Ladies,

I'm 55 and I am enjoying your company, and everything that goes with it, more than ever.  I've made so many beautiful friends and I am almost always impressed by your class and wisdom and sensuality.

I keep myself in top pyisical condition and I understand myself and women so much better than in my younger days.  My confidence, and my patience, are at an all time high.

But, what happens when I get 60 and above?  Nature always takes its toll and I hate the thought of embarrassing myself or creeping you out.  

I'd like to know how ladies feel about older gentlemen?  How do you respond to a date with a gentleman 60+?  Intimate time?  Should an aging gentleman modify his approach?  If so, how?

Your honesty will be appreciated

If you are asking about a specific age group of women and how they feel about 60+ men, you might want to be clear about that since women over 40, typically don't have an issue with it.

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60 and over
What happens is you keep doing what you have been doing especially if you have not had any issues.
Look at the ladies you are interested in website and/or ads to see if she mentions any age restrictions.
In your correspondence mention your age if you get a positive response go for it.
I just had a date recently with a gent who is 65 who had enough stamina to compete with a gent in his 30s.
Don't overthink it have fun!

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The fact that you care to keep yourself in shape to appeal to the providers you see, or will see, says a lot about you as a person. You realize that the street runs both ways.
Also, I truly enjoy the company of older gentlemen. Older gentlemen know what they want. They know what they like. They generally care more about the intimacy and passion of the moment than their younger counterparts. They care about pleasing a woman, and do not make the scenario one-sided.  
I am not trying to generalize younger or older men. I am not saying that all young men are one way, and all older men another. I am just speaking from my experience.
I think you are approaching things exactly how you should. Confidence goes a long way, no matter your age. And when nature takes its course, I hope you are spending time with a provider that realizes that, and doesn't make it a negative.

Yes, some escape from there from time to time, but they are eventually brought back and force fed.  

Salt peter is voluntary, however.
 
My advice? Enjoy your last 5 years here and savor every erection! LOL  
 
Cheers, my good man!

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I'm over 60 and have no problems with embarrassing myself or creeping out providers. In fact, I've found providers seem to enjoy being with men of our age. Something about how we know how to treat a lady, have a lot of experience, and some love grey hair.     I have to add though that I've never seen a provider younger than 25.  Not sure if very young providers might get "creeped out."

If you stay in good shape (and that's possible into your 70s at least, maybe longer) and think young, you should do fine.  

Interested to see what the ladies say...

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In my experience , mature gents seem to know how to treat a lady better...its not all about looks. Personality goes a very long way imo.
 

But I just got knocked out by a measley couple of years.  I am devastated. Excuse me while I get a razor blade and run a hot bath. I knew I was playing the back nine but never thought there'd be a short par 3 that I couldn't play respectably.

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Since I have a distinct preference for sensuality, personality and someone who appreciates going slow enough to stop the world with things as fundamental as a kiss and a leisurely embrace, my pleasure is usually amplified with men over 40.  

I know that some providers are not interested in the GFE sort of approach so for them, these are not big selling points when it comes to older men. For me though, and I can only speak for myself as a tantrika, everything is about the whole person and not the physical three ring circus that might be possible with someone. Frankly if all I wanted was a sexual circus, I would go seduce 18-23 year old males (the best ages out of the whole 17-27 years decade) and have a grand time. The problem is that all the other shortcomings of being that young make the sexual circus coming to town only enjoyable the first time you attend. After that, it gets predictable and tedious really damn quick.

So, I like guys over 40 because IF their personalities are going to mature and ripen into something wonderful, and it needs all that time and life experience to get here, their whole person becomes a rich, deep and enjoyable panoply of manhood. If they are 60+, they get kinky bonus points because these days, I have discovered that I apparently have a freakish sort of fetish thing going on in my head for age play but only when my partner is old enough to be a grandfather (or great grandfather). The very things that would have made me cringe in horror about a partner in my youth, if I had to deal with it erotically (old looking hands, skin and muscle tone changes like sagging, grey hair, etc) now has a heightened erotic charge like a secret fetish, much like someone who has a fetish for big boobs, women's feet or pre-op trannies, etc)

So I enthusiastically welcome mature men and take great delight in the different kind of man they are after 60. The only ones that make me despair are the ones who still have the personalities and mentalities of their immature selves and try to make this all about their ego and their penile-centric Universe. Luckily, these types are typically chasing the barely 20-something year olds in their arrested development and won't give the time of day to a provider over 25 and I am A-Okay with that. (We are mutually turned off by each other in this instance and neither of us is upset about the absence.)

Should you modify your approach? I suppose it depends on what age group of provider you are trying to appeal to.

Physical appearance is not what creeps me out. Personality does, i don't usually know how my clients look like unless they provide me with a picture, so I only judge by their words. And believe me, I've had plenty of 20/30 years emails that creeped me out more than anyone. So just behave like a gentleman and you'll be fine. Don't try too hard, embrace your age, 60 is not the end.

Moreover, most providers understand that older gentleman might have limitations, so they adjust their approach, but then again, not everyone takes care of their body same. Like they said before, 60 y.o with stamina of 30 y.o. It's less likely to find one that wants to party, do coke and get drunk but that's better for me.  

Speaking from my experiences, I haven't had any problem, in fact, i met a 61 y.o recently that felt like I knew him from a long time. Conversation flowed, great chemistry, we had a lot of things in common, sex was great

I had a BDSM client once that was in his 90's. He told me I was on his bucket list. I have never been so flattered, honored and amused.  

I didn't find it creepy (but that's me), had a great time but in fairness and full disclosure, more than a couple times I caught myself paying closer than normal attention to his breathing patterns and exertion and wondering if this was going to end up involving CPR and mentally rehearsing in advance both an exit strategy about the toys and clothes (or lack of them) and some really creative explanations about who I was and what we were doing....  

Quite possibly one of my best and definitely most memorable experiences ever. Once in a lifetime stuff.
 

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I Love older gentlemen! They are more respectful and know how to treat a lady, and are more experienced in the bedroom

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And have some great clients over 60!~  

Steph xox

I love all men, and that's why I do what I do.  

But there is something particularly special about older men, at least the ones I have been blessed to have been with.

For one, they have much more life experience- and the wisdom to make sense of it all- than their younger counterparts. The things they've seen and done, and the perspective unique to their years, make for very interesting learning experiences for me. They can see the bigger picture much better than people with less time on the Earth. They see patterns where we see chaos.

For another, in the hobby, they tend to have more hands-on experience (pun intended). They know their way around a woman's body- no fumbling, tentative gestures; no ego-driven requests for me to tell them how good they are. They know they are good.  They also know how to ask how best to please me without ruining the moment. They take subtle direction better than younger men do- a slight nudge this way or a gentle turn that way. I don't have to hold up a placard saying, go left!! And that's another thing: they want to please me. They love pleasing me because they get pleasure from seeing my pleasure. They do not try to please me in order to stoke the fires of their own ego. And damn, some of the best tongues I have experienced have been those of older men.

They also tend to be a tiny bit more respectful of my boundaries and comfort zones. They don't try to squirm past my screening, or haggle me about my rates. They are usually the ones who bring me beautiful, sweet, and thoughtful things. They honor me, respect me, and adore me. And they are so incredibly adored in return.

I'll leave you with this story from my younger days when I for the first time experienced someone much, much older than I in bed. I was traveling somewhere hot and tropical, and was camping on the beach. I got violently ill by food poisoning, and a sweet older English gentleman nursed me back to health. After my illness, I got to know a hot young French guy and made wild passionate love with him. But my English gentleman was hurt; he felt spurned after having taken such good care of me. Fate had us on the same 6-hour train ride to the city, and during that ride we made plans to stay together in the city. That night we made love. It was incredible- the difference was special. He savored my body like no younger man could have possibly done; he took his slow and gentle time to get to know all my erogenous zones. It was a shared experience of deliberate pleasure, rather than the fervent, zealous, and somewhat selfish thrusting of the night before. He was amazing. And he was my first older man. I'll always remember him!

So thank you, men of superior years!

I'm 52. My current provider is 27. She seems to enjoy seeing me. I definitely love seeing her. In fact she recently went to my Family Thanksgiving. She insisted on going. She had a great time. My relatives we're a bit surprised I was with a young gorgeous girl. It was awesome!

WOW!! That is such a beautiful story!! Thank you so much for sharing that--as an "older" gentleman myself (if you classify early 50's as old) you summarize so well what we try to bring to the table in our dates with younger women.

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What You LOOK Like
doesn't not affect my ORGASM.

For the most part, it's Guys that are stimulated VISUALLY

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...the average lifespan of a $100 bill is 15 years.

a 'mature provider', like myself, might see things a little differently lol.

LOL...I started thinking about that...age is a relative thing.

A young lady who is 25 today, will be 35 when I'm 65...and so on.

And, in my experience, "mature" ladies are the best!

Thanks for your reply.

I was going to say that I don't have a problem with it, but realized I'm in my forties so maybe not the right demographic you would like to ask. I like mature men because they know what to do. It's about personality and chemistry which isn't based on age.

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I am still kicking myself for not making that appt to see you when I was in Vegas last April....

I only feel attracted to older men. I always get asked by other people to rate the performance of older guys and they expect me to say that it's terrible and gross. I don't think age has anything to do with performance. Its just an ugly stereotype. I have always had great experiences with older guys, so I truly don't know for sure if there is such a thing as "old age bad date" syndrome.

Staying active only blesses you further. You still have to have an appeal, but for me physical shape isn't everything. By modifying the approach... I assume that you are talking about using pick up lines or trying to woo a girl into going on a date. I don't think there is anything that you would do differently based on your asge, but every girl has her preference. I admire guys who keep it interesting. Simply asking me out and being flirty is interesting enough for me. Being a complete gentleman gets you an A+. Just be yourself, and trust me. You will not have any performance issues being with a young goirl when you are 60.... Unless yo end up with a girl who has the complete opposite chemistry.