Please calm down 😘

She’s highly reviewed? I promise she’s not working with the vice squad.

I like to know where the person is staying so I can plan my transit and any other arrangements for the evening. If he’s staying somewhere with a nice gym, I might want to use the gym after the date. Also, some providers we will only go to a certain caliber of hotel, so she might be wanting to make sure you’re not at Motel 6.

Last – certain hotels in certain cities have reputations for being places where stings happen, so she might be concerned about the exact same thing you are.

If vice is already working with your companion, what makes the difference two weeks out or the next day?  

If you think there's a chance this provider is actually LE, then you should not be seeing them in the first place, IMHO.

Why not?

I like to know what hotel I am going to, so I know the layout. Parking. I don't think it's a big deal. Many providers have 4 or 5 star requirements. If it's in a bad area, or polluted with unsavory individuals she may pass.

But it does happen on occasion. Since this sounds like it’s your first time with her, she doesn’t have any baseline to assess your judgement in this regard. Some women just have different lived experiences than others and it’s quite possible this provider in question got burned in the past and the hotel info she got the day before in that case didn’t come close to her minimum standard.
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When I am contacting a provider for a first date for outcall, I always stipulate in my opening date request that the hotel will be an upscale one in such and such area and that almost always allays her fears.
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As for LE, I wouldn’t sweat that at all with what you are telling us. If she is highly and often reviewed, you will be fine. Doing outcall lowers your already very small risk as LE doesn’t work that way.

It sounds like you’re not confident in your vetting of the provider, or you may be a newbie? Clarify what research you did (always trust your gut though. It’s better to be safe than sorry)

We cant say what’s “normal” bc every provider’s process varies.. however it’s not uncommon for us to request some sort of proof you’ll be there. Lots of fantasy bookers get off on wasting our time. In most cases outcall does require additional steps, especially to block our schedule way in advance. Provider may also request: send uber or deposit, a pic of your hotel keycard showing name or room #, pic of the house/apt number outside the door, calling hotel and transferring to your room line, or a screenshot of your reserv. None of which indicate a catfish, scam, sketchy situation, or LE.  

Good luck and have fun if you decide to continue with the date!

I’ll sometimes ask for the general area just so I know approx travel time. I generally don’t ask for the exact address but honestly why would it even matter? You aren’t giving her the room number. I certainly wouldn’t give the room number out until a few hours beforehand, but what exactly do you think is gonna happen if you give hotel information?  You do know if it’s a sting they can also arrest you if you give them the information a few hours beforehand also right? Anyway… as long as the girl is well reviewed and legit you are fine either way.

Honestly, if she’s highly reviewed, I wouldn’t worry. If someone like QB or Claire asked, I wouldn’t bat an eye. And to be clear, highly reviewed to me suggests this provider is not newish, is currently active and has 15+ reviews over at least a year’s time. And recent reviews matter. You tell me she’s highly reviewed but has no reviews for 2+ years, I might not feel as comfortable.

Extremely unlikely Law Enforcement would be operating 2 weeks out.....usually they do a "Wham-Bam'Thank You Mam" hit and move on----News crews and hopefully our boys and girls in Blue have better stuff to do than trail an escort for two weeks.....

I don’t do outcall much, only when I’m traveling, probably less than a dozen appointments all added up. But it’s been pretty much like that almost every time, if not every time.  

 
No matter how far in advance I’m scheduling, as soon as the appointment is confirmed, “okay you’re seeing me on X day, what day are you arriving in my city?” Then “okay what hotel?” When the time draws closer “let me know when you get to town” then “let me know when you’re checked in.”

 
It can be a bit off-putting or unnerving when not expecting it, as you’re seeing. But it’s all worked out fine for me every time. If she is well reviewed and has recent reviews, I agree with the folks saying you don’t need to worry. Robert made a good point, I don’t think LE sends people into an outcall room where they can’t control the situation.  

 
Besides all the reasons others have listed above as to why she’d want to know ahead of time to be prepared, which are all perfectly valid points and would be for ANYONE; I think a lot of providers get a bit anxious about outcalls to hotels because they have been NCNS’d several times.

Last year I took a long drive to a city two states away to visit two ladies I really wanted to meet.  

Lady1 would only do an incall since we never met. She gave me the general area of her incall and I booked a hotel close by since I was staying 2 nights.  

Lady2 asked me what area I'd be staying in so she could book a hotel close by. I told her that as long as she felt comfortable with doing an outcall she could come to me and save herself the cost of a room. She agreed. I had no issue with giving her the hotel info as soon as I had it booked, which was about 2 months ahead of the date.  

I won't repeat what other have said but you e been given a lot of good information and advice.

Unless you have some kind of outstanding warrant, it's highly doubtful anybody is setting up a sting to bust one guy on an outcall.

Relax.

First, a sting would try to get you to come to the location ASAP, even offering discounts and what not. They don't have time to setup an operation weeks in advance to catch one dude.  

Second, the providers I've booked at a hotel (not a fan in general) told me the hotel ahead of time. They didn't tell me the room though. You will get that at the last minute. Again, a sting operation would make it VERY easy for you to come visit them as quickly as possible.

I was scared like you, still am to some extent, but I did a lot of research. Most stings go for a ton of guys and use cheap motels.

Whenever I make a booking usually the girl wants to know where I’m staying.  Especially in Vegas where I know a few have been kindly asked not to be on a particular property 😂

This way it is in my calendar and I can plan my day. I need to know if I am going downtown or Summerlin or the strip. If I am make plans before or after I want to know the logistics. If I get another booking for the same day, how much travel time do I need between dates. My calendar has the hotel and time, not your name so it keeps me organized and my calendar doesn't have your personal information on it.

Of course she wants to know where she will be going.  It’s a matter of security.  She is doing you a favor by making sure she will be comfortable and secure. No last minute cancellation because she doesn’t like the hotel.

I would not see a provider that I was concerned about working with LE.

If you do not rust her do not see her.

in my homebase Vegas guys will book weeks and sometimes in months advance. Especially if they are coming to town for conventions or booked their vacations way ahead time to lock in their travel prices anyone who travels nowadays know to book in advance since travel is significantly higher nowadays.
I will say 95% of the time the gent who reaches out to me with screening and introduction he gives me his hotel location in the initial correspondence.What I have been experiencing while on tour as I am mostly incall while traveling.Clients want my location way in advance.. I understand planning for drive time/weather/road conditions this is why I will give a general location that is within 5min from my hotel. I would think this would be sufficient.For most it is others not so much.

I recall a client who is a member needed my EXACT location 2 days in advance and if he did not get it he was cancelling. Hindsight I should have let him cancel. I gave him the hotel down the street from where I was staying.
I voiced my concerns about discretion he said he had been doing this for years.
He showed up 90min ahead of time,Pushed boundaries and tried to do things none of my reviews say i do.  
Gave my location in advance guy showed up 5hrs early and sat in his car and waited for me to check-in.
Or the client who saw me in check-in line I did not see him walked up and stood there in line with me.Told him to give me some privacy to check in he stepped a few steps still in close hearing distance.

I would think clients could exercise more discretion and I appreciate the ones who do.I guess there are ladies who do give out their location in advance. Every lady does what works best for her. If a client is not comfortable giving out weeks in advance do what works for you.

Thanks for all the feedback, everyone! In response to some of the posts…

1. I’m not a newbie, but I’ve been away from the hobby for about 2 years.

2. I typically do incall when I travel. This will be my 4th outcall. One of my previous outcalls was with my ATF, and we have a great rapport. The other two didn’t ask for my hotel until the day of. They asked for the general area. Being asked two weeks in advance for this one threw me off.

3. The lady I’m seeing this week has lots of positive reviews on this site, spanning several years and some within the last 2 months.

4. I’ve been following her on Twitter/X for a while, and I’ve been waiting for an opportunity to spend some time with her. She seems to have a fun personality.

5. Points made about knowing my hotel is of good quality, in a decent location, etc. and being able to plan your day around the date make sense.

All in all, probably just some nerves while shaking off the cobwebs. I appreciate everyone setting me at ease again.

Don't worry about it. I often will even ask ladies for hotels in an area they'd feel comfortable in before I book.  

Plus, our lovers know their hotels!!

JayFawx