With regard to my previous post, link provided, about how long to wait....
We have Amicably Concluded our Business and are going our separate ways.

If I had the chance to do it over again, I would, just a little differently.

The provider involved is truly a Very Good Person. We both acted irrationally at moments, generally in response to recent personal experiences, and we had our differences of opinion. Those are resolved.

Although brief, yet Passionate, "Our Moment in Time" was some of my Best Hobby Experience I've had to date.

I wish Her the Best, as She does I.

Thanks to all who shared thoughts, some good advice, and some not so good advice.

Be Well, and Play nice.....no more shitting and pissing in the sand box. lol

The best thing to do is know when it's over, and move on. If there is one thing I learned through various heartbreaks and disappointments, it's that you can't force another human being to feel something they don't, or act in the way you want them to. It is better to face reality, and part ways. I've lost a few friends over bs, when it was obvious I could not give them what they wanted, but in the end...honesty is the best policy. No one likes being rejected, but that's life. We have all had to deal with it.

ah..parting is such sweet sorrow..just check the ad boards..you will soon have another "moment in time"..that sand box is awfully big..

Hi London,

That's too bad, for I hear that you're a sweet lady, BCD!! Thankfully I've never crossed the line between fantasy & reality!! By keeping it real a hobbyist can always have a great time w/a lady w/o getting clingy!!

I find that very amusing..

Hi Johnny,

.. an exclusive club! BWAAAH  





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When we don't drool over women like you do, you call us haters.  I just don't find it necessary to drool over women on a hooker board. This is a transactional relationship. If I find someone's pics hot, I do, and in the past have PMed her telling her of her pics...

But the way you guys drool over women makes you look like love sick puppies just craving for attention...

And I am not singling you out Cubbie... You have plenty of company...

Hi Curly,

You think? I'm  just the antithesis of your board persona!  I love women & will continue to respect & compliment them on this board!!  That's the way I was raised!! Just Sayin'

I'm with you Cubbie. I don't see the need to think of these women as just a temporary hole to fill, I could jerk off if that's all I thought they were good for. I like the companionship, beauty, and warmth of a woman and enjoy every inch of their body.

Why not appreciate a woman and treat her with respect. You can still fuck her, and respect her at the same time. Anything other than that is simply like calling one of these ladies a cum dumpster. Now some of these ladies like to be degraded, well good for them because there are people on the boards just for them.

I'm not saying fall in love with them, just respect them. As far as craving attention, for me that's not entirely accurate. I don't crave it, but I sure as fuck enjoy it, and that applies to the providers as well. Who doesn't luxuriate in the attention?  Everyone here is guilty of wanting attention.

For the OP I'm glad you two talked it out, and neither of you are leaving on bad terms.

MM

Hi MM,

... what I believe in! Thanks for your thoughtful response!!

Best antidote is to have good relations with two or three reputed agencies who can backfill in an hour so. Typically, drive takes 30 to 45 minutes (at least where I live) and Viagra is still working.

I am not talking about appreciating the ladies or treating them properly... Its how you present yourself...

I somewhat agree. I would go with a newbie mistake as opposed to immature. Once you realize just how many other flavors there are, including civie girls. It makes it easier to satisfy your palette.

I also did not imply you mistreated a lady, I'm just saying I don't see them as a fuckdoll without emotion.

Agreed. It is also very unattractive lol. I like guys who act like they DON'T want me.

Great thoughts' by all....
Thanks Cubbie, we both bleed blue. see ya at sheffield and waveland some day.
MM you're absolutely correct, thanks.
Thanks London,  I appreciate your feedback and understanding.
Curley, you're right as well ..... no droolin, just plain old respect...

Perhaps the point I was making most of all is How quick most guys/gals would pull the BS and would "Out" or "black list" each other.
This situation was not nearly as black and white as a NCNS, or even a rip off.  it was more complicated, and req'd, and rec'd special consideration.
My goal was not hurt anyone opportunities, nor have mine curtailed.  just show mutual respect and understanding.  if that's too mangina for you .... tough!!! grow some gonads!!!

Was I ever ripped off, hell yeah!  But Karma, has had that chick in and out of Jail for her shenanigans.

As for gettin' back on the bike, I've been playing', not as much as I'd like, but I was back at it right quick.
Did I lament?  way too effin  much!!!  my apologies to all.

The provider in question is not my only ATF, but was one of the top ladies, and a special person none the less.   I did not see our friendship through rose colored glasses, just for what it was. i abhor losing friends, but it happens. Some are "good riddance to bad rubbish", Not this one though, quite the opposite.

As for anyone who might have an inkling, The provider is top notch, and I would not hesitate to give her a top recommendation, regardless......

All the ladies I see are great people, some know me from this alias, and I respect them all for who they are....trust me i'm not looking to fall in love here...... had enough of that "battle" for now. but each Lady has her own special and unique gifts.

As for transaction aspect...... Correctamundo fellas!!!!
I understand the provider has a service, and I pay for it.. It's their way of making a living, or helps.....  and as important, I'm stimulating the economy!!!!
At the same time, I maintain good relationships w/ whomever I contract with. both as a consumer, and in my own profession.

This is it for me on this subject. thanks all.

Be Well,
and
Namaste