I'll spare everyone my own boring psychoanalysis of the 'phenomenon' and just say that I know it to definitely be true; from my own experience and from thousands of hours of people watching in the meat-market night clubs I'm always around.

Driving a Maybach can't even get you laid as fast as putting your arm around a true dime piece (*without getting slapped*).

Ever tried dating a chick you wanted to fuck in the worst way and fumbled your way into the ominous "just friends" category? It's not the worst thing that can heppen. Fear not - just call your "friend" and tell her you wanna hang out. Hot female friends are the sexual equivalent of a meaty earthworm on the end of a  fishing line.  

is that it took you so long to discover it, average looking guys like me have been using this method to attract hotties for longer than I can remember.

Hey, late is better than never. lol

This is a truth known to con men (and women) since time immemorial.

As with all things essential in life, there is even a Seinfeld episode (The hidden kingdom) where George finds the ticket to the land of gorgeous women to be an ersatz photo of a beautiful "deceased" fiancee.  Just don't place your hair dryer to close to the photo like George did.  (This is the same episode as Elaine's Bizzaro Jerry, George and Kramer, plus Kramer's phantasy foray into the world of business and Jerry's brief fling with "man-hands".)

However, there is another, simpler way to attacting the attention of women that I have learned of late:

Go to any place where your quarry congregate and be reading (Or appear to be reading if you prefer.) a book about male/female relationships.  You will have plenty of charming company in no time flat.

Me, I am going to continue to use every advantage I can in life. That bullshit about "it's how you play the game" is exactly that, bullshit to make losers feel better about themselves.

Dudes, the weirdest thing happened yesterday.  After a session, I took my ATF to the mall off-the-clock for lunch.  She's really beautiful & I was expecting unwanted attention from other guys sniffing around. That didn't happen.  Here's what happened:  Other women, beautiful women who would have ignored me if I was by myself started sniffing around.  One stunning woman started talking to me while we were standing in line.  I was also getting inviting looks from other attractive women.  This shit doesn't happen when I'm by myself.  It all had to do with my ATF being by my side.

I may have stumbled upon on a strange truth regarding human sexual behavior:
(1) If you're with a gorgeous woman, you become more interesting to other women.
(2) Beautiful women are highly competitive.

Anyone else ever notice this? Or maybe I've been drinking too much over the holidays.  --z

While this 62 year old guy (me), with his lunch date, a gorgeous 39/40ish lady from here were being led through the restaurant to our table, all the guys would notice her with wide eyes and dropped jaws they would then notice me and then the expression would be "what the.." Then we passed this very nice looking cougar. We made eye contact, she winked and smiled. I was on top of the world.

I always wonder about the man's story. Who is he? He must have something attractive... And I get really curious to figure out what the little something something is... When I was going to night clubs, my male friends would take me with them just so I'd attract other hotties. Being good in PR it always worked.

After all if one can't stand alone, one can't stand.

Confidence can be practiced and applied. It's fun as well.

Primus, since you're touting your magical charisma, please explain why you need providers in the first place.  Women should be paying you, right?   --z

Primus and I are in the unique position where yes, we have charm, charisma, a certain look, and 'it' from what someone told me the other day. A 'je ne sais quoi', if you like.

I like that last one especially cuz I've been talkin' with a lovely French lady that turns me the fuck on!

So, to answer your question, we don't NEED providers. We WANT them. There's a difference.

And I can't speak for Primus, though I wouldn't doubt if he was told the same thing, but I've been told I should get paid.

What? I'm just repeating what I was told....

All the other women will be thinking, damn he's got something going on......

Just because some of you see yourselves a certain way does not mean it applies to the rest of us like some axiom of natural law. Happy Holiday's.  ROTFLMFuckingAO!!!!!!!!

MP, may yer candy cane get suitably sucked!!!! Tra-la-la-la-la! Lol!!!!!

You were told "you should get paid" by who?  A provider that you were paying?  MY ATF once told me she would "do me for free".  My bullshit detector went off right then & there.  Most of my TER brothers would agree that providers tell clients lots of things.  Providers have to constantly flatter their more immature clients about their desirability, charisma, charm, etc.

Primus & MP67:  I think the joke is on you.  rage away,  --z

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Primus and I are in the unique position where yes, we have charm, charisma, a certain look, and 'it' from what someone told me the other day. A 'je ne sais quoi', if you like.

I like that last one especially cuz I've been talkin' with a lovely French lady that turns me the fuck on!

So, to answer your question, we don't NEED providers. We WANT them. There's a difference.

And I can't speak for Primus, though I wouldn't doubt if he was told the same thing, but I've been told I should get paid.

What? I'm just repeating what I was told....  

What makes you think I fuck only providers?

Like I said, I WANT to fuck providers. I don't HAVE to. Pull your head out and hear what I'm sayin'. lol!

And if you didn't need to pay for it, you wouldn't be spending so much time on TER.  I can't imagine a john being so deluded that he actually boasts online that women should pay him for sex (of course, "other people" tell him that).  But just for fun, let's review the egomania below:

About I'm still paying for it. You always pay for it, one way or the other.

The ego deal, too. Guess when you're told things enough, you start to believe it.

Hope you had a great Christmas, though, and an even better New Year!

get to be friends with a beautiful stripper ,don't try to fuck her ...she will be your"credit check" ( you are a good guy who won't fuck with their head or rip them off )with the other girls, she will attract other girls in public and will go to bring you a girl when you see one when you are out together at a club or when you travel together...this worked for me for years.......the only downside is if she marries or leaves town you will be so out of practice, after all the freebies, you will have a hard time  hustling a girl again so you need to start hobbying.BUT..........you will acquire the attitude "I have had better" when you don't score with a civvie

Men and women aren't too much different. They sniff around what seems to be already taken and see it as a challenge. But her being that pretty helps the competition, other pretty women see her and might think you're loaded or something.