Okay, so I was just reading another thread just below about the meaning of "UTR" and how scrambled it has become.  

to include CIM and Greek, but not BBFS.  Greek is always YMMV regardless of whether a provider advertises PSE or not.  Obviously, you want to see how much sausage the guy's packing before you agree and you can't do that until the session is underway.  

the "psycho girlfriend experience"

More secret terms you suggest would turn TER into a secret society. Seems that there are a lot of English teachers on TER waiting for someone to misplace a comma as well as those that OIUHVCY and think anybody can understand them.  I'm talking about you ass-holes who can only spell a word one way...how boring.  What we need to to is put FANCY in charge of this problem.

several for whom this would apply, but can't name them without getting BL'd.

Going back several years, GFE was pretty synonymous with escort, but I first saw it in ads where both FBSM and GFE were offered, as opposed to FBSM only, or suggesting only GFE I.e., escort.

what did you have trouble understanding?  If you're talking about someone else, then you have put your post in the wrong place.  Are you high?

It's not (or at least shouldn't be) an element of either PSE or GFE. BBFS is something that should exclusively be reserved for monogamous relationships (and even then other methods of birth control should be exercised, unless you're in the market for kids of course).

If provider and client have clean std results and birth control is used, more power to them.
 

GFE - I won't GF a gal if she won't swallow.

Every women I've ever seen, I wanted to BB her, if I don't want to BB her, I have no desire to CF her.

I find DFK to be very subjective. For me there's DFK and dfk lite. I prefer a hot, engaged DFK romp almost as much as fucking. OK, not that much but dfk lite usually doesn't interest me.  

What was so fucking hard to understand about what CDL posted?

I won't argue the wisdom of having unprotected sex with a total stranger who is almost certainly having the same kind of relations with possibly dozens or more other people, but to pretend it doesn't happen is rather naïve. There are ads right here on TER promising "cream pie" finishes.

When the term first began to be floated about 15 years ago, it was about the attitude.

For DFK, there are selections "No", "Yes - without tongue", and "Yes - with tongue".  For me, only the last one will do.  And I think I must have a fetish for it or something, because when a provider LFK'ed me at M&G once, I had a hard-on during the entire train ride home afterwards.

I agree it should be all about attitude, especially GFE. If we make it about menus, it will be all over the map. For example, I've seen several cases where GFE means FS... not BBFS, just FS, added to DFK, BJ, HJ, massage etc.  

I agree with coer-de-lion on pse, but would add in cof, various BDSM stuff and/or mutiple contorted positions at a breakneck pace beyond a normal experience with wild enthusiasm.

BrittneyStarGirl: I think you're right that general expectations for the term GFE means "bbj, (not to finish) dfk, daty/ dato and a more passions sensual over all experience". When we try to find out if an escort is GFE that usually what we mean in general. Then after some of us will go farther and qualify whether she also does BBBJCIM and even for some BBFS but I don't think I know anyone who expects GFE to actually infer BBFS.

a public figure and isn't concealing her identity the same as a p4p gal. Probably making quite a much more than most p4p gals too. But I dont know the money thing for a fact.  

BBFS providers will give it they see your test results or think your clean. Some when they get drunk will do BBFS then wake up the next day freaking out. BBFS providers generally have 4-5 regulars they do with BBFS with.

Please, please, please, just Shut The Fuck Up!!!

Girls can get preggers from bbfs? Really? You truly are tstt. Be proud of your SPOTY. You've earned it.

"You'd strip down, hop on the bed, get your fill of whatever menu items the gal decided you'd get (The option list was about as varied then as it is now.), then get up, get dressed, and be out the door with a smile if all went well.  (Which it mostly did.)"  

"Just the two of us" means do whatever we want. Shhhh... just between us. Wherever it goes, it goes.

so she can't steal our seed and impregnate herself.  You said once you actually do that.
It really does take all kinds.

That's all fine. But I was talking about the term PSE. It just escapes me how the term "porn star experience" could not infer filming or taking photos, that's all.  

I save my ziplock bags from lunch and use them to for used condoms.

Are you feeling guilty ? I wonder why are you like the other guys that had to cough up some money for abortions...

just kidding.My personal preference is being so engaged that photos and filming are the farthest thing from my mind.  
I've had PSEs with providers that do and don't consider themselves PSEs.  One gal I spent a lot of time with was as PSE as one could imagine but her rules were no DATY and only CBJ ... but the rest of the evening was off the charts.  She rocked my world.  

water balloon fights with the other nerds a little more exciting with the left-over splooge in there.

Sometimes, the good old days weren't so much

No, I'm the dude with a hat lol And I'm not on the beach, I'm the dude in a water. The safest place for me to be nowadays because the way I feel I look now there is no way I could drown. lol