For those of you who provider BBBJ do you it for

1. Competive reasons (because other providers do it)

2. Done to make a client hooked on you to come back for repeat business.

3. It is something that you naturally like to do.

or do we have to pick one reason??

No, you can pick them all.

4. They already have all applicable diseases.

5. They don't care about getting sick.

Something they naturally like to do?? I've known guys married for years who go BJ-less.
These women don't like doing anything in this business. That's why it's a business.

...it might be a minority of people, but some people like their work.  I do things that are more grueling than a bbbj on a daily basis, but I like my work and line of business.

And I'm also one of those guys that hasn't gotten a bj of any kind for my "better half".  But I wouldn't compare my wife to a provider.  I like my providers.

And some are great artists and love to deliver a grand performance.  Here's to one of my favorite performers!

You could not possibly be more wrong. Cock sucking IS an artform, and hand jobs are terribly underrated by most - women and men both.

I don't just like cock sucking. I love it. I love watching a man's eyes pop out of his head, and the smile on his face when I'm done. I don't like condoms because it diminshes the pleasure, and quite honestly, I can't stand the feel and taste of latex. That doesn't mean I never use them, but unless I have a concern about safety, I prefer to enjoy the smooth feel the head of a man's cock as I glide my tongue over it rather than feel like I'm licking a balloon.

Sure you've known married guys who go BJ-less. I'm not your wife. I'm not your girlfriend either. But I'll fall in love with you and your nice and suckable cock for an hour.

*sigh* When oh when, will you guys ever figure out that there isn't some cookie cutter model that creates all escorts the same. Some of us really DO love what we do, and really ARE good at it BECAUSE we enjoy it.

That post was so HOT that I have to go relieve myself from just reading it!
I sure wish you were in my area.

but also married monogamous women are like that for a reason: sexual dysfunction. They've seldom if ever enjoyed sex in their lives, and are probably not orgasmic. They think of sex as a guy thing.

I think such women tend to be monogamous wives who think of sex either as a way to have children, or as their husbands' disdainful quirk. They don't see what the excitement is all about.

Some men like to eat pussy and some don't. Some women like to suck dick and some don't. Some women are just being careful.

I, for one, absolutely love a bbbj. I wouldn't do it if the guy wasn't clean or had cuts or sores on him. Ooh!  However, there's nothing better than a clean, shaven or trimmed-way back johnson.  

It's also organic. I find myself thinking of being in a forest and searching for food. Then, I come upon a mushroom after a rain shower. It glistens in the light. I run my tongue over the shaft like licking a popsicle and swirl my tongue over the soft head. Then, when the mushroom leasts expects it, I slowly shape my lips like a pussy petal and rub it back and forth (with the anticipation of putting it in my mouth). I slowly close over it and down the entire shaft like a tight pussy.

There's nothing better. Need I say more?

Hugs,
Ciara

Oops.....didn't mean to cause a umm, reaction :o )

And in all fairness, I should also note that I adore the delights of pleasuring women just as much as I enjoy men. The textures, feel, taste and enjoyment are different, but there is nothing more erotic than to feel someone's body moving and twitching while I give them pleasure.

What can I say? I am just extremely orally fixated. Lollipop anyone?

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My first taste of a man's semen was many years ago, when I was in my teens.

My uncle was an old fashioned doctor and he gave me some of his instruments inside a beat up leather bag and I loved to play "doctor" with the boys in my neighborhood.

Over the detached garage, there was a small apartment, place I used to keep my all my toys...it was my playhouse.

I would have the boys coming over for a "visit"...they would sit in the waiting room sofa and I called one by one to my office - the kitchen with a big formica table.

They had to undress and hop in the table...and I did probe their bodies until I got a hard on. They would say how "sick" they were and I had to minister the cure...yeah, a sloppy bbbj

I've been doing it since...every day! And I got better and better, developing a passion and an addiction for the most beautiful part of a mans body - his erect cock!

Years later, when I was working as a full menu provider, I noticed that most guys didn't want to do anything after I engulfed them with my mouth....which made me realize that I was made to be an Oral Specialist.

And is what I am today...I don't give just a bbbj, I give  the strongest oral experience performed with great skills.

So, replying to your post:

1. Not worried about being competitive because every girl provides in a different way.

2. I have a very high ratio of repeated clients, so I guess they return, not because they are hooked up, but to get the kind of oral release I can provide for them.

3. I was born to do it, pure and simple.

I go away to relieve my tension......go back to this discussion and damn!  I read more women talking about worshiping cocks!

Gotta go

That was a "great fucking post". Thank you for helping to  dispell the myth that all providers, or all women for that matter, are the same.

There are providers who love giving oral and some that don't.  You cannot generalize about providers  regarding whether or not they enjoy what they do.

Back to that same old argument that they "only do it for the money".  Believe it or not there are huge numbers of providers out there who are capable of enjoying sex AND getting paid for it.  They are capable of spending a few hours with a polite, intelligent gentleman AND enjoying it WHILE getting paid for it. Hell, they are even capable of sucking a guys cock AND enjoying it.
My ATF could write a book about how to suck a guy's cock and revel in it...she gives me a blow-by-blow(doh!)as she is coming up for air about how much she love it when my cock grows bigger inside her mouth, how she can feel me twitch when I'm getting close and how much she wants to see me cum....
For the jaded among you who no longer believe any of what I say is possible I feel truly sad for you. For the rest of us, it just means a little less competition trying to book time with the truly great ladies out there who just so happen to choose this line of work.
Sure, I've been with women who wouldn't suck cock, couldn't suck cock and who clearly ONLY sucked cock because they were getting paid. Let me tell you, it's VERY easy to tell the difference. If you think she is only doing it for the money, look elsewhere. The search is worth it and the research has it's own rewards!

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Organic, orgasmic...it's all good! It's also fat free and low in carbs. Damn! If I could spend all day eating pussy (believe me, I've tried!) I would lose that 50lbs that my doctor has been bugging me about with no problem!

betty , you had me @ worship...you say all the right things..

"Bitter, party of one!"

I either MUST visit South New jersey , OR, wish/hope/pray/insist that Betty finds her way to Atlanta !!!!!

Could not possibly say it any better , very well   put SOF

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None *exactly* of the above

I like giving them because I am good at it. Who doesn't like to show of their talents?

Like SinsoftheFlesh said, I love the look of amazement, shock, happiness on a mans face

I really love it when a man says its the first one he has had in 3 years, or his wife wont let him CIM , or he feels like a different man. true not all say or do these things, but enough that I really can feel good I gave someone a rare experience

I am not anti-intercourse, I just think the BBBJ requires more skill, more being in touch with your partners every move, every nuance. It CAN be an art form and most self respecting girls who offer it are going to give it their best

im sure there are plenty who do a 3 min. warm up and lie back for missionary, but if you assume that is all of us you havent found the right woman yet

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I've actually got a UTR fav in South Jersey but I'm thinking I may have to stay an extra day on my next visit...WooHoo!!! Go Betty!

I hear that South Jersey is lovely this time of year....

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I second that!!!! I really love that...turning men on is great.  Making me very hapy as well.  I love what I do.  And I am good at it!!!  GRIN    No one will ever be just a $ sign here!  Heidi xxoo

Your description is impeccable from my experience with you.  Besides being the best, the fact that you can be totally assertive in your expectations of doing that is the epitome of your eroticism.

Betty gives superb blow jobs,  I know because ive visited her.  BRAVO betty.

I consider sucking cock an art.

Not every woman is good at it.

I suck cock because I enjoy going down on a man.

The feeling of cock in my mouth is like no other.

I could write an entire book on cocksucking.

Just because I'm 24 years old doesn't mean that we yougins are inexperienced.

Never had a complaint. Ever.

Spoken by a man who obviously doesn't "like" to eat pussy.
Why do the guys treat us so well and massage us and lick us and take us out to dinner? They aren't getting paid to do that. Is it maybe because they "like" bringing us pleasure? Then why is it so hard to believe that we also "like" to bring them pleasure? One really nice thing about giving a BJ is that we know that most wifes aren't doing that, even in the best of relationships. Also it is a time that you get to lie back and truely be pampered and we get a chance to show off our skills.

What a freekin' waste of time...I shoulda' waited until I got back to Boston and my ATF...

ME! ME! ME! hehehe

I was 19, (yes a virgin at 19) My ex was really gettin DOWN with my hand movements and started pushing me down that way. I didn't want to go, but the pouty look in his eyes made me feel like I should, just to make him happy. So I did, and I'm glad I did. LOL  
Didn't like it much THEN, but NOW....omg...MMMMM
There is NOTHING like having that kind of feeling, that kind of power over a guy in bed. Listening to the sounds of pleasure erupting from his lips, hearing his words of 'oh my god' and 'oh baby deeper'.
I like to watch your eyes as you watch my tongue swirl slowly around the head, flicking, and teasing then engulfing slowly down feeling it hit the very back of my throat. Your eyes get big, and that smile creeps up the corners of your lips as I feel the pulsing beneath my tongue sliding back up to the tip feeling that raw nerve pulse as the tip of my tongue keeps hitting it again and again and again.
I would have to say YES YES YES to all of the above!!! and yes...I am good at what I do, because I LUV doing it!!! (no complaints either) lol
xoxo
~DI~

Hopefully a fun answer.  I was teaching in Bouler, CO, and met a civvie who was attending another.  We both spotted each other in the hotel bar.  Instant attraction accross the room. We danced, embraced her and no bra. She was so beautiful and I was handsome then.  We were so hot.  She told her business parner she'd see him in the morning.  We had dinner, and I was so aroused I couldn't eat.  Snow was falling, and she told me she had "never been so open."  The waitress knew what was happening.  We retired to my room, and among so many other things I discovered my first clit ring.  We saw each other many times thereafter.  Long, long 30 yrs. ago, before AIDS, no condoms required.  Lives forever in my aged memories.  We truly lived in the best of times.