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I absolutely love this perspective ✨ — when the chemistry is right, time becomes irrelevant. Whether it’s an hour or an evening, what truly matters is feeling completely present with one another, without distractions. That’s when you know you’ve created something special… because you walk away not counting minutes, but carrying a memory that lingers long after.

I’ve always wondered — what really makes a date unforgettable?
For some, it’s the fine dining, the candlelight, the champagne poured just right… For others, it’s the effortless chemistry and those moments where time just seems to disappear.

As companions, we all have our little secrets to creating magic — maybe it’s a touch of spontaneity, a thoughtful detail, or simply knowing when to let the conversation flow naturally.

So I’m curious: for the gentlemen, what’s the one thing that makes a date linger in your mind long after it’s over? Is it the atmosphere, the anticipation, or perhaps a small gesture that feels genuine?  
And for my fellow companions, what’s your favorite ingredient to add to create that lasting spark?

I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts… after all, the perfect date might look a little different for each of us. 💫

The perfect date: April 1st !!

Posted By: MsKaeleen
I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts… after all, the perfect date might look a little different for each of us.
 
Fooled ya! Just kidding!

April 1st? That’s clever 😏 I’ll give you points for originality… but I think my perfect date has a lot more spark than a prank day, plus if the date is with me, any day can be the perfect one ✨

I’m a professional escort who tailors encounters to fit each individual. I can’t share all my tricks of the trade, but I customize the session to accommodate the needs of my friends. Everyone is different. I want to make each person feel special because they picked me & everyone has the freedom to support anyone’s business. It’s important to communicate before the date, and sometimes after if they plan to repeat. What makes the best dates is the company you choose. The spark should be there before you meet.  

Beautifully said 💫 I couldn’t agree more — the real magic of a date is in that unique connection that can’t be duplicated. I also believe in taking time to truly listen and create an atmosphere where someone feels seen, appreciated, and completely at ease. When that spark is there, everything flows naturally… and those are the moments that stay unforgettable.

I agree with all who mentioned "chemistry." Just like college chemistry, there are branches of emotional chemistry.  I just searched for my previous posts where I mentioned things like "she could read my mind." Those topics did not always begin with a Q about "the perfect date" but my replies are still applicable.
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http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/never-zero-english-vulcan-mind-melding-805697
"I have said it before: two of my faves were K-girls (one AMP, one high end) with limited English. They could read my mind. They knew exactly how to put me at complete ease and how to exhilarate me to the utmost heights. Why would I have to SAY anything when they were already a step ahead of me?"
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http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/deja-vu-all-over-again-788174
"Different: Mind-reading or mind-meld -- I would swear that one of my ATFs, now retired, could read my mind.  I'm not sure that I could properly read her, so it wasn't a complete mind-meld.  It wasn't necessarily seduction or even mutual seduction. It was so incredibly enjoyable AND COMFORTABLE to be with her.  Sometimes, just lying there, nothing was happening but "something" was happening."
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http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/i-have-to-admit-that-i-like-routine-too-811825
"My all-time ATF (that's ATATF :-) in TER nomenclature) is a K-girl (now retired) who I saw many, many times. She could read my mind and make me feel so good even if nothing was happening. It was BETTER than being in love (no pain and suffering) ... for an hour at a time."
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http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/amazing-randy-459455
"I will mostly take note of your "mind reading" reference. I have a few friends who, I would almost swear, CAN and DO read my mind. The chemistry is just there. I don't know how they do it or how they "read" me."
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http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/re-when-you-say-----971673
"She had a physical flaw (xxxxxxxx) that might turn away some guys upon first "GLANCE" but not me and the rest was amazing. I felt so comfortable with her. It was as if she could read my mind. Technically, it was not GFE "service" but it was GFE, emphasis on EXPERIENCE, in other ways, every time."
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http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/re-i-can-top-this-story-unfortunatly--457156
"She is non-GFE but she is the most GFE non-GFE I know. There may be a few minutes of "what's new" (sometimes good news, sometimes bad news) but EVERY time has been a good time for me (and, I hope, her). It's as if she can read my mind. She makes me feel so "close" without allowing things to get too close."
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I could post more examples but if you don't "get it" it's a waste of time. If you DO get it, then you can read my mind and understand the kind of "chemistry" I'm talking about.

taking a wide view of the subject I can see how it can be.

 
I had a girl friend who constantly would say what I had on my mind to the point of me actually telling her (good naturedly) "Now cut that out!" before she could open her mouth to say something.   We both broke out in laughter.

 
I use the term chemistry to evoke a mystical quality of romance.  I hope science never discovers exactly what it is, because mysteries are the soul of life.   Nothing like dissection to kill off something.

 
It is much the same with art, music, and humor.

Spoiler Alert! mrfisher, do not read this!!
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Spoiler Alert!
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Final warning! Spoiler Alert!
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xpKeabZlEs
Ah! Sweet Mystery of Life!
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Ah, sweet mystery of life
At last I've found thee
Ah, I know at last the secret of it all
All the longing, seeking, striving, waiting, yearning
The burning hopes, the joy and idle tears that fall
For 'tis love and love alone, the world is seeking
And 'tis love and love alone that can repay
'Tis the answer, 'tis the end and all of living
For it is love alone that rules for aye
Love and love alone, the world is seeking
For 'tis love and love alone that can repay
'Tis the answer, 'tis the end and all of living
*** For it is love alone that rules for aye ***

Posted By: mrfisher
Re: I never thought of mind reading as being related to chemistry, per se, but...
taking a wide view of the subject I can see how it can be.  

I had a girl friend who constantly would say what I had on my mind to the point of me actually telling her (good naturedly) "Now cut that out!" before she could open her mouth to say something.   We both broke out in laughter.  

I use the term chemistry to evoke a mystical quality of romance.  I hope science never discovers exactly what it is, because mysteries are the soul of life.   Nothing like dissection to kill off something.  

It is much the same with art, music, and humor.

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The less I am aware of the time, the better the date typically is. And before the trolls come out to play, this has nothing to do with extra time beyond what I pay to have. I have had dates where I left 10-15 minutes early and was fully satisfied and didn’t feel like I noticed the time. The idea is that I feel we are lost in each other and not distracted by anything external.

I absolutely love this perspective ✨ — when the chemistry is right, time becomes irrelevant. Whether it’s an hour or an evening, what truly matters is feeling completely present with one another, without distractions. That’s when you know you’ve created something special… because you walk away not counting minutes, but carrying a memory that lingers long after.

where you ran overtime intentionally because when the time you paid for was up, she did not throw you out, so you construe that as an intention to stay longer without paying.  You have bragged about it on this board.  

It really does boil down to chemistry, and what that actually means will vary person to person.  For me, that means effortless conversation and sexual compatibility.  

It helps me select companions when they actually say something about themselves on their website or ad.  Sure, I want to know what naughty things they do, but I also like to know if they share any of my interests.  Having topics of conversation that both parties are actually interested in really does help build a connection earlier.

I've had terrible dates, ones that were OK, and some that I will never forget.  All of the best ones started with a kiss and some shared laughs and touch before getting down in the bedroom.  Once we're there, it's always better if we already know the rules of engagement and where the boundaries are so we can otherwise cut loose.

...to a very similar question - the perfect date is when she tells me that she knows how to please a woman, and then she proves it 🤤

Being lucky enough to have a few 9-10 rated providers that I see whenever possible. They all constantly provide great sessions. Not just for me, they have pages of good reviews from other guys. It has nothing to do with a expensive hotel or hot  lingerie. Truthfully or not they do seem happy to see you, they also focus on getting you off and enjoying your time. This all sounds very simple but the good ones are just plain fun to be around and you look forward to seeing them again.  
Part of it I think is simply old fashion salesmanship. Its hard to describe but once exposed to it you will never forget. Any ex business owner probably remembers the fun sales girl who called on him and he always looked forward to her visit. These providers have drive and want to do well. Some at this point have gone under the radar and only pick and choose who they want to see. I feel very lucky to see them .              

I'm a fan of good vibes, good chemistry, and think I can tell that pretty well through how they write, the pictures they choose, even the first messages back and forth. I also like when someone is genuine, even if they're having a bad day. I'd rather someone feel like they don't have to be performing the whole time. The honesty builds good chemistry in my experience. I'm good at turning a frown upside down. What can I say.

And when both of you are firing on all cylinders....she just gets and is into your passion.
And when she leaves you at 5AM, there's something in her makes that makes her turn her head to get one final glimpse of where we left it all behind.
And yes, that was our room...the only light on

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