A few months ago I was ghosted by a provider I had seen 5 times....she no called no showed for our 6th appointment.  I have not contacted her since, nor did she contact me.  I know she is still booking appointments.

Of those times, about half I made out well, and half I regretted.

... with a young woman who was amazing in bed, would do anything and everything and had serial orgasms.  She ghosted me, magically reappeared a year later and we started up again as if nothing ever happened. A few months later, I told her belts were being tightened a bit and I wouldn't be able to see her as often as we had been meeting. Left skidmarks, she was gone so fast.

Move on....   As Gagambler has said many times. - I will beg for pussy; I will pay for pussy.  I will not beg to pay for pussy....

It really depends on how hot she is, how badly she behaved and how horny you are for her. That said, as a general rule I'd stay away. So long as there are good alternatives.
Once a flake, always a flake.

The fact that she has yet to contact you is appalling.

... relieved when they go away?

I’d move on... NCNS is unforgivable IMHO.

Just go see her, hear her explanation, it could be the best session you have ever had.   You know you want it, otherwise you wouldn't have asked us.

I had seen the lady a number of times. She reached back out to me a couple months later and gave an explanation. I honestly didn’t believe her but I genuinely liked her so made an exception and it’s gone strong for years since.  

You answered your question.

If she pulled a NCNS, and then never made any attempt after the fact to explain, shes either not organized.... or not interested.  
Even if it were a legit reason for missing the appointment....
Not following up to explain, says volumes about her.

regarding the nsnc, beyond an actual life & death emergency, not excusable (and in reverse sitch, any 2nd chance I might give requires a deposit).
main reason i'm posting is because saw some replies to effect of provider not getting back in touch afterward to explain.
i and a lot of providers i know have a strict "only speak when spoken to policy".  
i've had ongoing clients say, 'you can text me anytime!"
nope, because all i ever picture is my text arriving when he's in shower and his significant other sees text pop up ending with "xoxo Kacy"
and my outlook is that trouble for him could mean trouble for me.
xoxo
Kacy TGirl

You are the buyer, she is the seller.  In any commercial setting, including this one, when a seller disrespects a buyer, they don' deserve any more of your business.  End of story.  

I have not reached out to her nor do I plan to!  I have too much self respect for myself, and not enough time to deal with this.  I posted because I wanted to gauge if anyone else had this type experience and how they reacted.  Most of the posts are by Gentlemen who I may not always agree with, but certainly respect.

and according to almost everyone I have ever met, neither am I. lol

..life is what happens,when you're busy doing other things...had major overnight vanish...found out her apartment got robbed...phone stolen etc...i believe in second chances,once i discover what happened...but if no call/no reason..bye/bye...

Well like you have said over and over;
I have begged for Pussy
I have paid for Pussy; but
I never will beg to pay for Pussy.

I am ALWAYS a gentleman with every woman I meet . . . . until she shows me by her own actions that she does not deserve to be treated like a lady.  I have little time for classless women.  You can put lipstick on a pig, and you might have a prettier pig, but its still a pig.

handled it the same way you do, i.e., a prompt contact saying what the emergency was, an apology, and then a price incentive to make it up to him for the inconvenience.  I would always give a second chance if its handled like that.   The thing is, she did NONE of that.  Giving her another chance just insures she will not hesitate to do it again.  Douche behavior has consequences, even if its coming from a lady.  

You even said yourself that you "always reach out to them know asap" She did not, not only did she not reach out "asap" she STILL has yet to contact him to offer an apology and/or an excuse.

In my defense, my post was much longer and took a couple of more minutes to write. lol

no call no show, move on.  even if she had to go to the emergency room or had a family member pass, she should have contacted you, apologized and asked what she can do to make it up to  you once she was back to work.  

If she's the best fuck you've ever had and that's what matters most then put up with the BS.

Thanks for your replies.  I will not be reaching out to her.  Many Prominent posters have le ft interesting comments. Even putting pride aside, it really boils down to one of my final original comments;  “if she did it to me once, she will probably do it to me again”!

Depends.  I would think that if I had seen her 5 times that there would be great chemistry otherwise why the hell would I see her 5 times?

She was NCNS, and to this day, has not contacted the customer.  Only a love-sick puppy or a man who likes being a door mat would give a second chance in such a situation.  

Ok, I will bite.  You appear to have misread my response.  Very well aware of the facts.  I didn't say that I would absolutely do anything.  I would just most likely want to see how she responds given that this hypothetical person is someone that I have seen multiple times.  I didn't say that I would give her a second chance.  I would just want to see her response and go from there.  On the other hand, if I haven't seen her before then I would most likely just move on.  Usually the ladies that I have seen once let alone more than once are eager to meet up again, so I would be curious why this lady is an anomaly.  

this type of behavior is all the more egregious.  She won't say it out loud, but she will be thinking to herself, "I KNEW he'd come crawling back,"  and you are giving her the go ahead to treat you like dirt going forward. I agree with your statement that if you hadn't seen her before, you would just move on.  My point is that if you HAVE seen her before and she's still willing to be a douche, why wouldn't you STILL just move on?  

Not disagreeing with much of what you said.  There aren't a lot of ladies that I want to see multiple times.  Any lady that I have seen that many times I probably treated very well and I must have felt that she was super into me otherwise I wouldn't have repeated that many times.  Given that I don't lack self awareness I would probably want to see how she responds and why/where my read of the situation was off.  What is wrong with wanting to see if there is an opportunity to become a better client for future ladies?  Extremely unlikely that I would see her again, though.  That is very disrespectful and inexcusable.  

up until  . . . . "I would probably want . . . . ."    Why would you expect to get help becoming a better client from a woman like this?  Why would her opinion be relevant to how you would interact with women who are NOT like her?  Its like asking a career criminal what is the best way to be honest.  How much weight do you give the response?  You don't.  Her opinion is worthless because of her lack of character and integrity.  Trust me, NOTHING good can come from any more contact with someone who did this to you, only drama, and who needs that?

Especially from someone who instead of simply refusing to book with me, but instead was so inconsiderate about my time as to simply NCNS on me. I don't honestly care what someone like that thinks about me.  

Second chances are for those that are apologetic. I too believe in second chances but only if the offender owns it and tries to make it right.

Losers.
The saying goes.

I hate to agree with you, but I do.  Some people need to buy some self respect.  

but I think that the only way those who ought to take your course will be if a court mandates it.

And have a no refund policy for those beyond help.  It sounds expensive, but for some here, it would be worth every penny.  However, the ones who really need it are not likely to think they do.  A conundrum for sure.

I think charging a minimum of $1K an hour is just fine. I think I will open my school directly across the street and charge $2K, the people most in need of a spine will automatically assume that the $2K class is twice as good, just like they think a $2K hooker is twice as good as a $1K hooker, and paying the tuition in the first place is proof positive about just how badly they need the class. hmmm, maybe I will charge $5K an hour and I won't even hold classes, anyone THAT dumb will be too embarrassed to even ask for their money back, just like the spineless jellyfish who go through with sessions even when the fat old hag that answers the doors has ZERO resemblance to the hottie in the pics. lol

I mean I would have to start at the most basic level. It is not like many would have any concept of what self respect is let alone how to have some. I read some of the sad comments here and it is plan a doormat has more of a spine. I have read accounts of people waiting hours for a NCNS to call or show, all the time thinking it is their fault, followed up then begging the so call sex worker to see them. And if some of the ladies stories are half true I will have to teach basic ass whipping as well. The stories I read here prove what a monumental task teaching self respect around here would be.

Fuck, I put it out there first. That does it I will offer an extra deluxe class at $10K and throw in a custom school hat. That should prove my classes are better than yours.

Yeah, sure I will. lol

I can wrap my head around a lady that I have never met being a NCNS.  I cannot wrap my head around a lady that I have seen multiple times being a NCNS.  I wouldn't see a lady that many times if she didn't have integrity/character.  There are plenty of hot ladies in LA.  

The last paragraph is the stoooped shit that I expected to hear.  This is all bullshit.  I have had a lady NCNS probably a handful of times.  But never a lady that I have seen multiple times.  I cannot wrap my head around that for several reasons.  In LA there are way too many extremely hot ladies.  And frankly if I had to choose between two equally hot ladies - one that I have seen before and one that I haven't, well, I would see the one that I haven't seen before.  Hate to admit it but I am kinda a 🐖 like that.  Point is that for me to see a lady that many times she would have to be more than just really hot.  So I probably would reach out to her at the very least to ensure that she is ok.  Who knows what might have happened?  How that inquiry is made would really depend on the situation?  Regardless of her response, I would not be inclined to see her again.