Scale measurements are only for a point in time.

When I am booking a date I am a 4.

When I am thinking about the date in the days prior I might be a 5.

When I open the door and see my date for the first time in person I might be 5+

When we are on the bed beginning to get to know each other I might be a 6.

When we are actively engaged I might be a 6+.

Shortly there after I might be a 3+.

Which is the important measurement?

... they both claimed that I was the best lover that they had ever had.
So, I'll claim a 10.  

They were both wonderful SLUTS until menopause.

As a lover I don't know. As company I am probably the 2nd most boring person on earth.  

Always room for improvement and yet I am pretty close....
I've definitely perfected the ultra sloppy dt and the hp Asian cowgirl

A provider once said to me, "you're number 1."   Now I understand that if she meant it as a compliment, she should have said "You're number 10."

Mainly for my foreplay and oral talents. Patience to bring a woman in to the moment, and hold her there until she begs me to let her cum. Personality wise...8-9. I'm laid back, good sense of humor. So far...the providers I see with any frequency seem to enjoy the convo....  
But it's on my dime, so take it as you want.

I'd rate myself...

At least an 8 maybe a 9. I just like making love or fucking (i really like to call it a love fuck lol) and I love to make my partner explode to the moon if I can. Turns me on even more to know they are having the same intense feeling as me.
Now when I'm in exibishion mode and having others watch or getting a good DP... a 10 lol I get lost in the atmosphere of it all.  
XOXO  
TL

-- Modified on 4/5/2018 8:28:05 PM

I think I am a solid 9....the gent I had this afternoon.... wow....10 all the way!!!  You know ladies.... one of those gents that you feel a smidge guilty taking the cash.... for a second..  

Xoxo
Scarlet

I always attempt to be a 10. Always want to be the best I can be for my partner and sure she's satisfied with our f I F ing lovemaking.  Doesn't mean she has to have an orgasm just be satisfied.  But overall, an 8

Well...

I flatter myself that I’m good company (7-8 maybe?).  The two Providers I’ve actually been with do genuinely seem to like me; my ATF and I are always going over on time (by about an hour and 15 minutes this past weekend).  We spend most of our time hugging, holding, squeezing, kissing and talking.

 
But as for actual sex?  Meh, I’m probably a 3 or 4 in that department.  It’s still all kind of new to me... though I’m having a great time learning.  

...to account for age -- and I'm 64 million years old (reference the handle) -- carry the two -- Ok I rate a 14!

I would say 9/10 on affection
Maybe 9 on size (for women who enjoy larger - probably a lot lower for those who get sore easily)
And about 7 on performance (I am 58 after all).