TER General Board

Re: Sorry OTM but that problem cures itself
JackDunphy 33 reads
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1 / 93

I don't think I would go back the almost 2 years, as so much can change with a girl in that time frame  but 1 year maybe? I would suspend the 3 month rule for a few months, say 4/1/20 as a cut off and then go back to the old rule. Good post.

GaGambler 25 reads
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2 / 93

I think it's a GREAT idea. lol

 
I know TER wants to repopulate the review database as quickly as possible with "recent" reviews, I honestly can't think of a better way to get that done than to at least temporarily suspend the ninety day time limit for reviews. I don't know if a six month window, a year, or what would be the right cut off, but I agree something at least double the current 90 days would be appropriate.

imanalias 29 reads
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4 / 93

There are many ladies who expect references to be recent. So having only having old reviews it’s not likely they will try to contact them, many of which are no longer active and profiles inaccurate. While it might comfort they guys to have more reviews to see there details I seldom trusted review accuracy unless posted by well known and established reviewer.

Seems the ladies have accepted there needs be met with hard reference information and many guys are giving it up along with deposits. But ok populate the boards will old data, real or fake. Those who depend on reviews to gain VIP benefits have the most to gain.

Updating profiles is more important to me.  

How many would write old reviews or update profiles if they weren’t promised VIP? None.... even though it helps the community. That also would eliminate fake reviews, except by those who post vindictive reviews to spite the provider.

I helped updating profile information and gathered many days, I’d do it for free now.

BuffetBoy 3 Reviews 26 reads
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5 / 93

No real downside and it would add more reviews to the database! Count me in!

mrfisher 115 Reviews 18 reads
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6 / 93

as it is important to find out how a gal is now, not in the past.

On the other hand, given the situation, I could see extending the rule to say 6 months for the next 6 months in order that reviews that may have otherwise never existed have a chance to get posted.

And kudos to the Admin for actively collecting feedback on this.

Guarddog111 259 Reviews 11 reads
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7 / 93

Definitely expand the time-line beyond 90 days for the short term.  I think a year is a bit too long to be honest. In this world a lot can change. I would say visits from June 1, 2019 and forward are ok for the time being until otherwise noted.

worldtravelluxury 15 reads
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8 / 93

I don’t think providers personality change much in few years.   I do want to know if you had bad date with her .  

Underestimating reviews that are past 90 days , are the same as ignoring all her previous pages of her.  

Let me make my own judgement, should I see her or not . But I do want to know about your experience, even if that happened 2 years ago.

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 64 reads
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9 / 93

In theory, I like the idea.  I really do.  
 Unfortunately, people can be idiots.    

 
WAIT, let me rephrase.... a lot of people lack READING COMPREHENSION  skills.  (yes, that's better lol)

 
Plenty of people didn't pay attention to the dates on the reviews before the shutdown.  Even if it was from 2 months prior, many would simply see it's new and therefore assume it's recent.  

 
For me personally, I haven't had any significant changes to my appearance, offerings, rates or attitude but plenty of ladies HAVE.  
So while I don't think this is likely to have any significant impact on me, it may impact others.  

 
Some have moved, so the location could cause a problem.  Others either were pregnant/lactating then but aren't now or vice-versa.  Or had other very noticeable changes to their appearance. Or they've stopped offering massage, or any other number of things.    

 
And of course, with those who've given themselves a raise since the reviewer met her... if he puts her old rate, there will be those who accept it as gospel without checking the lady's ad/site and then have an awkward moment when she points out his error, either in-person or after the date.    

 
Not to mention schemers trying to haggle based upon a recently-posted, old rate or who will deliberately leave the incorrect donation and then use said review as evidence that they were in the right.  

 
Again, I personally think it's a good idea which would help boost the review database tremendously and therefore breathe a lot of life back into this site!!

 
But that's in a perfect world, with reviewers who will all conscientiously enter the correct date of the meeting and thoughtful readers who will carefully peruse that same information.   ;-)

inicky46 61 Reviews 17 reads
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10 / 93

The main thing is TER (and we) need as many reasonably current reviews as possible to make up for the fact that more than 1.5 million of them are at least two years old.

JackDunphy 13 reads
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11 / 93

But 6 months? No, I really don't think that would be a big issue at all and it would only last for a few months anyway, then we would go back to the old rule.  

 
With regards to the changes you mention, most guys know not to take the girls profile as gospel. For example, the rates on the girls profile often lags behind her website so I never even cared what the donation was on her profile.  

 
Now will SOME guys make that mistake? Of course, but that would be true with any system we would use as there is always human error.

 
In this new, post Sesta/Fosta day, the ladies need to be more proactive before the date and take some time to educate the client re: any new rates, new rules, a different look, etc etc etc and just assume the client may not have the correct info. That's just smart business sense to avoid the "awkward moment" you mention.

 
Problem reports would solve a lot of the issues you mention as well so the issues you cite shouldn't last long.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 28 reads
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12 / 93

If they have reviews posted during the time they were shut down out of the US, I wonder if that would look bad.

Otherwise, in my opinion it would be helpful to us. I look like a completely different person than last year though so it might be a little off for me, but...

impposter 49 Reviews 42 reads
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13 / 93

Posted By: TERAdmin
Re: More replies please; let's hear it (eom)
How about something conditional? First reviews by a brand new reviewer used to he held up until there was a separate, independent review from an experienced member-reviewer.  
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Treat 90-day submissions in the usual manner.
Treat a more overripe review (90+ days) as an outlier unless there are 2 or more reviews of the same Provider within some reasonable window. E.g., a credible review from a meeting 15 months ago AND an independent credible review from 8 months ago (or 3 months ago) would seem to be reinforcing; post them both. A single review from 15 months ago and NO activity since could mean she is retired or who knows what.  
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TER Admin could probably also figure out if a Provider has logged in recently suggesting that she is still active. If there is a review submitted for an old (15 months ago) meeting but she is now checking in regularly, then she was PROBABLY still active 15 months ago and that old review could be both credible and helpful.

poor-little-rich-girl 29 reads
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14 / 93

I had so many wonderful dates during TER shut down and I would love to have those dates reviewed!

derekmcminn 79 Reviews 47 reads
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15 / 93

I am sure TER has a method to their madness to preserve the site integrity and reputation that many hobbyists have come to depend on, but yeah, if they don't relax the 3 month rule, they (I mean all of us mongers and providers) will miss out on tons of  vital info.  

They are plenty of reviews around on providers I have seen who have since long retired, and these reviews are just unwanted baggage here and no longer serve any useful purpose. Out with the old, in with the new.

moneyball5 33 reads
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16 / 93

We were not able to post them since April 2018

Would be great to post them now

ripperjim 29 Reviews 30 reads
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17 / 93

Agree!

Posted By: poor-little-rich-girl
Re: Yes! Yes! Yes!
I had so many wonderful dates during TER shut down and I would love to have those dates reviewed!

ronf 25 Reviews 38 reads
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18 / 93

I think 6 months is fair.  Some my reviews went to another site which I would not mention here.  But a year may have issues when the provider did changes, i.e. changed stage name, home state or simply retired.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 150 reads
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19 / 93

I think as long as having a current ad link rule still applies,  its a win-win for everyone, including the ladies.  Without an ad link that's still good, old reviews are useless.  I could probably add quite a few, but they may not currently be in the location where I saw them, but I don't think that matters.

dwb 20 reads
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20 / 93

I think extending the cutoff to 6 months until March or April is a good idea. I wouldn't go back any further or make it a permanent change. There are 3 or 4 additional reviews that I could do.

imanalias 26 reads
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21 / 93

Wish we could poll this.  

I don’t think people are interested in updating reviews or profiles unless they are going to get free VIP days.

OldRanger 62 Reviews 15 reads
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22 / 93

Would post some to get some longtime friends visibility.
Also would add “now active” add links for many .

-- Modified on 12/30/2019 1:10:28 PM

micktoz 43 Reviews 22 reads
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23 / 93

What about the ladies who have retired or moved?
Old reviews just cause undue  problems for the providers.  
And nobody needs them unless your ego wants to show off, or you want to spank to them.  
If reviews are wanted, they should be current only.  

I don't know about anybody else, but I haven't had any problems finding excellent ladies to play with. In fact it's been way easier without all this distraction.

dodge55 193 Reviews 42 reads
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24 / 93

As long as the lady's website link is valid, we should take this opportunity to repopulate the review database by catching up on what happened for the last year or so.  Not that much usually changes about a lady over a year, but if it does, the reader should be able to get current information from her website.  I know to check current rates listed, not those shown in the review because that does indeed change.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 34 reads
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25 / 93

usable reviews will bring old and new members to TER quicker, so the more that we can get up in a short period of time, the better for increasing TER memberships and usage and the short run.   A 6-month to a year clawback period is a good window to allow additional reviews within the next 90 days.

Ishootcraps 27 Reviews 16 reads
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26 / 93

“10. Each review should recount a visit that took place within the last three months in order to be timely. A lot can change with a provider - even in this relatively short amount of time.”

worldtravelluxury 33 reads
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27 / 93

TER required valid link in order to approve review .  

Of course it’s benefits everyone to post review right away, but IMO it is better to post an old review then none at all.  

And I definitely do not think TER should pull old reviews, once they are posted.

SweetMay See my TER Reviews 22 reads
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28 / 93

Polling is a good idea as long as it's a provider poll.

SweetMay See my TER Reviews 20 reads
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29 / 93

Thank you! My exact point on the other board. It's all about memories. That's exactly why I vented on the Las Vegas board. And, TER, who's word will you then take if there is a dispute? That exact issue just came up with me, but the only reason the review was removed was because it was almost 2 years old. If I did not have that going for me I am sure TER would have sided with the client (like they usually do) and the review would still be there. There is no reason at all to go back beyond 3 months. Personally, I think one month would be more accurate!  
I personally know I can't remember some guys from a couple months ago. So you guys who see lots of providers, I doubt your memory is all that accurate. I even have guys who have forgotten they saw me and contacted me as if the first time (I know, I must me forgettable...lol).  
So now add free membership to the mix and TER is just asking for trouble.  
Don't rush things. Everyone will survive.

GaGambler 98 reads
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30 / 93

But in my feeble defense this was back in the days that not only did I drink, a LOT, I was also seeing four or five different chicas a day on some of my drunken fuckfests and some of it would be kind of a blur only a few hours later.  

 
That said, not only am I "much better" now, but I didn't then, nor do I now, write reviews. So no harm done. Except to my liver of course. lol

 
But back to the topic at hand. I completely agree that going back two years to write a review is a very bad idea, but reviews, for most of the ladies at least do a LOT more good than harm and there are many ladies who would love some new reviews, and perhaps TER could allow for less "juicy details" on these older reviews. Personally, I rarely even read the details of most reviews, most of it reads like cheap porn, VERY cheap porn and is usually more about the reviewer and his supposed prowess than it is about the provider herself. I don't really care to read about the 45 orgasms he thinks he gave her just by pulling down his pants, I am a lot more interested in what is allowed, or more importantly what is NOT allowed, Did she look like her pics? and did he enjoy his time.  

 
People have asked me literally hundreds of times "why don't you write reviews?" and my answer has always been the same. I don't want to write "cheap porn" any more than I want to read it. The level of detail required to get a TER review approved is more than I personally want to share. That's why I find other ways to "give back" to the community. I will confess, I get a lot of benefit out of the reviews even though I rarely read them in their entirety, and a LOT of providers get a lot of benefit out of them as well. I know a LOT of ladies who were wondering aloud "Now what am I going to do now that TER is down?" when the US reviews were pulled almost two years ago.

SweetMay See my TER Reviews 43 reads
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31 / 93

Change from "...allow for less juicy details" to "require less juicy details" and you might be onto something :)

micktoz 43 Reviews 27 reads
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32 / 93

Oh yeah! How do you know this.  So, who is notifying the ladies who have retired in the last 2 years ,and thought TER and their reviews were gone? They are up now! Yeah, I can just see the arsehats that want 15 days VIP trolling for retired providers to write fake reviews that won't be questioned. This is a bigger mess for more people than a lot of you even consider.  
I have notified a couple that I still have contact with, but the others now have reviews and info on the site without their knowledge and that could be extremely dangerous  to them or their families.

inicky46 61 Reviews 24 reads
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33 / 93

First of all, TER actually WAS up and running over the past two years, just not accessible to US readers and a few new reviews actually DID go up. Those facts are documentable so I doubt there's any additional exposure.

GaGambler 28 reads
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34 / 93

I like you, but your new anti-TER stance makes me wonder what the fuck you are doing back here in the first place?

 
As someone with 37 reviews you should already know that without a VALID web presence a new review can NOT be written for a provider. So much for issue number one. As for issue number two, once TER gets caught up there are going to be plenty of members submitting PR's to get free VIP and unless a lady retires and leaves her web site up there won't be anything to link to. Again, Problem solved.  

 
BTW what the fuck happened to you? You were always kind of a WK, but you weren't ever this fucking grumpy, why are you even here if you dislike TER so much?

-- Modified on 12/30/2019 6:36:25 PM

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 33 reads
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35 / 93

Human memory is selective.  I can remember small details about almost all of the 54 providers I saw in 2019, but don't as me what I had for breakfast last Wednesday.  Lol

JackDunphy 19 reads
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36 / 93

I would be willing to bet that you remember paying all 54 gals more $ than they required. Am I correct or are you in need of a Ginko Biloba booster? lol

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 22 reads
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37 / 93

ALREADY priced below the local indie market to begin with, so rather than try to grind them down by 21%, I just start at 40% off and pay what they ask.  

JackDunphy 19 reads
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38 / 93

I TRY and grind them down by at least 35%, but my post Sesta/Fosta numbers has caused my numbers to slip to 21%.

 
And of course the K girls are less bc they aren't nearly as hot as our white women. But ugly Asians need love too, I guess. Just ask GaG. :D

BarryWright 41 Reviews 20 reads
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39 / 93

I don't think I would submit any reviews, even new ones, without the VIP credit.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 28 reads
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40 / 93

of the Asian providers we get in LA are DDG gorgeous.  Ask most girls from Korea where its about 25 degrees right now where in the US they would like to work, and most will say either SoCal, or Bay Area, but with the homeless problems in the bay area lately, more and more are moving South.  

 
A lot of guys on the East Coast have not seen that many DDG Asian girls because only the ones who can't compete on the West Coast go there.  

imanalias 24 reads
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41 / 93
coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 17 reads
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43 / 93
inicky46 61 Reviews 24 reads
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45 / 93

How ironic! Trouble is, I agree with you. Still, I'm glad to see Mick back so cut him some slack.

micktoz 43 Reviews 23 reads
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46 / 93

Being concerned for the people this could be hurting is not being anti ter.
It's being a friend.  
And your claim that retired providers wouldn't have reviews up is false. They are up now, without their knowledge.  

What am I doing here? I'm interested what will be done after ter dumped everyone on the street without warning. And now returned with clients acting like they're whole now.  

I've never been here to kiss arse. I was here to find providers that I would enjoy. And sometimes communicate with a community.  
Which I'm doing now.  

Sorry I don't fall in lockstep with the small number of clients who feel like their world is saved.  
I've not missed a beat in the last 2 years. Actually, my play life has been even better.  

I agree with you that the scoring system is ridiculous.
It should probably go away.  
I think that repopulating reviews for the time shut down is ridiculous and unfair.  
There should be new reviews only.  
I also think that nobody's information should be on any website without their permission. Providers should be able to delist without the threat of them being reinstated without their permission. In these legal times that should be a given.  

Have fun.

BarryWright 41 Reviews 22 reads
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47 / 93

But in reality it is "must" because reviews submitted with a date farther back than 3 months are rejected currently.

MDSTUDS2003 31 reads
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48 / 93

I look for Oklahoma review and all over 3 years old and don't know any of them.

Kikiloverkink See my TER Reviews 14 reads
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49 / 93

I actually like the fact that I can look at my old reviews .. I like having memories written down.. I think TER should keep all the review that the girl received.

inicky46 61 Reviews 18 reads
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50 / 93

Of course they have to know their reviews are back up but that's life. Doesn't everyone know by now that "the Internet is forever?"
Sorry if someone else has already pointed this out. I'm not going to read the whole damn thread to check.

GaGambler 22 reads
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51 / 93

And of course I, along with others have pointed this out.  Not to mention that if a provider has truly retired than she should have taken down her web site and her ads making it impossible for anyone to review her again in the first place.

 
I like Mick too, but he has been listening to the lies of the TER hating TWATTER crowd, or he is full of shit himself.

micktoz 43 Reviews 12 reads
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52 / 93

Never did think it was ok for anyone to be forced to have a listing or review without their consent.
Being in business is not consent. And saying it is, is full of shit.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 19 reads
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53 / 93

Actually, consent is more applied here than in other service reviews (restaurants, plumbers, car repair, etc.)

GaGambler 29 reads
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54 / 93

The hooker business and TER in particular are rather unique in the fact that a "business owner" can choose to be delisted anytime they want to, even if the reason is that they are getting BAD reviews.

 
Saying otherwise makes you "full of shit". Sorry Mick, but you are just WRONG about this. Your premise is WRONG, your so-called "facts" are WRONG, every part of your argument is just plain WRONG.  

 
If a hooker doesn't want to be here, she can delist in about 30 seconds. It happens all the time. A hooker will come on the board whining about how "unfair" the review system is, goes completely Bat Shit Fucking Crazy on the board and when she can't get her way, she delists. Here is an example from just a couple of days ago. Only a complete mangina could argue that this woman was NOT BSC.

 
For the record, I most certainly don't think the review system is perfect and I completely agree that the numerical scoring system is completely unfair, both to the ladies AND the men who use the reviews as a major part of their vetting process when booking with a new provider. That said, your premise that women are somehow trapped here is bullshit, and for that matter neither are you. You aren't talking about improving the system, you are echoing the rantings and ravings of the Anti TER Twatter crowd about the site existing at all, and that is simply not productive at all. We all have free will. Go, stay, bitch, whine, do whatever the fuck you want, but don't expect to avoid pushback when you simply make up shit that isn't true.

micktoz 43 Reviews 31 reads
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55 / 93

So, I'm incorrect that if a provider delists and has a website, a new review given to TER, without her knowledge or permission, ter will make a new page for her ?  

I've resisted insults or innuendo Gag, which you've continued to throw. I haven't said anything about not expecting different opinions, stop listening to your own story line in your head and just read the letters on the page, mate.
I don't know why a dissenting view threatens you so much.

GaGambler 21 reads
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56 / 93

If she "delists" NOBODY can write a review on her, active website or no. TER rules are quite clear in that regard

 
Now if she simply "retires" it's incumbent on her to take down her ads and her website or it's "possible" that a fake review can be written, but if there is no "active" web presence TER will not approve any new reviews.

 
It's not dissenting views that I have a problem with, it's repeated unfounded accusations about something that not only is not happening, but that cannot happen under TER rules despite me correcting you "politely" several times. You just don't seem to be concerned about the facts, some hooker/s apparently have convinced you that 2+2=5,  and for some reason you seem to want to cling to their falsehoods rather than accept the FACTS as they are. If you will get a grip and start discussing FACTS not bullshit spread by the Anti TER crowd, I will be glad to discuss them civilly.

1192967 45 Reviews 30 reads
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57 / 93

Micktoz, if a provider delists, that is makes it official with TER, then any review submitted after the delisting will be rejected by TER. TER keeps up with that stuff.

-- Modified on 12/31/2019 1:10:31 PM

1192967 45 Reviews 15 reads
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58 / 93
micktoz 43 Reviews 31 reads
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59 / 93

"If she "delists" NOBODY can write a review on her, active website or no. TER rules are quite clear in that regard"
That is not true. TER answered to me, that they won't stop someone from writing a review if they have a website.  
I don't think that if you continue to keep typing your answer, it will make it true.  

And again, you are not in my head. Making up where you think my information comes from, doesn't fly.

You are behaving just like the bots on other social media. Keep answering with misinformation.  

Have fun.

micktoz 43 Reviews 16 reads
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60 / 93

You both can repeat it over and over again. It still won't make it true.  

"We have removed your profile, however, if you have active web-ads we cannot prevent someone from submitting new content to our site in the future."  

This isn't a legal restaurant, or doctors office.  
-- Modified on 12/31/2019 12:15:05 PM

-- Modified on 12/31/2019 12:20:32 PM

1192967 45 Reviews 23 reads
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61 / 93

My comment was based on seeing discussion threads and even some of my own posts removed. The reason given was a provider in question was delisted. I recall in the past mongers posting about going through the process of filling out info to do a review only to have it rejected because the provider was delisted. Not banned but delisted.

I'd like TER admin to chime in here. Seems to me if a provider delists that should mean a subsequent review would be rejected.

Mick what do you mean by: "this isn't a legal restaurant, or a doctor's office."

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 38 reads
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62 / 93

Court, think about it.  Not that you would accept the reviews in and of themselves during a verification process but it does give someone who could be a potential appointment legitimacy as a hobbyist in these times.  That would be one person who you could begin to identify as a legitimate hobbyist. Now you just need current references.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 34 reads
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63 / 93

If you look back though the discussion boards over the past 20 months, you will see that there were still US members posting from overseas VPN locations during the entire time.  Likewise, international reviews were still visible for those of us that had posted them before the blackout.  I was able to add two more for London ladies in August 2018 as were other US members who posted offshore reviews during the blackout period in the US.  

micktoz 43 Reviews 17 reads
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64 / 93

I bet they were banned and not delisted.  And what i meant by the comment about legal businesses was that Gag said they get reviews, but this is not the same. This is an illegal pursuit in the US and we have greater responsibility to protect the providers and clients. We might be a community, but TER is a business.  Forcing information without consent  by a business is wrong. Just because so many didn't give a shit prior to now, does not make it right.

 Many other sites also use the TER reviews without permission and when found, it takes threat of legal action to have them removed. I'd like to know how they got those.
It would be nice if this incarnation was not an Us against Them thing anymore. I've never looked at it this way, but clearly many do. Shame, cause you get a lot better time when nobody is feeling the pressure.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 16 reads
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65 / 93

That the nerds that wrote this definition have no idea what a hot girl is in person, but they buy whacking lotion by the case to watch porn.  Lol

Ishootcraps 27 Reviews 26 reads
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66 / 93

Then they issue is do “we” want older review? I think what we all want is a robust platform back.  The more content the better.

Oldtimemonger 21 reads
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67 / 93

There are more ripoffs than Los Angeles area homeless bums right now. A longer review window would just be abused.

Jinx_The_Cat 33 Reviews 18 reads
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68 / 93

There is a reason for the three month limit on when you saw the lady.  It keeps things fresh which is the whole point of the rule.  TER made a decision to stop US access and the rush to repopulate the review inventory is not really a valid reason to abandon the rule.   Doing so just opens the door for fake reviews, outdated information and general confusion.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 17 reads
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69 / 93

where the provider profile has a drop down question for teeth:  yes or no.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 50 reads
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70 / 93

I think there is some merit to a temporary increase but honestly think more than 6 months probably a bad idea. It will likely have low quality reviews -- who fucking remember that far back for what is often a one time meeting. Second, verifying that the review is not pure fake would be impossible.

Perhaps a slight variation where someone has new regular (or even old regular) with multiple meetings over the past year but nothing in the past 3 months. But I'm not sure if that really adds much value and does add more complexity to any rule.

I would say maybe increase the incentive for reviews for a while -- that might get some of those who don't review (yes you GaG - but don't expect to see any posted) or only post infrequently to contribute. Otherwise just let it build up with current (and so more useful) reviews. It won't take all that long.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 17 reads
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71 / 93

that have been in the game for 15-20 years, absent complete burnout, I don't think much changes between now and six months ago for these ladies.  I agree you MAY have a point with girls that were brand new six months ago and just entering the trade.  There can be a huge difference in performance between a girl just starting out and how she performs after a year in the biz.  I'm not sure how best to address that, but perhaps limit the 6-month clawback only to gals who had previous reviews on TER before the blackout.  

impposter 49 Reviews 31 reads
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72 / 93

I'll repeat something I posted previously. Allow but quarantine reviews from the gap period (18 months, max, but maybe less). If credible INDEPENDENT reviews submitted about more recent meetings (15 months; 12 months; ... 3 months) are consistent and corroborative, then post all of them.
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If there are discrepancies, that could be a sign that services have changed. It doesn't help a Provider to have a review posted about OLD policies and practices as that could create false hopes and expectations for others. Likewise for a more recent meeting (12 months) review that might still need more recent corroboration.

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
Re: Fish, since there are providers here . . . . .
that have been in the game for 15-20 years, absent complete burnout, I don't think much changes between now and six months ago for these ladies.  I agree you MAY have a point with girls that were brand new six months ago and just entering the trade.  There can be a huge difference in performance between a girl just starting out and how she performs after a year in the biz.  I'm not sure how best to address that, but perhaps limit the 6-month clawback only to gals who had previous reviews on TER before the blackout.  

John_Laroche 28 reads
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73 / 93

Simple solutions are often the best.  

 
Having some of the suggested conditions sounds like an administrative headache and by the time the review is made "final" it's another month old.  

How about providers dropping their rates for the next 60 days in celebration of the US return of TER. This may increase business and allow them to suggest to their clients that they appreciate fresh reviews.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 17 reads
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period of more than the current max of 72 hours, a lot of guys like me wouldn't waste their time writing them.  The review will not be allowed if the link is not current.  A lot of girls tour, so if I write a review and it sits for a few months waiting for a corroborative current review, as you suggest, and link expires because the girl leaves my city, then I wasted my time writing it unless I spend MORE time trying to track her down as to where she is working at the time TER tells me my review is not approved because the link is no good. Quarantine will create more problems than it solves, IMO.

JackDunphy 38 reads
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Jesus, can Imp gum up the works or what? No one is better at taking something fairly simple and making it SO fucking complex.

 
This biz used to be so easy....guy contacts girl...guy pays girl...guy fucks girl...

 
Now it's "quarantine" time too?

 
How about we make this whole process even MORE sterile by just dousing my Johnson in Lysol before I poke her in the whiskers? smh

impposter 49 Reviews 20 reads
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The old policy for first time reviewers of a new Provider was to quarantine posting the review until a more well established reviewer submitted a corroborating review. The first time reviewer quarantine was not limited to 72 hours. (And I've had my own reviews take more than 72 hours to go up, not because of quarantining but because TER sometimes is slow to review the submitted reviews.)
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Someone else already suggested it, but the easiest thing is just to set the maximum time to post a review and shrink it month by month until we're back to 90 days (3 months).  
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Here is one possible schedule. Reviews submitted:
in Dec 2019, meeting must have been in Dec 2018 or later (12 month window).
in Jan 2020, meeting must have been in Feb 2019 or later (11 month window).
in Feb 2020, meeting must have been in April 2019 or later (10 month window).
in March 2020, meeting must have in June 2019 or later (9 month window).
Etc. ... but that drags it out too long.
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Reviews submitted:
In Dec 2019, meeting must have been in Dec 2018 or later (12 month max).
In Jan 2020,  meeting must have been in May 2019 or later (9 month max).  
In Feb 2020, ... 6 months max.
In March 2020, ... 3 months max, back to the old status quo.

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
Re: If there was a quarantine . . . .
period of more than the current max of 72 hours, a lot of guys like me wouldn't waste their time writing them.  The review will not be allowed if the link is not current.  A lot of girls tour, so if I write a review and it sits for a few months waiting for a corroborative current review, as you suggest, and link expires because the girl leaves my city, then I wasted my time writing it unless I spend MORE time trying to track her down as to where she is working at the time TER tells me my review is not approved because the link is no good. Quarantine will create more problems than it solves, IMO.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 21 reads
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The links become stale for touring girls after an extended period of time.  You didn't address how you would propose to overcome that obstacle.  I have had a few cases (which is not a lot given my volume of reviews) where it was held up more than 72 hours for whatever reason, and then disapproved because the link was no longer active.  I had to try to find out by research where she had gone so I could get edit the new link into my review.  In both cases, I had wished at the time that I didn't write the review.  (I spend about an hour on each review, but I know a lot of guys just throw up short, generic reviews that could apply to any one of 100,000 girls, and they end up being next to useless guys looking for a GFE experience and more than just a warm place to park their dick for a few minutes, but its not a big time investment for a reviewer who writes worthless reviews.)

 
If reviews are going to be quarantined until some OTHER monger writes a corroborating review, I probably would not participate, because THAT part is out of my control.  My review would be at the total mercy of some guy I don't know seeing the same and writing a review of her on TER.  Sounds like too much of a longshot to me.  

GaGambler 10 reads
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A longer review window would give more time to report ripoffs as well as provide free advertising for the ladies. Actually I think you will agree that the memory of a bad experience will last longer than the memory of an average or good time with a provider as those tend to run together after a while.

 
I completely agree with the premise that the reviews were mainly designed with the intent of providing a place for whore mongers to warn each other about the rip-offs FIRST and sing the praises of the good providers second.  I would think that guys like you and me would want other guys to be able to warn us about the rip-offs and subpar providers they have encountered during TER's downtime.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 23 reads
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During the down time, without reviews, I used PM to talk to a relative small group of local mongers about rip-offs as well as who is good, but that was only about 15 guys who kept their VIP during the blackout.  It would be nice to have intel from guys I DON'T KNOW as well.  As you say, not only the positive experiences, but the negative ones, too.

Oldtimemonger 27 reads
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The problem is that the serious rip offs change their name and pictures too often for a six month period to work. By rip-off I meant getting guys to write more fake and or embellished reviews. The longer the window period, the easier it is to do.

GaGambler 10 reads
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If a ROB has changed her name or web presence since the review has seen her, he won't be able to write the review in the first place as TER requires a "valid" internet presence before approving the review. Problem solved.

 
As for fake or embellished reviews at the urging of rip off providers, anyone writing a fake review will simply lie about the date too.

Oldtimemonger 24 reads
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I take it you don't know that one prolific TER poster once had multiple names, web pages, pictures etc. She was not the only one.  It is easy to do. Having reviews under different names does not cure the problem. A six month period makes it easier.  

It used to be that if a girl wanted a review removed she would claim she never saw that guy so TER would contact the reviewer and ask for proof she agreed to meet him.  Some guys did not even keep that info for three months. I doubt anybody would keep it six months.  

Changing the review formula is only going to encourage more gaming of the system. Girls can and have asked lapdogs in other groups to write them TER reviews.  Giving them a six month window just encourages more fraud.

Robxxx 66 Reviews 25 reads
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Posted By: SubstantialStomach

Should TER take reviews going back to when they locked out?  
 I got some, but more than that 3 months rule. [/quot

Yes, as long as the girl has a current ad.

Kikiloverkink See my TER Reviews 15 reads
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I totally agree with you handsome :)

HaleyOrlando See my TER Reviews 17 reads
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85 / 93

I'm not talking about performance but location and website/email addresses. Many ladies have changed their info over the last year so being sure you have the most up-to-date might be easy for some gentlemen here but for others it might not be. once the rule is in place it will read as such for gentlemen just getting on board. Finding ads from traveling ladies or any info about them may not be available. It could cause more  aggravation than worth adding a few new unknowns to the reviews. "I think 3 months is easier to filter for wrong info." After all many ladies profiles have not been updated since TER closed the USA reviews. That will be a challenge to get taken care of never mind adding to the work load.

 
Kisses Haley

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 18 reads
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a shorter clawback period.  They might be good ones that TER should consider.  Otherwise, we can only guess what they are.  

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 25 reads
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TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 37 reads
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Memory deteriorates. Giving people too much time allows them to add in shit that didn't happen and leave out things that did. Boom.
 Bye.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 36 reads
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90 / 93

Ideas get lost in too many words.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 34 reads
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and made an excellent point.  Its better than me guessing.  Lol

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 24 reads
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As I've worked over the years I've grasped the "whole person" a lot more. It wasn't until last year I realized I was more concerned with my "performance" than the patron's very presence as a person with me.

As one learns to connect at a deeper level with their clientele, they fit in with a different mindset in their clients. So you very well might be coming back to a provider who used to do the song and dance for you because that's what you like, and that's what she did back then - which is why back then she attracted you.

But she's grown into a different niche and approach, so it's different now. More focused on the human connection between two people, as opposed to a bunch of "stuff to do" if you know what I mean.

I've heard people say "I think a person at xyz price isn't a good provider." What is good and bad, except working to attract people who will properly enjoy what you have to offer? That is going to be different with everybody, and it'll be different with us (the providers) over time because our tastes change over time.

So I'm wondering what you mean by "performance"? if it's not what I mentioned above?

-- Modified on 1/7/2020 12:41:21 AM

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 16 reads
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belt out a decent rendition of "Suwannee River" down on one knee in blackface before she blows me.  Are you saying it means something else?  Am I a niche and don't know it?  

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