No, you can pick them all.

And some are great artists and love to deliver a grand performance.  Here's to one of my favorite performers!

...it might be a minority of people, but some people like their work.  I do things that are more grueling than a bbbj on a daily basis, but I like my work and line of business.

And I'm also one of those guys that hasn't gotten a bj of any kind for my "better half".  But I wouldn't compare my wife to a provider.  I like my providers.

You could not possibly be more wrong. Cock sucking IS an artform, and hand jobs are terribly underrated by most - women and men both.

I don't just like cock sucking. I love it. I love watching a man's eyes pop out of his head, and the smile on his face when I'm done. I don't like condoms because it diminshes the pleasure, and quite honestly, I can't stand the feel and taste of latex. That doesn't mean I never use them, but unless I have a concern about safety, I prefer to enjoy the smooth feel the head of a man's cock as I glide my tongue over it rather than feel like I'm licking a balloon.

Sure you've known married guys who go BJ-less. I'm not your wife. I'm not your girlfriend either. But I'll fall in love with you and your nice and suckable cock for an hour.

*sigh* When oh when, will you guys ever figure out that there isn't some cookie cutter model that creates all escorts the same. Some of us really DO love what we do, and really ARE good at it BECAUSE we enjoy it.

but also married monogamous women are like that for a reason: sexual dysfunction. They've seldom if ever enjoyed sex in their lives, and are probably not orgasmic. They think of sex as a guy thing.

I think such women tend to be monogamous wives who think of sex either as a way to have children, or as their husbands' disdainful quirk. They don't see what the excitement is all about.

There are providers who love giving oral and some that don't.  You cannot generalize about providers  regarding whether or not they enjoy what they do.

Back to that same old argument that they "only do it for the money".  Believe it or not there are huge numbers of providers out there who are capable of enjoying sex AND getting paid for it.  They are capable of spending a few hours with a polite, intelligent gentleman AND enjoying it WHILE getting paid for it. Hell, they are even capable of sucking a guys cock AND enjoying it.
My ATF could write a book about how to suck a guy's cock and revel in it...she gives me a blow-by-blow(doh!)as she is coming up for air about how much she love it when my cock grows bigger inside her mouth, how she can feel me twitch when I'm getting close and how much she wants to see me cum....
For the jaded among you who no longer believe any of what I say is possible I feel truly sad for you. For the rest of us, it just means a little less competition trying to book time with the truly great ladies out there who just so happen to choose this line of work.
Sure, I've been with women who wouldn't suck cock, couldn't suck cock and who clearly ONLY sucked cock because they were getting paid. Let me tell you, it's VERY easy to tell the difference. If you think she is only doing it for the money, look elsewhere. The search is worth it and the research has it's own rewards!

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"Bitter, party of one!"

Spoken by a man who obviously doesn't "like" to eat pussy.
Why do the guys treat us so well and massage us and lick us and take us out to dinner? They aren't getting paid to do that. Is it maybe because they "like" bringing us pleasure? Then why is it so hard to believe that we also "like" to bring them pleasure? One really nice thing about giving a BJ is that we know that most wifes aren't doing that, even in the best of relationships. Also it is a time that you get to lie back and truely be pampered and we get a chance to show off our skills.

Your description is impeccable from my experience with you.  Besides being the best, the fact that you can be totally assertive in your expectations of doing that is the epitome of your eroticism.

Re: Why do men like pussy?

Hopefully a fun answer.  I was teaching in Bouler, CO, and met a civvie who was attending another.  We both spotted each other in the hotel bar.  Instant attraction accross the room. We danced, embraced her and no bra. She was so beautiful and I was handsome then.  We were so hot.  She told her business parner she'd see him in the morning.  We had dinner, and I was so aroused I couldn't eat.  Snow was falling, and she told me she had "never been so open."  The waitress knew what was happening.  We retired to my room, and among so many other things I discovered my first clit ring.  We saw each other many times thereafter.  Long, long 30 yrs. ago, before AIDS, no condoms required.  Lives forever in my aged memories.  We truly lived in the best of times.

I go away to relieve my tension......go back to this discussion and damn!  I read more women talking about worshiping cocks!

Gotta go

Re: I don't give a BBBJ....I worship a cock

betty , you had me @ worship...you say all the right things..

NOTE TO SELF

I either MUST visit South New jersey , OR, wish/hope/pray/insist that Betty finds her way to Atlanta !!!!!

When I first did this it was under duress....lol

I was 19, (yes a virgin at 19) My ex was really gettin DOWN with my hand movements and started pushing me down that way. I didn't want to go, but the pouty look in his eyes made me feel like I should, just to make him happy. So I did, and I'm glad I did. LOL  
Didn't like it much THEN, but NOW....omg...MMMMM
There is NOTHING like having that kind of feeling, that kind of power over a guy in bed. Listening to the sounds of pleasure erupting from his lips, hearing his words of 'oh my god' and 'oh baby deeper'.
I like to watch your eyes as you watch my tongue swirl slowly around the head, flicking, and teasing then engulfing slowly down feeling it hit the very back of my throat. Your eyes get big, and that smile creeps up the corners of your lips as I feel the pulsing beneath my tongue sliding back up to the tip feeling that raw nerve pulse as the tip of my tongue keeps hitting it again and again and again.
I would have to say YES YES YES to all of the above!!! and yes...I am good at what I do, because I LUV doing it!!! (no complaints either) lol
xoxo
~DI~