I have visited many different providers in NYC. Some are locals, some longer term visitors, some short term visitors or touring. Some Asian, some caucasian, some latinas, some african American, some mixed. My taste is wide! My experiences have been VERY varied and I am wondering if I could have predicted some of the disappointments.

Some I am sure I could have predicted. I am a big fan of BBBJ and honestly don't enjoy a covered BJ at all. While I respect the decision by the provider to not offer BBBJ, I think that there are may ways of approaching it.

The Asian girls I have visited will always take care of get you  hard and ready before they slip on the cover. By teasing, playing, etc. In these cases I end up hardly noticing the cover coming on and it's usually a great experience.

Many of the touring girls however can barely wait to get some cover on and will insist on covering my soft willy. A TOTAL TURN OFF to me. In fact, i visited a Vegas girl yesterday who wouldn't even touch my soft dick before the cover was on.

Now, some might think it's because i was unwashed or whatever, but I ahd just showered and shaved down there and was smelling of soap. I am not a scruffy looking lad, I'm just a regualt guy.

Well, it resulted in a serious case of semi-erection and as soon as she let go of him to move to mish he fell like a sack of potatoes, only to get back up when i took over myself.

So, long intro over, what is the practice among providers? Aside from asking while setting up the appointment, is there another tell-tale sign that you are heading for an overly careful lady?

Read the reviews. Usually the reviewers give a play by play in chronological order of what happens, including when/how the provider puts on the cover.

Leave it to one of LA's finest to answer the question. It's always in the juicy details. If guys think they're being rushed and the cover goes on before it should, it's gonna be in the juicy details. Most if not all guys hate being rushed and there's no surer a sign of that, if the lady is in a horry to cover you up.  You know, you could just say to the lady "not yet" when she reaches for the cover.

WTF is that?

It is Bohemian for a guy who dosen't read the juicy details or one who will not spring for VIP before booking appointments.

Just an Old ,Ugly Fat Fuck with an opinion.

I'm confused as to how you have such different experiences if you are reading these girls reviews. It clearly states as to whether or not a girl provides BBBJ or CBJ. There should not be a problem.