I discovered this accidentally over a long period of time with many different partners.  When I'm passive, I just don't respond, nor do I enjoy it very much.

I certainly don't mind if the woman initiates sex, nor do I mind if during the course of having sex we roll over and she gets on top for a while and rubs herself the right way.  It's just for me to get aroused initially, I need to get my head into it (the big head), and that requires that I be the aggressor.  A lot of escorts seems to prefer to get on top and control the action- this does nothing for me.

The exception, of course, is if she wants to push me down on the bed, or the couch, and give me a blow job to get things started.  That sort of aggression always seems to be OK.  

I prefer to be on even footings with the lady, by that I mean neither top nor bottom. But would also like it if she would be on the aggressive side. That way she knows she is in control, and comfortable; where I can relax and enjoy her stress free.

all over my lap.

8o)

But seriously folks...

I do like an aggressive, loud and exuberant lover.   Lot's of dirty talk is a big plus.

And, I like to take turns doing so!

meaning willing and responsive, not comatose.


HalfHour

Sexually, how do you prefer your ladies to be? I'm a mixture but certainly lean more toward the Top than the bottom - doesn't seem to be an issue with those being pinned

But, how about you? What gets you best?

Still on the fence (like me) just leaning toward the other side a bit.
Wonderfully versatile, beautiful

I would have never assumed that the majority of ladies in this industry prefer being sexually dominant! Of course that's not a dig, as I'm a provider as well. That's just news to me but it's not like I hang much with the girls.

I think sex is more sensual when there's a give and take. A little self-stimulated cowgirl is great but there's something amazingly delicious about lightly choking your lover while you ride him and he in return flips you over and chokes you with his cock.

Inconsiderate? Maybe. But, that's just my taste

Posted By: G2

I discovered this accidentally over a long period of time with many different partners.  When I'm passive, I just don't respond, nor do I enjoy it very much.

I certainly don't mind if the woman initiates sex, nor do I mind if during the course of having sex we roll over and she gets on top for a while and rubs herself the right way.  It's just for me to get aroused initially, I need to get my head into it (the big head), and that requires that I be the aggressor.  A lot of escorts seems to prefer to get on top and control the action- this does nothing for me.

The exception, of course, is if she wants to push me down on the bed, or the couch, and give me a blow job to get things started.  That sort of aggression always seems to be OK.  

I hear ya. That's a good way of looking at it and I'm sure scores you points with your lady friends. Keep up the good, chivalrous and sexy work!

usually I to be on equal ground or the slightly submissive side. That being said I can if the mood strikes be very aggressive but it is not the norm.