We just had a earlier thread on haggling and the money question always comes up from time to time on this site. So some people mention how high the rates are in major cities and we always see comments from providers or hobbyists telling those people, it's their right to charge what they want for their business.  

Most women get dick thrown at them all the time, so I imagine that they would rather spend their money on a massage therapist rather than a boy toy. The female hobbyists probably have the most insight to your questions.

I need to clarify...am I seeing a male hooker or a female hookers?

This question is your decision and remember it's all in fun, when answering this question!

I'm a girl, and I can't imagine myself paying even $100 for sex. I'd never go out and by a monster truck, either.

Quite the sarcasm. You not-so-secretly hate men/your job, huh? Hey, at least we're dumb enough to pay for that act, right? Thankfully for your sake anyway

Of course, I'm willing to overlook that when they look like this...

So no, Im not going to pay anyone else what I charge unless it's for something that I can't live without.  Ex:  rent/mortgage, medical treatment, an investment, etc

It's an excuse to vent your true feelings about how you feel about guys who pay for sex and your opinion of the experience generally, from your side of it. Not so thinly veiled. Do I disagree with your assessment of how it goes down, from your viewpoint? Ha! Not at all. That see to sums it up alright.  

If I were a male client looking for a provider, I would certainly pay my rate for the girl.  But, I would book for an overnight or a multi-day appt. (It's a much better value).  She would have to be beautiful and we would have to click or get along.  She would have to have class, style, and be a lady in public.  I wouldn't want people talking, except to say what a lucky guy I was.  But, not a stick-in-the-mud, she would have to be fun and we would travel or explore together laughing it up having the time of our lives...Then BCD, once we were alone, she would have to be incredible in bed.  She would rock my world and we would have wild, untamed sex.  That would be what I would look for in a provider in my price range.
Jessica Knightly

would you pay your rates to another escort man or female?
Also what would make you pay that person your rate or give them gifts?

So because she speaks her truth you think she hates her job and men? If I were to use that flawed thinking I would have to say 90% of the tricks on here hate women and mongering the way they bitch, so what is it..when a trick moans and pisses he has a right to his truth but if a hooker does it she is a man hater? You are one dumb fuck!

Because you seem to have taken this personally. She was using sarcasm. The OP did say have fun with this...you missed the memo crabby little bitch.

As some have said, it's difficult since women aren't in the same position to pay for sex since 1) they've been taught to withhold it and 2) they are more likely to be frugal. However, if we had an even playing field I imagine I would pay the same rate I ask for, but then again, they're not very high rates, just reasonable enough to make an impact on my finances.

...but why do you hold guys who pay for sex in contempt at all?

Hey..she didn't deny she has disdain for men.  

I trust that Marius is doing well too?

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And if you ever hooked you would understand that it is NOT all fun and games and what she said can and does happen. Yeah we sometimes make light of it by being sarcastic. Other times we just get fed up due to a run of assholes. Not unlike any job where one interacts with the general public in a service industry.  

If i were the consumer instead of the provider I would find the guy that I wanted to spend time with and pay whatever his rate was based on if I had the funds to do it.  
Everybody says that women have dicks thrown at them for free so why would they pay. But I would not be paying to have dicks thrown at me. I would be paying for the entire service of making me feel the way that I want to feel. I would want a professional who knew how to make the transaction feel beautiful and respectable. I don't want to pick up some predator in a bar. I would be buying the fantasy.  
So yes, I would pay my rate for the type of service I provide if I had enough discretionary income to justify it.

Ah, Marius is still out there to be found...

Ok...help me out. Which ones?

Ad men (and women) are fond of emphasizing the point that they sell the sizzle, not the steak.

I guess that's maybe why I didn't see it as funny. I imagine it to be every bit as a grind as you say it is. I guess I read it and knee-jerk reacted with the thought of....it seems like it's usually a bad experience....so why keep doing it? But that's where I am clueless. I have no basis for asking that question...with any real understanding or appreciation for the 'why'.  

The women I have been with, yeah, from the kiss to the touching...everything. I find men can be very heavy handed and too aggressive. If I want to be made love to I will pick a woman, if I want to be "handled" I will choose a guy.  

both shared some profound insights that really resonated with me... Thank you.

Sex sells and no one sells it beter than a woman. Sure a man can get paid to get laid, but look at what's buying. Every man that has told me my work was easy was shut down as soon as I broke it down for them. Saying things like "oh, I could never fuck a fat chick"... My response "I do massage, I don't screw" giving them the WTH face! The look on their face is still utter confusion.  When I danced it was the same thing, all my extremely sexy jobs (I've had many )  have been bashed by men because of the income it brings yet not one man could bring himself to the idea of engaging someone they found unattractive. I'm attracted to people who treat me well, it doesn't matter what you look like. I've been this way since I was 19 and that was many years ago. It's a mindset not afforded to many men and many men realize the potential for clientele is heavily male based. So if you swing both ways you're golden, if not you must be one smooth talker and know how to finesse a woman.  

Fair enough

I don't think that we would be the right group to answer this particular question. But it definitely is a fun question for the providers out there!

...the tip of course granted the service was extra awesome.  

But there is no-one that fits my physical bill that is truly into women where I am.

As a female, could you make any generalizations as to how your search and play criteria may differ from the generic male hobbyist? Example (typical guy): "damn she looks hawt! I wanna stick that and cum all over her face!." You feel the same way?

...you can arrange a double and just neglect the client under the auspices of "putting on a show" for him.

Or lol find a reason to travel to her area.  
And like with anything else if I can't afford it right away I'll save up for it...if I want it bad enough. A lot of fly me to you's can cost a nice bit o' coin .  
I'm very happy though that if I do decide to go for hobbying that I have no shortage of local or visiting women in my area that'd i'd do good bad things (also I don't have just one type and many seem genuinely bi).

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never a drick

It just shows many of us, have a lot more in common.
When it comes to this hobby, no matter if your are the hobbyist or provider

hmmm.

Kinda. I definitely can relate to the ""damn she looks hawt!" part, but I think in the female equivalent in what things I'd like to do to her & have her do to me. I envision running my tongue over every inch of her body and how good she would DATY me.  
You know - standard horny lez stuff

It is a combination of disgusting and trick = drick