and if i did, i wouldn't know, because i wouldn't be doing this. ( hobbying )
But, that's just me and not a put down of those who do.

For some guys, hobbying can relieve some of the sexual tension in the marriage and can actually improve the relationship.  

For others,  guys may develop even more hatred for their wives, for not giving them what they desire, and it may totally ruin the relationship.

Then there are others, where it makes absolutely no difference.

When I come home after visiting a provider and am still all horned up and she tells me she has a headache it reminds me why I went in the first place. It also makes me realize even more that she needs to lose 10 pounds off her ass now that I have been with all these hot twenty-somethings.

Why do I get the impression..

That we have posts being planted on this board? First time posters have been bringing up psychobabble posts that are recycled. I wonder who is doing the planting.

doesn't make me LOVE my wife more, nor does the fact that she's banging guys with much bigger cocks than mine, including former porn actors. Why? Because sex does not equal love.

What I think it DOES do, however, is help us to have a fuller sex life, more satisfying, more fulfilled, more exciting... then hopefully it helps us to have better sex with one another.

I'm asking because I have a SO that I love to death and the sex is amazing, but I've been getting to urge to want to see a provider. I'm scared that I'll get back into it, but I rationalize that it'll make me appreciate my SO even more. Decisions, decisions.