So I'm planning on going to LA in March for the TEA awards (a porn award show for trans creators). And I'm going to be at a content house with other pornstars (not escorts) in Hollywood. I want to see clients but I'm a little concerned they would be scared off by there being a big house that other people might be in, etc... I don't plan on having people around when I have a client but I don't want the suggestion to scare people off... what do you guys think? Would you come see a girl under these circumstances?

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The idea of pornstars being around, but not in your room, doesn't scare me off personally. It might for some. Others, might actually be turned on by it. I don't see it being a determent to getting clients. What is important is that you are upfront about it.

 
That said, some TS clients have an added level of discretion because they're not open about their interest in TS women. If so, they might get nervous about others seeing them in such an environment. But again, the others are pornstars. Not exactly the ones you expect chatting the rumor mill and having it get back to their friends, family, etc...

 
I wouldn't be too concerned. Just be honest and let them decide.

What about the people you live with? Are they going to feel comfortable with you bringing clients back to the house? I get the feeling they might not feel safe and comfortable with strangers in their space, especially since it is a content creation space. How is a roommate going to feel if one of your clients accidentally stumbles into their shoot? What if a client runs into one of your roommates hanging out in a common area in their PJs?  I’d be more worried about how my roommates feel vs. how a client would feel. I’m

Soooo I think it’s essential that we keep this focused on the original question… this post is about whether clients would feel comfortable in a house occupied by pornstars. Any other asides are genuinely unhelpful my love.

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I wouldn’t see you if you told me that. I only feel comfortable in this lifestyle with people I know or people I invite for a meet up.  
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What you are describing is adding potential issues/problems/drama that I wouldn’t want. For me personally, there is enough risk of the unknown already built into p4p.

Wow! What a thoughtless, terrible and selfish idea! Did you forget that providing is illegal?! Let’s assume that your roommates are three pornstars, a legal profession, just laying low and avoiding scrutiny! Now you cause a worst case situation involving a police raid of the house. That creates a shit show for you, the other occupants and the landlord who is probably doing you a favor by letting you stay there. Do yourself a favor by taking your providing elsewhere and saving your unwitting housemates and landlord the potential risk.

...why not?  What I would have my head on a swivel for is mainly personal security and having confidence that nobody will come barging in (unless they wanted to join).  That said, we're not a match so it would have to be in the right kind of connection though.  

 
In a sense, it would be like visiting a brothel or least have the feeling as such which is a fun experience in itself.  I really don't understand the reluctance from others but I'm guessing there's reasons they may feel intimidated by running into others that aren't being paid to be friendly.  

 
Truth be told, I'd be hoping to see some action going on as I was coming or going or like I said above, someone else seeing  opportunity to make a few bucks and have some fun with us.  

That's fair... I'm most likely going to get my own place on the side or just do outcall. I wanted the client perspective for a reason.

So I'm going to attempt to reply to this as this is the second time the conversation has turned to my friends. First of all, I view these forums as a valuable place to hear client perspective. The spirit of the post was that I wanted to know what you guys thought about coming in YOURSELVES. Mainly because I think it's important to hear what clients think and how they feel in situations before making choices and this forum offers a great space for that! I love hearing your feedback and thoughts on various topics that help inform how I conduct my business! But what I do NOT appreciate is you taking this opportunity to chastise and criticize my relationships with friends or demean and call my ideas thoughtless.. clearly I'm putting thought into it by including all of you into the process so rather than attempt to tear down you could just offer your opinion on how it would effect YOUR experience.

 Lastly, perhaps you are unaware but pornstars are all mostly providers as well. All of us in this house do porn AND have escorted at some point or another. My other friends are simply not there in that capacity for this particular trip. Funny that you would assume I had not spoken to and cleared this with my friends first... In fact, if you must know it was actually several friends idea.. so lets pump the breaks on calling me selfish. So hopefully that ends this particular line of questioning.  

As to your more valid points (because a dead clock is indeed correct twice a day), I do agree that the potential complications make the scenario less than ideal which is why I posed the question here. I think it probably works best if I get a separate place for seeing clients or just focus on outcalls. So thank you for your insight and perspective. It is my sincere hope that your future interactions can be a little less accusatory and a bit more collaborative.

With love,  
Naomi 😘

Lol I figured someone would have this opinion 🤣. All of my friends do escort just not on this trip. TBH I won't be seeing many clients because I will be busy with industry events, shoots and the awards lol. I traveled like this once before and everyone pretty much leaves when a client is coming over so sadly, your fantasy of running into some action wouldn't go down! I am fairly confident that all of them would join for a price however. There's real orgy potential for the lucky gentleman that wants to spend!

Gracious response to angry elf who is probably a keyboard warrior who never learned how to play with the other kids at the playground.

Real orgy potential for a price?! With pornstars who may not be escorting at the moment?! Don’t you dare get another place now. Some fat cat with a big wallet is counting the days now. There are probably 10 times as many lurkers on here who don’t post than those who do. You just suggested the possibility of a once in a lifetime opportunity. Just saying lol.

Sign me up please. Sounds like a dreamy time.

Lol see now I'm conflicted 🤣

Lol now I can''t get the image of an actual elf typing angrily at the keyboard muttering to himself 🤣

Another poster said it already, but there are plenty of mongers who would look forward to the chance to hook up with a provider living in a house full of porn stars. In fact I think you might end up booking clients who were on the fence about seeing you but pulled the trigger when they became aware of the location scenario.

Regarding your seeming to be bothered by comments relating to the roommate perspective, I think what you’re seeing is a first reaction to the overall scenario you outlined to us. It just seems like housemate reaction is the more pressing issue than the client reaction. A sentence that noted you had cleared the arrangement with your housemates probably would have eliminated the comments you’ve received on the housemate reaction aspect of the replies.

I can tell you with almost 99% certainty  
that whomever leased that house
has it wired for sounds of  "moaning"
and  "yeah baby right there don't stop",
with HD cams in every room including
the powder rooms  &  showers!!

Do your biz elsewhere or you and said Clients will become fodder for the "Net"!

Angelina Jones

People here celebrating the prospect of many other women being present are most likely made by individuals who would, in reality, never commit to participating imo. It’s easy to state, “Absolutely, count me in!” when that particular poster is not genuinely exposed to any risk.  
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Everyone has their own preferences of course, and some genuinely thrive on added risk, as is their want, but for me, the inherent risk already associated with this lifestyle is more than sufficient for me. I have no desire to add additional downsides unnecessarily.
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Good one Angelina!

@RespectfulRobert
Thank you Sir!

"The inherent risk already associated
with this lifestyle is more than
sufficient for me".
Your comment rings loud & clear!

Exactly why I don't participate in  
"Group Anything";  

(With exception of Duos with my
long-term "Duo  Partner in a
controlled location;
Hers, Mine,  most-desirably,  or
Ubering to high-end Hotels.

No disrespect to Clients....

Rarely do they create an ideal
ambiance preferred for Duos
or rendezvous in general;
Candlelight everywhere or very
ambient light, instills an immediate
sense of relaxation.

We roll in & immediately dim lights.
I usually carry mini-travel candles
with matches creating our own aforementioned atmosphere.

I also check the air conditioner.
An over-warm boudoir is no bueno.

Deterrent for hidden cameras is
ambient or low-light, which may
catch a glimpse, although most
debauchery goes undetected.

🚫 "Orgies"

🚫 "Sex  Clubs

🚫 "No Private Estates for "0utcall"
        unless I trust, having known  
        their integrity for years!

       There's a  guarantee however,
       you're being filmed at the gate,
       license plate photographed.

🚫  Zero "Meet & Greets"
        (I had to learn the hard way!
         Thank goodness, early in my P4P...)

A woman attendee recognized me
from "The Civvie World",  loudly
addressing me amidst a group...  

She was a seasoned Escort, thus her
lack of discretion was unexpected.
I was mortified and embarrassed
ultimately afraid of being possibly
outed!