invisible font color, slow loading confusing websites built.
It seems like you're trying to compete with the other providers to show off.
Lots of Clients don't care one bit about any of that mess.
I want to find what I'm looking for get in and out of a website as quickly as I can.
For me, all I need in this order:
Rates w/some list of activities, Pictures (Selfies) and your location.
If that could be on the front page, that would be awesome!!
So I don't hesitate to take care of business first thing.
In my 15 years of hobbying I don't recall seeing a provider with a proper website. To me it's a red flag as usually such providers are overpriced. They tend to obfuscate sex with providing some kind of "experience" and then want to charge $$$ extra for this "experience". Not my cup of tea at all. I guess their target market is uninformed amateurs.
You’ve reviewed several providers who have websites. What about those isn’t “proper”?
I’ve seen many providers who have personal websites. All of those providers had reasonable-for-the-market rates at the time I saw them. Of course there’s high-priced providers who have personal websites. (And there’s high-priced providers who don’t have personal websites.). The websites help potential clients be more informed, so I don’t understand your comment about the target market for providers with websites being “uninformed amateurs”.
of providers on TER and look down the list of ad links on their profile, you will see one listing that is labeled, "personal website." This is usually where you will find any proprietary websites for reviewed providers on TER. If you stick with well -reviewed TER providers, you are less likely to encounter obfuscation in the advertising like what you have described. You are correct about providers with intentionally poorly-defined ad messaging. Plenty of straight-forward websites on TER ladies.
Where is it you hear these things? I read the crazy comments some of the dumbest, filthiest attitude, nasty-person, whores who complain about 'slobbyists' day and day out, "he didn't pay me" is not big on the list on the list of complaints. And these are hooker-only forums, so they have no fear of being confronted by facts. You're beginning to sound to me like a female CDL.
... I keep reading providers state he didn’t pay me.
Twitter, or now X
TER is not the only place I post. IDK who CDL is that your comparing me to. I read lots of posts by providers & hobbyists. Are you enlightened?
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This guy has a hard-on for everyone who has been here a lot longer than he has (he joined in March 2023). He outs himself as a newbie every day due to some of the dumb shit he posts. He doesn't like it to be pointed out that he knows very little. Yesterday, he said BLS was "ball licking service." Bwahahahaha Meanwhile, he claims to have been in the game for years. You should take what he says with a large bag of salt. Lol
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OMG, how embarrassing when the "newbies" get the acronyms wrong.
Everyone knows BLS stands for "Bureau of Labor Statistics".
*Awkward*
Not quite. (Also, 'X' is likely going to be called something else very soon. MS owns the trademark. LOL.)
I agree, just about the only time I see that complaint is on twitter, and it's is when some disgruntled whore, who thinks only mongers should get screwed over in this racket, blasts away until she becomes infamous and dissed by a million mongers until she reaches ignominy (whether she ever feels shame is debatable.)
But I'm tellin' ya, if it's not an issue on SW-only sites, I'm not sure why it would they would take it to twitter and nowhere else. Maybe you overstated it? Even that fucked up chick BostonVIP or whatever she called herself (iirc, she was from FL, so go figure), if you looked at her twitter feed up until about the 10-hr mark, there were tons (proportionally, lol) of hookers applauding her. There were even more who ignored her completely and took the opportunity to post "pick me" tweets. Now, THAT'S sad.
Mainly because if a provider donations are 600.00 and up, I want to see if she is GFE, more and more providers are charging GFE prices for non GFE sessions, I have seen massage only providers charge 800.00 plus.