how do you ladies typically deal with putting a client out early? i am a fbsm provider and i had a client earlier who was trying to pressure me over and over into fs. of course i ended our session immediately and asked him to leave, which he did with no protest. he had paid for an hour session and i refunded his money a bit so that he  would only be paying for a half an hour session. i am curious to know if you ladies think that was the right thing to do or if i should have refunded all of the money. gents please feel free to chime in and aliases are fine thanks for the help.

     
                    - a curious newbie

A client who tries to pressure you into something you clearly don't do-- and doesn't stop pressuring you after you have declined-- well, he doesn't deserve a dime in refund,IMHO.

I think your were very very nice to give him anything back.  You should never be pressured into doing something your not comfortable with and you didn't advertise.  

He had no right to pressure you into doing something that was not implied in any way by you or perhaps in reviews on this site. If someone has posted a review that otherwise states something more is available please take it down by reporting a problem

Now if neither was a implied promise you owe him nothing and he needed his ass booted out the door with no money in his hand. I'm sorry you had to deal with someone who doesn't know how to read or understand the word no. Most men understand what a full body massage is and would not subject you to such behavior. Not withstanding, a man is a man and he just might ask.

Kisses Haley

If he would've did his homework, and known you weren't into FS, he shouldn't have asked for or expected it.

Fuck him and his refund. He's paying for your 'time'. You could've made time for another client that expected and appreciated what exactly it is you're doing. Now, he wasted your time and your resources and he should pay for it. Simple.

i am certain that he would not have assumed that i do anything other than what i offer. my website states at least 3 times that i am not fs, my reviews say the same. i have encountered gentleman that have asked for fs or bj before, i politely declined and the session continued wonderfully. i have never dealt with someone being so persistent. i am glad he left without any argument though.

refund some of his money. I remember when I first started...some of the guys would want me to do things that were Not on my menu...and I would say no...and they would get persistant...and then I would just laugh and tell them sorry You schedule Your time with the wrong girl...we can either continue and have a good time or we can waste our time discussing what I don't do...lol...needless to say...we always had a good time and BTW remember it's the time they are paying for...Not the services don't ever feel You should have to refund as long as You are up front and honest with what You offer

I think Aileysalley has a nice approach...  to the first time a client suggest something which is not on the Menu.  Some guys will always try to get more.  Be nice BUT you have to stand your ground on that.  You can nicely say "There's been a misunderstanding but I don't offer that."

A client who violates your rules by pressing for things you do not offer deserves NO break BUT at this point, you want him to leave without a fuss.  He could do you harm or he could do other things to compromise your security.
 
If you can not convince him to enjoy your session for what it is, for the full time THEN I feel it is prudent to refund 50% to get him to leave nicely.  He's out the door & you are safe.  Well Done!
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Then I guess based on that it was okay for her that she kicked him out early (a good decision), and refunded part of the fee (another good decision).

I see no problem with what she did, and it seems her client on this did not either, as he did not protest it seems, via her story.

Asking him to leave and refunding part of his money was the right thing to do. It's easy for others to sit on their computers and say "fuck him, you should have kept all his money" but there are two reasons your approach was the right one.

He was wrong to pressure you, but he didn't receive the session that he DID pay for. Perhaps even more important, you'll have less trouble with the guy if you refund a portion of the money.

You walk into an in call and the provider standing before you is not who was in picture. Is it OK turn around walkout?

LMAO
I was always worried the customer will not leave and some have been SO insistent and even threatened to give me a bad review if I wouldn't give them extras or a discount that I start talking about STD's.
I guess that was passive aggressive.lol
I didn't mean to be immature but I was younger and now I am more refined and mature.

this is suppose to be Fun and Enjoyable...and it does Not sound like she had any Fun at all...and I don't imagine he did either...it's sad and that's the problem....I don't blame a guy for trying and thinking he might be the exception to the rule of getting what I do Not offer...however when he realizes he is Not going to get it...why press it...have Fun...Enjoy the Pleasure...and have a Happy Ending...I personally think Yes, it's a problem when You have to ask someone to leave...I can Not imagine that You really do Not see that to be a problem???? Should the Happy Ending really be Thank goodness no one got hurt....well at least I only had to pay out half...and just maybe...the reason he did Not protest...the light bulb went off and he couldn't believe he was being asked to leave...just maybe.

she was Not the person You wanted to see...lol...and why any provider does it...is beyond me...I hear it happens quite often...and I am a curious person...and just out of curiousity...I would like to know why they do it...I have heard the answers from the guys...as to why they stay...and all I can do is laugh

Agreed. No refund for rude behavior.

You made the right choice. The money can be made back, you safety can not.

The general population of men that seek providers have never heard of escort reviews. The typical man calls a number that has a pretty picture attached to it and sets up a visit. Bait and switch operators can go through five-six men in an hour. Even if they only get a refusal fee of 50 dollars, they make 200-250 for the hour, they can go on for however long they want to on a given day. Cash and dashers are even more parasitic. The activities are why all except the most experienced hobbyists should rely exclusively on visits to reputable providers.

Got to agree with one of my favorite red head MILF's.

However, he knows the location of the incall (unless a hotel) as well as your phone number (some ladies only give out their phone number after a client is verified).  He may leave nicely but create havoc later.

that All the guys I see are so Awesome...I use Hotels...so once again..that was something I didn't think of...I live in a Bubble world...lol..where Everyone is Happy and Everything is Wonderful Life is Good!!

Stupidity and thinking with the little head is more of a possibility in today's You Tube, Face Book and Internet driven world.

Then again there are few who are megalomaniacs who think things will change just for them because they consider themselves God's gift to women.