Hi folks,

Send them an email asking about a specific date and a specific time.  You can add that you do have some flexibility if indeed you do.

They don't like seeing 6s and 7s on your scorecard. Hurts the Nielsen Ratings.

I'll try that out. I appreciate the tip in spite of the rude tone. When I schedule a doctor's appointment or dentist's appointment or pretty much any appointment I tend to leave a wide window of time to allow for flexibility as a courtesy but I understand the point you're making and maybe I'm better off just specifying a specific date and time.

I couldn't have said it any better.
Altho I will ad, I just found someone's email in my spam folder yesterday, so that does happen. If you don't get a response within a cpl of days- Send another email, we dnt mind, it lets us know that you are serious. We get busy & there are times when I've started a message it goes to my draft & I forget about it.
Some of us get alot of emails, some days none, then in one day 15.
It is hard to respond to everyone, so if you are interested send another one & always put a date & time. If you have references include that ya have them.  

Giving his TER handle. How would the ladies know his review scores?

grumpypants sometimes. But he is correct...ladies here like gentlemen who provide 'all' the info in the first email, the where, the when, the duration, or the emails go back and forth and it becomes a bit of a nuisance. She will come back with a 'yes or a no' to 'your' allotted time and you can both go from there. But it certainly helps with a starting point and she will take you much more seriously vs just saying 'hi there'.  

....but I am a female hobbyist so my first email to a provider usually consists of my asking her if she entertains ladies- nothing about a specific time or date. That usually comes with a follow up email.  
I have been very impressed by the high response rate so far. It tells me that there are many courteous, thoughtful and open-minded providers out there that don't mind taking a few minutes to respond to my query.

I often do provide my TER handle if that's requested, so perhaps that is a factor. I don't know; I haven't given out a "bad" review ever (thanks to TER!) but maybe they are concerned about seeing anything lower than an 8. I'm not sending out vague e-mails. I provide references, a handle, personal information, whatever they ask on their website. It's not like I just say, "Hey, wanna hang?" From the responses here, I'm assuming it is abnormal for people to not hear back when trying to book?

I still love when some of the posters here contend that some of "us" are angry  LOL

sarcastic SOB for a new brave soul who decides to 'participate' and isn't aware of your style (or anyone else's for that matter .  

But it looks like the OP got the message anyway.

Posted By: LuvTheBoardBoys

sarcastic SOB for a new brave soul who decides to 'participate' and isn't aware of your style (or anyone else's for that matter .  
   
 Lookie where we first started haha lol until I finally understood you and your posting ways. You? I understand. The others? Forget about it lol. And me? Well hahaha, I'm just a ridiculously angry ol' soul myself who LOVES to post all angry cause I'm just a really, really, really angry girl LOL (but shhhh, don't tell anyone it's fun    
   
 Btw I don't watch tv and decided to turn it on for the first time in forever and DAMN the Bachelorette's choices are hard this time. They are hotties alright. Good lord. Who won the World Cup????  
   
 And ohhhh, the clock is ticking..........(on the handle that is)  
 

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A bet? hahahaha Christ on a cracker, you can't be serious. Do I get a cut since I'm the 'participant'?  

Being a member here since '06...

I would think would qualify you as no longer being a newbie
I am an email only provider so I will answer your question from my standpoint.
I respond to emails in a timely fashion nowadays many people have smart phones so it makes it pretty easy to respond to an email sometimes even easier than taking a phone call.
I will respond to most emails as long as it is not rude or explicit and seems like the gent is interested.

Set up about 50 different email accounts and send her an email every 15 minutes why she isn't responding.  
That will get you a response, guaranteed.  
You might not get a positive toned response but it's still a response. lol

Response rate is quite high for P411. I heard that providers are required to respond. Don't quote me on that though but I've had an impressive level of response.

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a 1 hour incall appointment for Wednesday, July 16 at 7pm.  Length of appointment, day/date, and time are all included.  None of this "can you see me this later this week in the early evening crap?"

Thanks for the thoughts, folks. I appreciate it.

If  client contacts me with a general introduction telling me about his Aunt Gertie from Iowa, he likes my pictures and is wondering when I'm available, he's not really a priority to me. In my experience, those clients are, in fact, wasting my time. Not only does my intuition tell me this, but my back channel exchanges with other providers tell me the same thing.  

I try my best to answer mh emails in a timely fashion but I do have a life outside of work so sometimes I will leave my work phone at home for a couple days when im with family or taking a break so if people cant understand and respect that, I don't want to meet them anyway. Recently I had a client contact me asking about getting togeyher and when I messaged him back it came back as an error, two days later he wrote me a nasty message saying he would contact somebody else who cared about their business. Messed up I had no way to argue my side.  

When beginning a new paragraph you need to press the space bar just a few times. Indent the first sentence beginning each new paragraph. Don't get mad I learned it by watching these other nit picking spelling bee luvin, wheel of fortune whiz, language arts buffs. It does make peoples responses much easier to read though, The person whom politely pmed me on this matter months ago was totally right.
             I definetly delete emails not responded too by accident many a times. I would most definetly follow up. Met a man this week whom said he contact me through p411 ages ago last year, never heard back, He didnt try again til last week. I would never delete an email with out responding unless it has a question like today some one said "Hi, saw your ad in fetish section, how much for a hybrid session?'  I just deleted it because the rates were in the ad text which was short and sweet maybe 4 sentences long advertisment, Then rates on the web site . I just deleted his email.  
              Or if they specify at all a scripted session like i like to cross dress or i like sloppy dfk. I also delete.
I wouldnt assume anything just yet. I'd follow up and see if they even got the original email. I doubt that there is actually a handful of escorts that all delete your reservation form simply because they are just rude and aloof. Does it say must be a completed reservation form? i know if i book my appts for a week out and others may do this i wont start booking or responding to the new forms til the week is all; done, Once you sit down and book all those appts for a week its nice to be able to not be at your desk for a week and just work then do the schedule agin the following week.  They also have regulars and just may have not got around to you, With the millions of ladies in town i find it hard to believ your not getting any responses. Who cares any ways there are so mahy other ladies just email another one, We are a dime a dozen with 7 thousand or more ladies in each city just be "on to the next one"
                        fill out 5 reservation forms one has to respond. Your sure your not mentioning sex acts? or sending a picture of yourself or your cock . I happen to love when they do that but.

Taking a look at my website first is always a good idea. I try to keep my calendar up to date but have been known to slip

see how guys think this is an angry response?
It answers his question clearly & has a funny at the end.
When I read things like this, it reminds me not to take things so serious.  

Never had an initial inquiry/screening form go un-responded, never been turned down for a date, and have never joined P411 or any other similar service.

Just dumb luck?  It's hard for me to think that at this point.  I think I just write well, and tend to "put it all out there", without holding anything back.

These days, it's obviously much easier for me, since I have plenty of references which I can offer if necessary; and I go to M&Gs, which more or less remove the need to screen as such.

Whenever curiosity gets the better of me, and I ask a new friend, "How did you know I was okay?", I am either told "so-and-so said you were ok," or "I just went with my gut, since you provided so much information about yourself."

Who knows, maybe I am just lucky...