I saw the post below about Providers dating and I thought date a Provider (really?)

How different would it be to be sitting at Gibsons (some of us can afford this Ridge) with my wife and some asshole blurts out "Hey, didn't I fuck your wife a few years back"?  And let's assume she didn't charge him for that fuck...other than of course dinner and a movie  LOL

Posted By: Ridgetucky

I saw the post below about Providers dating and I thought date a Provider (really?)  
   
 Then as I am won't to do I carried it a step further and I thought would you marry a Provider?  
   
 Imagine being in Applebee's with your ex-Provider wife and the waiter comes up and almost blurts out "hey I guess I am paying for this dinner because 3 months ago I fucked your wife"  Or something like that.  
   
 Mind you I am not judging about the sexual aspect.  My wife was probably hornier than me when we first started dating.  We had sex on our first date and she freely admitted to having a 3 way with 2 guys.  (2 black guys at that - ha ha ha).  The only thing she wouldn't do is let me stick it in her A--  or cum in her mouth.  Oh well I married her anyway  
   
 Anyway, I just think women who become Providers are excuse me for saying this but DIFFERENT from other women.  
   
 Sometimes different is good but do you want different for the rest of your life?  
   
   
 RT Says - Soccer will never be an American Sport - NEVER!!!!

Had two long-term relationships with providers, one that lasted six years.  She and I were both married to other people, but referred to each other as "my second wife" and "my second husband."

After watching Hope play, I play Solo all night, but a different kind of sport....

Sometimes even in front of a mirror...

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I think I would have a difficult time if she continued to work, even if she only saw a few favorite clients part-time. But if she indeed stopped I would be OK. In fact, I think as a hobbyist I would be more accepting of her past going into a relationship and marriage than a civie man who had just found out that his fiance/wife used to be a hooker.

Having dated an active pro, hell no. It's a form of hell and is fundamentally unstable for anyone with a healthy personality. But having met so many awesome women here over the years, I definitely would never rule out a loving and loyal civilian girlfriend just because I found out (best if she tells me) that she used to provide. It would confirm my suspicion that all the toe curling, eye watering, heart thumpin' lovin' was not by accident but by design. I'd likely snap her up if we'd managed to create and maintain something deep and strong for a couple of years or more. We'd both be better partners and lovers for the experience this world gave us. At least that's how I think I'd think about it.

I would not marry a SW. Has nothing to do with judging them. Not sure if I would marry a "Massage Therapist." I would seriously consider marrying a "call girl" "companion" or "escort" — whatever you want to refer to that style of business as — especially if she were a true UTR girl. In fact, there's one I'd propose to if I had a snowball's chance in hell...

A guy who married me knowing it's my past is one thing...I would think he had a screw loose to be with me whilst banging his possible associates, though. Keep in mind, a girl who ONLY does this for money is not the same as one doing it for approval. The first is rather an easy transition. It's easier to walk away from money than from a so called "need" that most of you boys claim you are here for. I have NEVER cheated on anyone...can you say the same, RT? Didn't think so.

you would have had some company..

and based upon your reviews (which I have studied in-depth)  

To say I would never marry a lady simply because she was a provider is silly.   There are many types and tiers of providers.  I cannot speak for the other guys here but i would say there are more than a couple ladies here that are classier than a couple of the civvie females I have had relationships with.  

Thanks, but I don't need a therapist, babe. I do what I am paid to do, then go on with my real life, not lying to a mate.

that's what I learned in therapy.

Sadly, no..it's not. It's a "temporary" real for many of us. When we retire, so do you. I don't do this based out of a "desire" but for money...plain and simple. Sorry, no sad story of abuse here. Some women are here for love, whilst some use you like you use us. It's not all that complicated, and I don't need a therapist with a crystal ball. This is not my future.

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I could never marry an "active" provider, honestly I could not stomach it. I don't see the similarity in sitting at a restaurant (not name dropping) with your civilian wife/ or ex provider wife and having some guy come up and say something about fucking my wife. This is for several reasons. First the civilian wife most likely has not slept with hundreds of men for and envelope, there is a major difference in the two. She may have slept with a lot of men and probably under less safe conditions, but still did not get paid for it.  Second my ex-provider wife will have given up the biz or we would not be married it is that simple. I could definitely see myself married to an ex-provider but not just because she is an ex-provider.

LOL, and the Easter Bunny is as well. I just gave a blowjob for a fkin White Chocolate Bunny! It had Rasberry Swirls, so don't hate lol. It's not like I blew for a cheap Walmart bunny. Just saying.

I am a two-time loser at marriage.  I prefer to live alone and play with P4P ladies.  No dating, except OTC with providers.  I have said I will never marry again unless it's a hooker who continues to provide.  Am I serious?  Time will tell.  I know this: I have some very good friends who are hookers.  It's not all about the money.

I hope there isn't "real"  Woman out there, who is actually married to this dope.

I enjoy my friendships but... like London said, it's about money (at least for me). Not dating, not love, not desire. It's great that I meet nice people and that I enjoy my time spent with the guys... but it is a job. Go home afterwards and enjoy my life, not sitting at home lusting over anyone.  

have the same "issues" as you.  

That shit was funny as all get out...not sure how "true" it is, but phucking phunny, still the same!!!

Dear Ms. Rayne:
I am just wondering when you decided to become an Adult Companionship Professional what are the choices and decisions you decided to make with respect to your personal life? Also how long did you think about the consequences and ramifications of any potential decisions that you would make prior to making them? Finally, although it is common knowledge that you have a daughter, did you make certain choices such as not having a civilian relationship while being an active social and libidinal practitioner intentional because of the potential unstable controversy that would go on around her? Also thanks for the wonderful excerpts from you books over the years.

And my past was a major issue for him. But guess who ended up cheating and who was loyal beyond reason? Hmph. Its a job guys. If you seriously want to pursue something with a former escort, remember that every time it comes up. She can have sex whenever she wants (hell, most women can), but she can also get paid extremely well for it. And yet she still chose a life with you. Because she is also a human who loves and desires love, and loves you more t than anyone else.

In short, I decided not to "date" at all, whilst doing this shit. It's not fair to another human being to deal with this, and I would never want to date a guy who would just "deal with it."

Did you swallow the gum drops?

But only if she keeps her properly medicated?

Did you teach her the signature London laughter? WTF...

and have a spouse who understands that and will accept that.

Of course there are many providers who would never stand for that, and I see their point of view.

Now, the question becomes:  If you are willing to enjoy their largess that allows you to continue to hobby, will you accept their decision to keep working at what they do?

Especially a 20 something hot Provider that could keep me in the lifestyle I desire.

But I wouldn't marry a virgin either...

Hi London,

Ive often wondered the same ? for providers .Is there a picket fence and loving husband ,happy ever after out there for providers or is it wishfull thinking. love some of the replies lol

A friend that did and he's in a VERY happy marriage.  Two beautiful kids and his wife is now a school teaching and they are very happy and I'm sure she still sucks his dick !!!

I think he is just elated because it's tax season, and he is raking in the dough. Brings out the good in all of us lol

I don't see you ladies as cold hearted women that have no dreams of love. A man that knows your past a head of time I think is more likely to stay, I know that finding out after would be bad for me.