Is it rude to ask (or very strongly request) a provider keep their heels on the entire session?  Even (especially) in bed?  I remember one provider's profile said she loves keeping her heels on but then immediately took them off.  If they can wear heels all day and night why can't they leave them on an hour and half?  How can they dance in clubs and then need them off in a hotel room?  I'm going to make this a requirement my next session even if this makes me an A-hole.  

And why would you want to be an a-hole with a woman? smh

It's not that hard to figure out.  When we get to the room, I strongly suggest they keep heels on the entire session.  It's not the end of the world.  

I prefer naked and don't impose requirements.

I’m sure you could request it nicely. Most ladies I’ve seen were ok with this.

I take mine off so I can move around more easily during the session but if someone requested I keep them on, I absolutely would. I don’t think it’s a bizarre or unreasonable request at all. I always love my clients letting me know their preferences, my goal is to make the session the best I can for my clients, so I’d 100% want to know.  Def does not make you an a hole at all. (At least in my opinion)

to greet me wearing nothing but high heels and lipstick.  It's my favorite look, but not for going out to a restaurant.  They won't let you come back.

.......Usually goes over like a turd in a punch bowl. But hey....you gotta shoot your shot I guess.  

I have a waterbed.

Maybe you could try to be nice with your asking? I have no issues keeping on my heels for the whole session and do have clients ask that I keep on my thigh highs and heels for the session. If you think it is acceptable to "require" or "strongly suggest" I am going to politely ask you leave. No, in that situation it is not the end of the world at all seeing your tail lights.

I first discovered how strong my sexual urges were looking a Playboy magazines in the 60s when I was 12 or 13.  The playmates were always in lingerie and heels.  It must have made a deep impression, because that look always turns me on.

Thanks!  I figure providers can get much worse requests.  And I will certainly ask nicely.  

Good to know it’s not a big deal.  I always thought it odd that every provider I’ve been with INSTANTLY took off their heels.  I thought there might be more to why they don’t wear them or something.  

I love the whole thigh high stockings and platform high heels look.  And, in several of my early sessions, my request to leave them on was honored.

Definitely, you’re the consumer.

I have no issue with this.I agree it is sexy a woman in the nude with killer pair of heels/stilletos.
 Of course as you know it is all in how you approach a subject.
If you ask nicely I am sure that will go over  better than making it a requirement.
Also I would be very specific in your request on exactly what type of heels as there are more than one type.

I will almost always ask a girl to keep her heels on. I guess it must be a fetish for me.

I wear heels for photos & to model privately. I don’t wear heels everyday all day in real life it’s fantasy. If you’re paying for my time you can request I wear heels the entire time. I have clients/friends buy me heels. Foot wear is a fetish I gladly cater too!

Simply saying that they look super sexy in their birthday suit + heels and that you would love them to keep them on...most won't object.

My 6th grade teacher ALWAYS wore heels.  This was back in the late 1970's and the first day I walked into class, she was wearing platform heels and hose along with a tan sleeveless dress.  Couple that with her reddish hair and slightly more liberal use of makeup (especially on her eyes) left me a fan for life.  She even ran down the hallway in them.  The sounds of those heels left a lot of us 12-13 yrs with fond memories.

Definitely not rude to directly ask; she can certainly say no; you can certainly not come back.  

Brilliant suggestion!

The absurdity of the high heel-- the precarious arch, part power play, part vulnerability. delicious.

I thought I was going to make a joke about combining the comfort of Crocs with the ankle-bending discomfort of high heels but ... IT'S BEEN DONE!! (Many times, even by fashion houses whose names I recognize!)

That being said my personal Incall is a no shoes zone. The amount of things that you walk in on a daily basis is why I prefer no shoes in my private space. Now If I am coming to you and you want my outside dirt left on your sheets by all means. Otherwise you can gladly purchase a new pair and I can keep them and bring them out especially for you. That way I know they are clean.  

Let her know you like it.  If it's a big deal for her she can tell you before.  If not,.she may be down for it knowing you have an easy kink.  If she's smart, she will send you pics of different sets of heels.  Maybe you can be a regular.  Buy her a pair or two to wear for you.

Absolutely NOT rude.   You are paying soooo you get to set the script.   If she says no, fine..... move on to a girl who says yes.   There are plenty and I mean PLENTY out there who will have no problem wearing heels.  I've seen them cum  and I've seen them go -quite honestly, if the girl has a problem wearing heels, she's in the wrong business.

While I like heels as much as the next guy, I prefer that they come off when the "fun" starts. I'd rather not get accidently poked or stabbed with one.

My incall is my house and I have a "no shoes" rule. 99% of guys take their shoes off or at the very least ask if they should take them off at the door (yes please!!), but I did have some complete round head walk in with his snow and salt covered boots on and then proceed to walk through my house so he could "look around." I stupidly agreed to see him again thinking that maybe he just was nervous, but when he came in the second time I asked him to take them off at the door and he said "he would rather keep them on." I will not be seeing him again. Sometimes the smallest things give you a full picture of a person's true personality.

More than one girl I know have bedroom heels, meaning they are only used for indoor appointments both incall and outcall. Very sexy to see them wearing when I walk in to their place or after they put them on after changing at my place. Total wear time is like 5-10 minutes lol, usually they are off by the time we are in bed. Rare occasions they are kept on in bed but usually gone with a position change since so easy to poke holes in sheets.

Early on I learned that many, if not most, Asian providers ask you to remove footwear upon entry (to the incall lol). So I just do it automatically whomever I'm seeing and whether it's a hotel or a private apartment.

Ms DuPont,
Your intelligent command of English is even sexier than the legs on those red heels you made me imagine, and that's saying a lot.  
Thank you for your gorgeous writing!  
     -- Valida

One asian provider I visit does this, and since she knows me, keeps a "clean" pair of high heels at the bedroom to put on for me.  She's sweet like that ... .