I am curious how any of the following would or have played into decision-making:

1) A provider that has a do not cancel within 24 hours or else ... pay 50% or whatever ... policy cancels on you within 12 hours.
2) A provider asks you to do a dinner date or longer, but doesn't offer you a discount.
3) At the end of your appointment you notice blood on the sheets from an appointment prior to yours.  
4) At the end of your appointment you notice one of those stains from a guy who didn't wipe his arse.  
5) A provider is honest and tells you that she is going to bump you for a dinner date the day before your appointment.
6) A provider tells you that her profile is full of false statements.  
7) A provider asks to change your appointment to later in the evening to accommodate a request for a multi-hour date.
8) A provider talks about other guys when you meet with her.
Would any of these result in you not seeing the provider again?  How would any of these change your behavior?

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1) Phill is a moron

2) Phill deserves all the bad treatment he seems to be getting

3) Phill seems to dwell only on the negative

4) Phill should find another hobby

5) All of the above

1) This is why this place is dead.
2) These posts imply nothing about the treatment that Phil is getting.
3) Phil isn't dwelling on anything.  
4) Phil loves the hobby.
5) GaGa should focus on creating some content that brings about discussion vs. back and forth with CDL.  Online users are decreasing and becoming less engaged because of GaGa's negativity.  Maybe these questions suck, but I don't see much better.

9) A provider still has cum in her mouth from her last appointment.
10) A provider tries to re-use an arse-soiled condom because she just ran out.

All except #1 and 2 will affect my decision as they all show unprofessionalism.

...and his fascination with ridiculous hypothetical crap seems to explain why. I think everyone could accurately guess what fascinates me.

but in his case I am not so sure it's "hypothetical"

 
Some people just create their own dark cloud that hangs over them, I think the OP is one of those people.

 
As for your fascination, it's pretty obvious and definitely shared.

1-I wouldn't plan to see anyone has a hard ass cancellation policy. Shit always happens to me where my schedule will change, and most know that.
2-Dinner, her request...fuck no. My date my plan. If I want to dine with her, it'll be my choice.
3-Yikes that would be awkward, a turn off
4- See 3
5-Had that happen before, we met later ans she stayed the whole nigh..so there could be some rewards with the right gal. Not to total biggie.
6-Are the false statements in a positive or negative light?
7-See 5
8-Lol...yeah I've heard some bitch about all the losers they see...Funny number 4 happens more then you know..I can take it or leave it. hell she's probably talking about me to some...
There's s few that would make me loose her number...where do come up with this shit?

Re #8... Often providers who seem comfortable with me will tell me (usually funny) stories about other clients--no names of course, but occasionally TER handles.  Some bring up their SOs occasionally. It doesn't bother me, unless that talk would dominate our time together. It never has. And these stories are usually hilarious.  

I assume they sometimes tell other clients (and maybe their SOs) about me. In fact I know they do as some guys have PMed me to tell me what so-and-so said about me.  It was all good, unless these guys were lying to me.

that you need all the help you can get.  We haven't anybody this clueless in awhile, so I will try to help.  

1.   I don't cancel, except in a "family" emergency and there have only been three in ten years.  So I expect the same from providers.  If a girl says if I cancel, I have to pay a cancellation fee, then I tell her I will only agree to that if she agrees to it also.  In other words, if SHE cancels on me within 12 hours, SHE pays ME the 50% of her rate for the inconvenience.  Most back completely off of this and "waive" the cancellation fee provision.  With the ones that agree to my reciprocal terms, it completely eliminates bumping or changing the time/day.
2.  I don't pay to watch women eat.  If they want to go to dinner after our session, I will take them to an upscale place, but I will not pay for their time.  
3.  I don't see hookers that use sheets on the bed, but rather a towel or pad that can be used once and laundered.  If its an outcall to my hotel room, then the blood is probably from the hooker I saw the night before, and I will bring it t the attention of housekeeping so that the sheets are changed before the next lady shows up.  
4.  I don't see providers that see guys that don't wipe their arse, so this would never happen to me.  Most of the ladies I see require a shower before AND after the session.  Did you get any on you?  Just curious.  
5 and 7.  This is a normal part of the business.  I have been bumped or asked to change before when I am doing one hour sessions.  That's the main reason 90% of my sessions are 2 hours or, occasionally, longer.
6.  This is a deal-breaker.  I will sooner trust a hobbyist's observation that a provider's opinion of herself.  However, sometimes, things may change over time.  She could lose or gain weight, change her menu, color her hair, and many other things, so it would depend on the specific items she is claiming are false.  
8.  This doesn't bother me.  I will often ask my regulars to tell me about the funniest thing that happened with a customer this week, or the weirdest customer they had.  It makes for some great entertainment during the refractory period between pops for me.  One lady told me about one last week where the guy books an hour after work, arrived at 6:00, handed her the donation, took off his shoes, told her to wake him up at 6:45, laid down on the bed and went to sleep.  She sat in the chair and read a book.  She woke him at 6:45, she dropped her drawers and bent over the bed at his request.  He stood behind her and dropped his pants and underwear around his ankles, left his shirt on.  Then rolled on a condom, fucked her doggy for  5 minutes, came in the cover, took it off, handed the loaded cover to her, pulled up his pants, said thank you, and left.  Never kissed her, never touched her with his hands. You have to admire a guy who will pay for an hour session and only make her work for five minutes of it.  Lol  (For the ladies here, no, I don't know his number.)

END OF MESSAGE

as effeminate, overly sensitive, and effete doesn't mean he's a woman either.  

You don't have to be female to be a "whiny little cunt"   Actually looking back at all the "whiny little cunts" we have had here over the years, very few of them were actually female. And then of course there is lopaw who has bigger balls than most of the guys here.

She's quite over dressed

See #5 above:

5) GaGa should focus on creating some content that brings about discussion vs. back and forth with CDL.  Online users are decreasing and becoming less engaged because of GaGa's negativity.  Maybe these questions suck, but I don't see much better.

Gaga is a legend in his own mind.

I had one start to DFK, and her breath smelled like cum, so I told her I  would really get turned on if we brushed our teeth together.  Problem solved, and diplomatically, too.  Lol

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1) I don't cancel and I also don't book providers with cancellation policies
2) I would kindly say "no thanks."
3) If you didn't see it until the end of the appointment how do you know it was from the previous appointment and not from your appointment?
4) See 3) it's probably from your ass.  
5) I would tell her "thank you for your honesty."
6) kind of meaningless since there are no profiles now. When profiles were up (and if they ever come back), then there's the question of what statements are you talking about? Her age? Height? Build? Bra size? Services? Fake reviews? Positive or negative inaccuracies? There are way to many variables in  question 6 to answer it well.
7) If I really wanted to see her, and if I could accommodate the change I probably would.
8) I would change the conversation or put my dick in her mouth.

The only thing on that list that ever happened to me, was item 1) cancellation by providers, but they never had cancellation policies and we rescheduled.
Hypothetically, If any one of these other issues did happen, and it was a one time thing, and everything else about the provider/session was great, it would not affect my decision to see her again.

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1, 3, and 4: Unlikely to see in the first place/see again.
2: Probably just stick to BCD dates unless she is pushy about it and then I will stop seeing her.
5 and 7:  If she's willing to make it up to me, I'd still see her
6:  My reaction would depend on what she claims is false and what she says is the truth.
8:  Depends on how specific she is.  If she keeps it general then that's fine but if she hands out personal info she knows about them then I won't be back.