I recently had an appointment with a well-reviewed lady that truly exceeded my expectations. It was a wonderful experience. This is what caught me off guard at the end of our session and have never been placed in this awkward situation in the 10 years I have been doing this.  

I don't run specials because I am always special.  So there's no confucius about rates.  

is one that happens to be on this website right here. only because men (and ladies, i guess) are able to change it. i have signed on to my profile page and i have seen things that just aren't true. i can submit it to ter and have them fix it, but i can't check it every second of every day.

It is the business side of the transaction to inform the client of what the rate is. If the business has a change in rates, again, it is there responsibility to inform you.

Oh yeah I know you can't go by what's listed here on TER because you have little control over it. I don't even go by what's listed on a ladies main site. Since I only book through P411 I go by what is listed unless it's a extended date that's not listed or her P411 profile says see website.

It's OK to talk money and time. That's not the same thing as mentioning sexual services. Why did you leave ID? I never give ID.

Yes, it happened to me. P411 will transfer some info whe creating a visiting ad and almost always, it needs to be edited.  

I have ran across some ladies over the years that if you mention or ask about their rates it will end all communication. Why did I give ID? Well that is part of the safety of P411. Plus I don't give a crap if they know who I am where what business I own and where I live. If they showed up at my front door I'd invite the right on in. Of course that would be on the house if they enjoyed me that much to take the time. LMAO

I've never ran across a lady that got upset for simply mentioning time or money. I'm in SF so things may be done differently than where you are. It's usually only if you mention something like BBBJ_CIM or some other sex act. Since I have a family to protect I don't want them knowing where I live or showing up at my doorstep.  Giving a personal ID is not part of P411 protocol

My understanding was that your first name, the day you was born, and four consecutive numbers that is part of your P411 ID also had to be on the ID that you showed the lady on your arrival.

Information up-to-date.

Couldn't agree more.

All you have to say is something like:  I'm relying on the info I saw on P411 (or wherever) for your donation.  Then she has the right to correct you if she wants.

recently I headed off a potential oops. I had a date coming up with someone I've seen many times before, so I know her rates--but I always check anyway. Her rates are on p411 but not for the duration of our date. And there wasn't enough info to extrapolate. So I asked her a few days before what the rate is. She said X, making it sound like it should be obvious, but then offered me a nice discount (for being a regular I guess). I thanked her and told her why I asked. Turns out some of her rate info on p411 was wrong, it's been wrong for a long time, and no one ever noticed it. It's fixed now.

Despite clarity on websites, etc there are still frequent misunderstandings (outside of ripoffs) that make things difficult.  Sometimes websites are ambiguous about servies, e. g. FBSM or FS, although fewer and fewer providers seem to offer the former.  More difficult is OTC -- to me it means companionship, no sex, no $$$.  With a good friend who asked me to show her around the city we were in, I readily agreed, bought a modest lunch and was a good tour guide for a few hours. Taking her home, she was decidedly cool, although she didn't say anything.  I could only conclude that she wanted some compensation for her time, although that was never discussed in any way.  But she was, to me, clearly disappointed and because we got along well in public as well as our occasional paid appointments, I think we were both a bit put out.  I'm still puzzled.  
Bottom line: both parties have to try to make things clear, in a tactful way, from the beginning and avoid ambiguity, which is inherent in human relationships.  Especially complex are weekends or longer.  Remember, this is an activity for grownups, although we all behave in childish ways from time to time.

Trying to talk to someone who doesn't write Inglish.
PS: That was sarcasm.

like I said I never had a problem in the past, but I guess there is a first time for everything.

Reasoning behind that, if this all is legit (and I don't have any reason to think it is or isn't), ...

I imagine it was pretty awkward for both of you! I've had weird glitches (transposed numbers, discounts that won't delete), like Sexy Jaye, before, and it's hard to walk the line of "how do I 1) make sure this was an honest mistake, and 2) make sure I don't screw up any more than already has been". She probably just wanted things to go off without a hitch if you seemed like a genuinely nice guy, and didn't want to either offend or lose you all together if it was an honest mix up, so afterwards might have looked like the best time to address it to her. What're you gonna do? Some stuff just can't be part of a good fantasy no matter how you try, lol!

becase too often is for lesser time or lesser services.  If I do...  I bring enough for her full rate in case that turns out to be what I really want...  when we get BCDs.  That said, on the initial contact, I'll mention which ad I'm replying to.  She may not remember but I've laid the ground work.  
I prefer to get business out of the way ASAP...  so we can time the events correctly.