Is it just me? I hate when I go to a ladies site, and click on her schedule and it's not up to date! From a business stand point, it screams unprofessional. Why wouldn't you want potential customers to know when and where you're available?

I'm with you!  Not only can't you tell if they are even working any more but, even for girls who don't travel most sites don't even do a good job of indicating where the girl normally works.

I agree...being a new hobbyist I am finding it is sometimes difficult to determine who is available when at what location.  I travel and usually have pretty tight schedules so spending a lot of time finding a provider at the right place at the right time can take some effort.

I am disappointed by how these are not up to date, especially for those travelling. What I find useful are the comments like not before noon or not after 6pm. I think if the ladies have particular times they do or don't accept appointments it would be far better for all. I felt very bad asking one for a weekend appointment who only does weekdays even though there was no way to know that,

I used my website calendar for a few months, but then I decided I did not want the entire world knowing my every step.

It's no one's business if I host incall twice a week or three times. My volume is my business.

Further, heaven forbid someone knows where a provider lives (like her crazy ex-boyfriend) and she posts on her calendar that she is in NYC for the entire week. Well, this opens up a ton of security concerns for that escort. Now remember not every escort has a bank account or security box. Perhaps she doesn't want to advertise to the entire world she is not home, though her hidden money is.

There are all sorts of reasons why an escort might choose not to use her website calendar. Hopefully, you’ll change your view on these escorts and instead of seeing them all as unprofessional, just know that some of them are trying to be DISCREET.

*Alias because I no longer want my posts cached in the search engines - another form of discretion.

"There are all sorts of reasons why an escort might choose not to use her website calendar. Hopefully, you’ll change your view on these escorts and instead of seeing them all as unprofessional, just know that some of them are trying to be DISCREET."


I understand the need for discretion, then why not remove the calendar from the website? It just seems to me that if you're going to post a calendar, you should keep it updated.

Then just remove it from the site altogether, looks much better that way.

Removed is best option if you don't want the data there (and I understand your point).  Another middle ground a lot of providers have is just list "Busy" or "Available".  It's not everything, but it's helpful.

Just like everything else should be up to date: rates, photos, physical description, etc. To have outdated or inaccurate information is unprofessional.

I don't have a calendar on my site because my schedule changes every week. I'd never be able to keep it current!

That said, my photos aren't current either, but I look pretty much the same other than a new hair color.

High volume providers who have a detailed daily calendar that goes every 1.5 hours.  I saw one once that started at 9 am, had 7 appointments booked and there was one time slot available in the 6th spot of the day.

If I was a dude I would not want to know that 5 other guys hit that prior to my arrival.....gross.

Sometimes less is more.

That's why I call their wonderful selves.

Has more than one agenda...

One, I actually talk with them. Get to know each other a bit and can decide whether we want to meet or not.

Have yet to see not!

Even though they are pros, they don't have all the time in the world to update their sites.

Do YOU get all your shit done every day at work? If so, turn me on how. I'm a couple weeks behind in certain areas.

Don't forget, they have PERSONAL lives also.

Not only do some have 'real' jobs, whatever that means, but have family and friends that require their attention also.

Did I mention kids and S.O.s?

I think it kinda sucks you're bashing some ladies for not dropping their shit so you can get your dick wet when YOU feel like it.

But that's just me.

Case in point. Called two ladies when my original plans went to shit. One couldn't because of family obligations, the other could see me.

It wasn't a choice between the two. It was a matter which one could be there then. We're friends. 2 ladies and 1 guy. I didn't make a choice. It was just more convenient for one than the other. I'd actually seen them both together. Again!

Oh. And yes. I had a DAMN good time!!!

hehehe, that was funny, cause it's so true...
As long as were true to ourselves that is what matters. Love your smile (in your pictures) by the way.

Back to the thread---My regulars know to email/call or even text upon there Visit to SD.

However, I try to update my caledar every day- as it may change- I'm not much into double booking or some may call it "doing back to back dates"  not in my style...

Quality is so much better!
It's a new experrience for sure, and should be treated as such. No one is the same

oxo
Enjoy the comic con in SD!

I am a very detailed and organized woman so it is kept up to date about 2 months out but I think that is just from the corporate background in me.  Haven't traveled as much this year (burn out from last year lol) so it is pretty easy to do and I already have my holiday and superbowl dates and such listed since I have many clients in Dallas who look forward to my visits.  

Imho I think that most of the women who do not update their calendars do not treat what they do as a business and most likely are the ones missing dates and flying by the seat of their pants.  Just an observation but those that keep their website current are typically the ones who have their act together and can be relied upon to actually show up for the date.

I agree, take the calendars completely off if you don't use them as it reflects badly upon you.

Just my .02 cents.

Have a great weekend everyone,
Sara

How um not up to date is it? Because lol i'm guilty of not updating mine until the very last minute pretty often.... trying to get better at it though.