You never know.  It could be the woman who's doing the screening is not giving enough info to your references.  Maybe her tone was rude when contacting your refs.  Or maybe she has other hesitations about seeing you and is using the screening process to delay until you give up and try someone else.  If I had a client with a stack of refs it wouldn't be that tough to find out what I need to know.  Especially if you have reviews as well.

I would not contact the providers and ask why they won't cooperate.  At most, I might send a polite email with a couple of reminder details and leave it at that.  If that doesn't get the process moving along I'd drop it and go see someone else.

Sorry to hear you have the blues...
Maybe ask to be screened a different way?  Is there another provider you can reference?  It's unfortunate that you are having issues belonging to such a reputable site.  I'm sure it's nothing personal, maybe she is traveling or just too busy to communitcate with other providers?

Let's go through the 'what could've went wrong?' checklist, shall we?

It's funny that NONE of your ladies responded. At least one of them should've if things were done right...

1. Did you ask any of the four ladies you named as references if they can be contacted? A lot of ladies give you the Okays on P411 so they don't have to be contacted for references, cause they don't know the importance of checking behind these services...
If your answer was YES, proceed to question 2.

2. Did you contact the ladies prior to giving the information that they should be contacted by the potential provider? SOME consider this an invasion, so just to be sure, send your reference an email before she's contacted by a random lady.

3. Did your potential playmate follow proper protocols on sending the request, equipped with all of her information as well? If she leaves anything out in the FIRST communication, they may be afraid it's a wife.

Now to the interesting part...
4. Are the ladies in the same neighborhood price-wise? I know it's a weird question to ask, but some high-priced ladies get offended that a guy that they've met would even consider a low-priced girl ESPECIALLY after being with them, and the low-price girl gets mad that you're seeing a girl that's triple her rate, especially since you low-balled her for a 30 minute appointment. (this is most definitely not your fault)

5. Are any of your references your ATF, or someone you see frequently? Some ladies DO NOT like to share...

Now let's self-assess...
6. What kind of client are you? If there were REALLY something wrong with you, ALL the ladies would've came forward and said something negative. And that brings me to my last question: did you get a chance to meet the lady irregardless to your reference issues, due to other screening methods?

I tell my gentleman friends....

they can use me as a reference anytime...however I prefer they contact me first...so that I know it is really legit...and as soon as I get an email from her...I respond a.s.a.p...but I Will tell You...I do Not understand why some providers choose Not to respond...I personally have given up using other providers as a reference...and I have my own way to verify and it only takes 10 minutes of my time...so I make the process simple and easy for my gentlemen friends  and btw...if I were You...I would contact the providers and see what the hold up is...it takes a whole...what 30 seconds of my time to respond and verify You...lol...

Hi. I just wanted to chime in as a provider who uses a verification service and does not give out provider references. I hope you don't mind.

Personally I use one verification service which usually gets in touch with me within in 2-20 minutes and I of course belong to a board for ladies to stay safe. I do not accept provider references because frankly speaking, it's bad business to walk "money" out of your door. While we live in a fantasy world when we are partaking in one another,  prior to doing so it is business and all business on both ends. Speaking on a business stand point it just is bad ethics in such a cut throat and recession toned atmosphere to rely on the word of your competition. You never know which past provider may have gotten herself in trouble, retired or if she has a significant other had stumbled upon the hidden job/life and now can't access that email etc.

Also having to have a discussion with another provider tends to spark some sort of comradely and then cattiness follows. I prefer to just avoid it all and use a verification service, research it myself and be done with it. Plus as an adult who's had relationships outside of the hobby I'm well aware that chemistry is EVERYTHING and you may not feel that with everyone so those references aren't always unbiased.

I've used Datecheck P411 and here in Chicago Roomservice (which is nationwide), I use roomservice2000 100% of the time to be honest with you. I get a response generally within the hour.

I hope this helps some.

Signed,

Natalie Rose

Sheesh, you'd think we'd have figured it out by now.

Your post and the responses to it, are exactly why I don't even bother with the reference exercise.  The system sucks on so many levels that it's impossible to straighten out.

It's much easier to see different providers if you DON'T go through all those gyrations.  The whole business of verification and references, in my experience, is a total sham anyway.

There are thousands of providers out there and jumping through all those hoops to see a particular provider is damn near a neurotic twitch.

If your pleasant, presentable, courteous and have a presence of some sort, you shouldn't have the trouble you've been experiencing.

Naturally, others may have differing opinions.  This is my story and I'm stickin' to it.