Ladies,
Have you ever had a guy to write you a negative review out of spite? How did you handle it? Did it affect your business?

I had a session with a guy when I was touring Chicago & he scheduled a 15 min session for $75.  He thought he could get a full service GFE session for $75 get the f*ck out of here. I'm so angry right now I could explode.

a reviewer...all you accomplish is highlighting that you may indeed be a BSC provider.

Looking at your reviews I only figured out the reviewer because you mentioned ChiTown.  The scores overall are fairly homogenous.  

Pick it up a few notches and you'll get better reviews.

What can you do in 15 minutes? I guess a lollipop session or just kissing? I am askin because it's such a small amount of time I would not have even entertained that but otherwise did you specify it was not a GFE session to start with?



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First off, I am a guy .... I believe  this question was aimed at other probiders but I thought I would throw in my 2 cents.
I looked at her profile and I think I can see the bad review (5/5) but as an intelligent individual I can look at the overall review (which is what  I would normally do) and see that she has 13 reviews with the majority showing 8/9. With that I would the folowing possiblites -

    1) She was simply having a bad day as all humans have on occasion.
    2) The reviewer was an ass (not aimed at anyone specific .... just a possiblity)

The average of the reviews still look good (although it would be better to have a larger sample set).

When I look at these numbers, I try and  find an average across all the reviews as well as looking for a pattern (i.e. are the scores trending lower).

Just my 2 cents.

ummm what is a BSC provider lol

I hope so...I have much higher standards than she does  LOL

Read the review...it's not a bad one.

She's just a pissed off brat!

Like I said in my comment to her...pick it up a few notches toots....and try a minimum of an hour if you can get it  LOL

especially those looking to pay $75 for an experience. Anyone can find $75 under their sofa.

Its tricky with 15 minute sessions, because some providers do offer full service for a 15 minute session. Maybe not full GFE service, but full service nonetheless. Perhaps he was mislead?

Not trying to tell you how to run your business, but, if you market yourself like that, it usually don't have a good outcome. Good luck!

Like I said...look at YOUR reviews that are on your TER page!

The trend is NOT going up...and now you come here and cry because you're doing blow and go's and getting mediocre scores?

Get over it!!

its is a lollipop special & its listed on my website. yes I did specify it before the session began this is why I'm angry.

You are so sweet. Thank you for your kind words!

thanks for your input!!

No he wasn't mislead he saw the special listed on my website & asked about it! Thanks!

That's exactly what YOU did by posting this crap

Give it up toots...or you'll soon find yourself up to your neck in BAD press.

This is NOT the forum to bash a reviewer.  Take your drivel over to the PO board and some of those BSC gals can confirm that I am not a nice guy when provoked!

Oh trust me I get appointments for the hour as well as multi hour appointments. Pissed off I am. I rather be pissed off than pissed on I guess. kmsl

Those fellas will pay for YOU to piss on them LOL

And you won't have to worry about reviews either...most BDSM isn't reviewed.

Plus a session is at least an hour...more bucks for you as well.

Everybody is happy  

Defensive sarcasm is such an immature response.

Lol i do offer golden showers on my site. I must say that you are quite amusing.

STOP with the blow and go's and push the golden showers  

No charge for this...but next time I expect some compensation  LOL

Kmsl you crack me up. But hey at least I'm not pissed off anymore!! I wonder how much I could get if I get pissed on haha

GS aren't my cup of tea...but there seems to be a rather large segment of Johns that like this.

Seriously...the blow and go's just aren't good for reviews.  As you now know

But if you read the review...as I suspect you did, hence the post, he was pretty decent with his story.  Just how much of value it would be to most fellas here...very very little.

Which is why I commented that this thread only makes YOU look bad.  

Now go and drink a few beers...call up a valued customer, and practice pissing all over the guy  

ok thank you!!!

Yes it's happened.... it affected my business in a good way ....

....it got me more business because they figured the a-holes were FOS (and they were right).

2 are from guys I've never met and there's another from a guy who wanted free extra time and didn't get it and he came in super sauced "drunk" (not turning him around was my fault), 1 more is from the "she's not my type physically but i'm going to see her anyways because she seems talented but i'm going to score her low because i'm not into BBW's".  

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With such a strong personality like mine, many of the insecure do on purpose to fk with me lol. I still got the cash though dumb ass!

sessions, are not exactly the ones paying much attention to the reviews or quality thereof. No one is really going to care, because the rate is cheap enough to get what they are looking for at that time bracket. Most women in my area offering such sessions have zero reviews, and are still in business.

Re: Yes it's happened....if affected my business in a good way ....

How can reviews from guys you have never met review you and it is allowed to remain? That sounds scary!

Yes, I have and to top it off before I was told by another client that someone ha written a bad review about me, the guy had asked if he could use me as a reference if he saw other girls. I never have a problem with that if a client treats me good and he seemed nice.  It didn't effect my business bc I have a ton of positive reviews but when girls txt me for a reference I warn them and have him posted on provider buzz.  For those of us who are honest, hard workin girls who don't fuck you over...if you don't have something positive to say then refrain from posting a review at all.

And considering the amount of shill reviews that are out there already, you're just encouraging more of the same?

How about if a guy posts the session as HE saw it.  And if you do a good job, it'll generally be a good review.  If it's not...then I sure as hell hope he has the balls to tell it like it was...from his POV.  Honestly, I don't give a shit about your POV on how YOU think the session went!  When YOU are paying then YOU can review.  

But too many gals push and prod for asinine scores and such.  Some even threaten US with blacklisting if WE don't give them asinine and UNDESERVED high scores.  Imagine that LOL

So until you are paying US to fuck...give it a rest and complain on the PO board about supposed fake reviews and such!

I think I agree with you. If it went well for the provider it does not also mean that it went well for the gent. I know some providers get reviews that are not glowing and they get upset. If the gent is being honest about the review and it's not good then he should tell it as giving his POV. It was the fake ones that I was concerned about meaning a client writing a review on a provider that he has not even met. That is wrong. You are very passionate about this subject, Chgo!

Absolutely the worst thing y can do in the case like that is bring more attention to it.


Lina

The nerve of some people. No one does anything to anyone out of spite. No one has ever done that on especially on TER.

Over half the shit that goes on here is out of spite.

Human beings have not progressed as much as you think they have or you want them to be. People don’t get their way, the sky is the limit as to what they are capable off.

I don't see a thing out of line with his review, personally I think your other reviewers were overly generous, but that's just my opinion, I haven't met you and I wasn't there.

If you'll look at his other reviews, he is not exactly a high scorer, and he didn't seem to be wild about your service.  Coming on here to bitch about it, only makes you look petty and vindictive. My advice is like the others "step up your game"

As has been stated chemistry is not guarenteed & often a bad review gives themselves away that it was their fault.  Experienced hobbiests will look with care at the outlier reviews but give more credance to the overall high marks.  
Often a hard scorer will like wise have a hisory of low scores or expecting a full menu in a short visit.  
I can't see less that 1/2 hour appt...  I started getting hour & a half but more recently have been fine with a full hour...  but after a few years,  I know what I'm capable of.  

but you are right about bringing attention to it, or even worse calling out the reviewer for a bad review that you admit actually happened, and where none of the facts are in dispute.

The OP never would have been on my radar to begin with, mainly because of appearance reasons, she is simply not my cup of tea, and quite frankly I think the five was a fair score, but even if she were "on my radar" a post like this would rapidly put her on my "must miss" list.

the reviews were posted i received communication from the reviewer stating that he gave me certain score but if i were to do XYZ activity during our next date, he would resubmit the review with higher score.

I don't respond to black mail like that kindly, but the boards is not appropriate venue to handle this.

Lina

I still think TER should allow a Provider feedback review tab to any review given under a 7 like on EBay and other sites.
I know it sounds crazy, but there are always two sides to the story