In short, the "pain" of planning for a session is not worth it . First, I have to save up $$$, which takes a fair bit of work. Next, I get nervous on the day of the appointment. Both my and her ducks must be in a row, otherwise I just blew $$$. Last, when the session actually starts, it takes a while for me to get comfortable with this stranger. Plus I feel I have to "perform" otherwise, I just blew $$$. This performance anxiety often kills my mood and I can't get it up.

All your posts on this board are whining about hobbying! If you don't want to hobby, don't fucking hobby! Simple!
Why are you here

I am well over fifty, drink like a fish and I don't suffer from even a bit of "performance anxiety".

Maybe you should change your handle to something more appropriate like "976tepidwussy" lmao

Sorry to be so harsh, but with a handle like your's, it's hard to resist busting your chops. Maybe you should try AMPs? The talent might not be as good as you became accustomed to in Singapore, but the cost is lower than an indie, and there is no preplanning required.

We were all new at this once.  

Why not just not hobby if it isn't your thing? It works for me and I don't regret the money spent, but it strikes me as an irrationally expensive habit if you don't love it...

If you hadn't noticed he has reviews almost two years old, so he is hardly a newbie at this point, and what difference does it make where he lives? Do you plan on holding hands and looking deep into his eyes as well?

So tell me, you are trying to win both Dumbgina and SPOTM awards this month, aren't you? BTW the both of the OP's reviews are from Chicago, it would be a good bet that's where he lives. too bad, one of you is going to have to hop a plane for the two of you to hold hands and look deep into each other's eyes. lmao

I do enjoy hobbying when it is affordable and there is a minimal of planning jitters.

I'd be more nervous of missing my flight.

you may be seeing the wrong ladies. Sometimes connection isn't spot on. There is a lady out there for everyone.

have you ever thought it's bec you don't like any sort of metal contact with someone, the more you pay the more you have picked a girl who is classed more of an escort possibly than just turning up at something like a parlour and just strip off shag and go. Have you ever thought about one of those blow up dolls you can get that are really realistic, now that my friend is what you will call dump your load and go xxxxxxxxxxxx

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In Thailand, I got to pick from 100s of women behind glass mirror at the soapies for $25.

i just saw one of my atf's and to be real honest, my guy was only inside of her for a little while in the two hours we spent together.  was that a waste of money?  not on your life.

I totally agree. i have only seen one provider as i am kinda new. But i did my research and luckily found a lady that I really clicked with. I have seen her several times and we even hang out some times. But the main thing is we both enjoy (well at least I do) our time together. Try finding one lady you click with then maybe see her several times which will help with your nervousness. Do this several times then you will have sveral ladies you feel comfortable with.Now its time for me to start finding a new lady so I can follow my own advice

Right, because all American hookers are using it for drugs and our deadbeat boyfriends lol. Idiot personified. If they keep barebacking guys like Udo, how long are they going to be ALIVE to support said families?

The only reason I go for cheap girls is that I'm broke too.
I don't care what they do with their money.
And I use protection.
No to street walkers.

It's your choice whether to see the cheaper girls or higher priced ones.