A question for both m and f:  If you live in a small town, that is some distance, say 6 hours from a major city..how do you find a provider?  I know that there must be a demand and there also must be some gals that have an interest.  

The dynamics are different, you cant show your face or advertise boldly because everyone knows  everyone else.  

Does anyone have any experience with this or advice on how to hook up?

I live in a relatively small town, about 2 1/2 hours from a bigger city. Search the area codes of the bigger cities nearest you and you should be able to find some providers.

best thing to do is  select a near by provider and ask her if she would be willing to make it to the small town . Or post your area  and see what kind of replies you get .

If you are 6 hours or so from a bigger city it is probably  less expensive for you to drive there where a provider is , and get a hotel room, rather than have her come to your town. Just my opinion.

They are there. Most likey you will not find them online. More to be in a small bar in the county.

Even if you are say 6 hours from a major city, you may find that some of the girls in that city do tour to the outlying areas ever now and then.

If you live in a small town then you should know who in that town will provide the services you want.  

I'm trying to figure out where in the US you'd be if you were 6 HOURS (in every direction) from a major city.  With speed limits of 70-80, you are in the middle of nowhere!

I lived 2 hours from two large cities and it was a real pain in the butt. Tip. If you drive 2 hours to see a lady take your wallet out of your back pocket and give your butt a rest. You will appreciate it later.
 I also paid a premium to have ladies come to visit me which was quite sweet of them. I always tried to have a nice meal or snack for her/them.
 There were a few lower price ladies who seemed to drive up and down the interstate. Their photos were not terribly attractive and I felt like they were really having to grind out a living. I felt sorry for them but never made an appointment.
 I finally moved.
Good luck.

Are the rumors about truck stops true?  That might be one way to satisfy your itch without a major trip.  Trucks stops are everywhere.

Any breakers out there with stories to share?

yes the rumors about trucks stops are true. a cousin's girlfriend is currently serving time behind bars for peddling her wares at the local truck stop in my tiny little hometown down in Virginia. it was indeed in the middle of nowhere, about an hour in every direction from a a major city. i suppose if a hobbyist doesn't care about disease or risk of having his throat cut, isn't too picky about looks, and his budget is around 10 bucks and a pack of marlboro, then the truck stops would be the way to go, lol.

I am halfway (2.5 - 3 hours) between two major cities, 60-90 minutes from 3 other cities that are big enough (250k+) to have a fair representation. But it's still a drive...

I use a number of sites that serve smaller markets including CL, es***** dot com, usa s*x g**de, and local "adult" or alternative newspapers. In small towns, you find the occasional semi-pro on the street or in a bar.

But, bottom line, if you want to find real, reliable professionals, you have to use TER and travel to the big city, or pay a premium to get someone to come to you.

I live between two cities.  It's about Five hours to each of them, and both have a good number of providers.
I visit one of them every month or so, and meet up with one of the ladies on each trip.  This works out the best for everyone.  

I have tryed to get a lady to visit my town, but so far only one wanted to make the trip.