or not!

How long has it been since I've seen a client with whom I clicked so well? (Because looks really don't matter to me; it's all about chemistry in my book!)  Where our personalities not only meshed but we truly had a sizzling hot time in bed?  
If it's been weeks and weeks of "meh" clients.... yeah, I'll take the guy who knocks my socks off.  

25% isn't really that much, unless we're talking about a longer date. Tips are pretty rare in general so I probably wouldn't miss it.

I agree. People think that we don't wanna have fun as much as them 😊️.

When you take everything else away from the OP's question, it comes down to this simple question based on an average upscale providers rates. Would you take $400 for a fun date that can barely be considered work, or is an extra hundred bucks important enough to you to choose a date that can not be considered anything but work?

Honestly whoever I click with best and enjoy more I probably would go with.of course there is other factors into play too.If both clients weren't a fantastic time particularly I would go with the high tipper over good looks no doubt.

Posted By: Alan_Nimm

or not!  
   
 Here's the scenario:  a provider receives two requests at exactly the same time, for dates at exactly the same day and time.  She's seen both clients before so she knows they both check all the basic boxes:  clean, safe, arrive on time with correct donation, leave on time with no hassle... in other words she has no problem seeing either of them again. They have tight schedules and she's traveling to a city she rarely visits, so she can see only one of them.  
   
 But... one client is sizzling hot - a 10/10 at least if clients were reviewed.  Perfect face/body, as the provider defines perfection. Amazing skills - kissing, oral, everything else. Extremely well groomed, from hair to feet, including attire. (Unless this provider prefers someone with rough edges.)  Beyond that, his/her personality is a 10 also - exactly what this provider hopes for in a play date. And if the provider has a favorite foreign accent, he/she's got that, too.    
   
 The other client is a 5/5 - on a good day.  Just really... meh.  But... he/she always tips 25%.  The 10/10 client brings the correct donation, nothing more.  
   
 Who gets the date?  
   
 And if it's Mr./Ms. Hottie... how much of a tip would it take to switch to Mr./Ms. Meh?

I used to say that "hookers" are some of my favorite people, maybe it's not just hookers, but all types of whores that I like? lol

So the true question as you state is what premium would the 5/5 have to pay to bump the 10/10?

I agree CASH is king no strings attached business..... See how many escorts would hang out without money..

-- Modified on 11/13/2015 10:15:52 AM

I also don't rank looks as top priority, but for this scenario, one is comparing a 10 chemistry & personality vs a 5 experience, so definitely the 10.  The 10 in looks is only icing on the cake.  While I personally consider the $ very important for boundary purposes, it isn't all about the $

You meant 5/10 and 10/10

However, when I ran the scenario through my head - replacing Mr. Hot with a client I really like and Mr. Meh with one who's so-so - I realized that I was wrong. I'd definitely see Mr. Hot.  

it is just me since i like average joe looking guys much better than overgroomed metrosexuals that try too hard and act like provider should be paying them...they are also more work and want to go a few times during the session to prove they are better than average joe....

Posted By: Alan_Nimm

or not!  
   
 Here's the scenario:  a provider receives two requests at exactly the same time, for dates at exactly the same day and time.  She's seen both clients before so she knows they both check all the basic boxes:  clean, safe, arrive on time with correct donation, leave on time with no hassle... in other words she has no problem seeing either of them again. They have tight schedules and she's traveling to a city she rarely visits, so she can see only one of them.  
   
 But... one client is sizzling hot - a 10/10 at least if clients were reviewed.  Perfect face/body, as the provider defines perfection. Amazing skills - kissing, oral, everything else. Extremely well groomed, from hair to feet, including attire. (Unless this provider prefers someone with rough edges.)  Beyond that, his/her personality is a 10 also - exactly what this provider hopes for in a play date. And if the provider has a favorite foreign accent, he/she's got that, too.    
   
 The other client is a 5/5 - on a good day.  Just really... meh.  But... he/she always tips 25%.  The 10/10 client brings the correct donation, nothing more.  
   
 Who gets the date?  
   
 And if it's Mr./Ms. Hottie... how much of a tip would it take to switch to Mr./Ms. Meh?

they aren't mathematical formulas here. I meant Appearance Score / Performance Score, ala TER parlance. Since this is TER and not a math textbook.

Why even bother when one can already guess what the answers will be like? since 99% of the ladies are in this profession for 3 purposes: 1) money 2) money 3) money it fgures that most of them would choose tip over the intangibles.

And a special thanks to all those who answered my question while considering the entire (admittedly contrived) scenario, not just part of it.  

-- Modified on 11/13/2015 9:37:37 PM

I've never been hung up on tips or upcharges..my main priority is enjoying what I do for a living. Ive been to college..I have a lot of real world experience. Nothing trumps being able to love what you do for a living. If I had the choice of choosing one client over another...a tip would not be the deciding factor. I will always choose the person who makes me blush!

So to paraphrase...

Important observation—at the extreme, how many providers have pulled no-shows when the more desired one came along (Be it for money or pleasure of the company). Although, no-shows may usually occur with first-time meetings, it is still never a good way to do business.

Its really a loaded question, as it all depends entirely upon the individual provider, what her end game is, ( make money ) but then again, where is she at emotionally on that day, and at that time ?
Maybe, she would not see the hot guy, because as a provider already commented in this thread, she does not want to blur the lines.
So it all boils down to the individual, who is making the decision, or choice upon who's request am  
I going to honor at this moment ?

Posted By: Alan_Nimm

or not!  
   
 Here's the scenario:  a provider receives two requests at exactly the same time, for dates at exactly the same day and time.  She's seen both clients before so she knows they both check all the basic boxes:  clean, safe, arrive on time with correct donation, leave on time with no hassle... in other words she has no problem seeing either of them again. They have tight schedules and she's traveling to a city she rarely visits, so she can see only one of them.  
   
 But... one client is sizzling hot - a 10/10 at least if clients were reviewed.  Perfect face/body, as the provider defines perfection. Amazing skills - kissing, oral, everything else. Extremely well groomed, from hair to feet, including attire. (Unless this provider prefers someone with rough edges.)  Beyond that, his/her personality is a 10 also - exactly what this provider hopes for in a play date. And if the provider has a favorite foreign accent, he/she's got that, too.    
   
 The other client is a 5/5 - on a good day.  Just really... meh.  But... he/she always tips 25%.  The 10/10 client brings the correct donation, nothing more.  
   
 Who gets the date?  
   
 And if it's Mr./Ms. Hottie... how much of a tip would it take to switch to Mr./Ms. Meh?

For the meh one. e.

The more "attractive" the meh one gets. I guess in this case, beauty is int the size of the envelop.

Any hooker posting saying she's going to take hot or personality over cash is either full of shit of will be one of those working in this business well being her useful lifetime. The years in the hobby can creep up in the blink of an eye. Make a boat load of cash and get out with some dignity left in you!