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Re: So guys has a lady ever let you off the hook, or ladies
Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 130 reads
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It sounds to me like she may have gotten a stalker vibe from you.  I'm not saying it was intentional on your part but every lady has a different sensitivity to this sort of thing.

Remember that, at it's core, it is a P4P business relationship that we are talking about here. Going overboard too soon, or at all, can scare some ladies away.

Wpnx1143 reads

have you ever had a client who couldn't wait to lavish you with gifts?

After the 1st appointment I sent her a nice gift card. There was more to follow, but after a few dates she stopped answering my emails.

She could have had me wrapped around her finger just so tightly. I am sure I would have given her 5000 or 6000 in fees, tips, etc over the course of the spring. I didn't make any demands on her, really the 1 thing I couldn't give was much of my time.

I am sure that if she had held on to me I wouldn't have wanted to let go of her.

I know that she wasn't used to guys who are generous, and maybe just didn't like that kind of thing.

So have you ever been in a tight orbit with someone who just walked away?

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Puck219 reads

With luck like that, you'll break the bank!!!!

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Wpnx174 reads

have gotten away without having gnaw my foot off.

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MarkusKetterman184 reads

beyond a certain, thoughtful level that merely shows appreciation with no strings or expectations attached, "generosity" becomes excessive. It can only have three outcomes:

1 it signals the lady that you are fawning on her and are a danger to become possessive, have higher expectations that she wishes to meet, or that you may become a stalker

2 it signals the lady (not all ladies of course, just the wrong kind....) that you are an easy mark. Then watch out.... I overdid it a bit once and had a lady ask me to do something for her that would have cost well over six figures... and believe me, that was that.

3 if neither of the above happen, you will just be using resources that would be better served elsewhere, either your home life or other escorts.....

As Puck said, thank your lucky stars. You got the best response from the situation...

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rdhiii142 reads

Some girls when they reach a certain level in their "bank" decide to take time off. Also if she's that good; maybe another sugar daddy type took her on vacation or set her up so she doesn't have to work, or her boyfriend made her stop all contact with her clients. (happened to me)

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little phil138 reads

Going back to re-read the OP, I have to vote stalker material.  Not that he is, but that she most likely got that feeling.

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Claudius4231073 reads

or appreciation or gratitude.....

i doubt that the possible outcomes are limited to your three, the third of which is speculative.

too much kindness would usually, reasonably be interpreted as giving rise to your outcomes #1 or #2.

the nature of the enterprise requires almost stereotypical responses. simplifying the response has survival value for the both the client and provider.

considerable time, tact, and mutual understanding are required for anything "too nice" to avoid outcomes #1 and #2 and result in something different. i'm sure it happens, but very very rarely.

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MeaMendez192 reads

I've heard from other women that it freaks them out to be treated in a such a way because it feels like a relationship. SO its a turn off for them. I dont feel that way. Unless of course things get way out of hand with our meeting, emails phone calls etc.... There's a limit to everything. Everyone has there own perogative. It'd be interesting to know her reason for no longer corresponding with you.

Good luck finding a new lady to spoil! Plenty to choose from so shouldnt be too hard. ;)

Xoxo
Mea

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Bostonguy57131 reads

It sounds to me like she may have gotten a stalker vibe from you.  I'm not saying it was intentional on your part but every lady has a different sensitivity to this sort of thing.

Remember that, at it's core, it is a P4P business relationship that we are talking about here. Going overboard too soon, or at all, can scare some ladies away.

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gallopavo63 reads

I recently read an article about sales practices of pharmaceutical companies, and its title was "No Such Thing As A Free Gift."

And that seems to apply to this business also.

Gifts generally bring with them expectations.

In this case, I'd guess it was the inferred expectations -- rather than the gifts themselves -- that made her drop you.

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houstonsmartgal76 reads

cause tangible trinkets of endearment wraps me around your finger ... i'm a sucker for it ... perhaps the golddigger in me, but it really makes me feel so good and really appreciated.  heck, i'm flattered when a fellow just pays my rate without bitchin.  thats flattery in itsself.

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DonnaMichelle102 reads

Hey expatriot, want a massage?

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CiaraPhx173 reads

I certainly wouldn't look a gift horse in the mouth. I don't ask -- nor do I expect -- gifts. But dangit! I certainly wouldn't turn it down. I am also a generous person. ;)

Hugs,
Ciara

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