Energy.

Pure and simple. Please do not come see me when you're ...

1. Overly tired. Because I want to F***.

2. Just got off a plane from an overseas flight. Unless you're here to get a massage this relates back to #1.

3. Stressed about a fight that morning or last night with your SO and then talk about it the whole time. Not only is that really aggravating it also makes me terribly uncomfortable.



I would let my guys know to....

1. Be open minded because I am.

2. I like the back of my neck kissed, nibbled. But please for the love of God do not stick your tongue in my ear like that is somehow sexy. It isn't. Get some q-tips.....

3. Don't ASSume I'm ready for Greek unless you mentioned "foreign travel" in your email.

4. I am naturally submissive so like Alpha Male dominant guys but I am a fantastic sensual dominant as well and I love role playing.



There is more but that's pretty much the basic....

Before, during and after.

When you email me I would love it if you shared some personal information like age, ht and wt. I also like to know in this first email which day and time work best for your schedule. If I can get this information in the first email it would be awesome.

During the date it is great to hear feedback. There have been a few times that I would have loved hearing that they enjoyed what I was doing or what I could do to please them more. I love communication with the body also. A hand on my head during oral, caressing me is very encouraging.

After the date, it is great to get some honest feedback. Whether in a review, in an email or a referral or a return visit.

There are Gentlemen that do communicate effectively, and I appreciate their effort.

One thing I would also like Gentlemen to do. Read my site, thoroughly. I don't nit-pick, but there have been several who have not gifted me the proper amount. I don't email them or call them and let them know. I accept it. I certainly am grateful for all of my gifts.
I've  been very fortunate in my career to have met Sexy, Respectful and Generous Gentleman from all over the USA. But you asked and this is what I would wish for.
Love

Sexy Carolina  



-- Modified on 11/6/2008 8:13:12 AM

Want my "A" Game? Then please leave your ....

ego at the door. My worst nightmare are the clients (few, thankfully)who show up with "Don't F--king Forget I'm the Client" Issues.

These manifest in a number of unpleasant ways, such as:

Arrogant, dismissive language ... "Suck my cock, bitch."

Rough handling... shoving my head down on their cock till I almost choke.

Holding their reviewer status as a threat.... "I expect total satisfacation... that's the only way you'll get a 9."

Passive-agressive body language... flopping down and waiting to be "serviced"--often for the entire session.

Symbolically demeaning behavior with the gift... throwing money down on the bed, insisting on asking "how much again" and trying to shove it into my hand.

There's a huge difference between my PSE clients with whom I enjoy a rowdy, physical session, and the guys who see me as a whore and treat me like one.

The first group, I welcome with open legs. The second get ONE chance to make a bad impression... and then I make sure they never cross my threshold again.

I love my job... but only when I get the respect I give.

Many of us have jobs or community interests that we are involved in. Most have children or grandchildren to work around.

You are very important to me and I try always to make you feel very special. Please do the same for me and let's make plans...If I can't see you at the spur of the moment how about setting something up for later that day,another day or just about any other time that is good for you. Nothing like feeling like just another piece of meat when you say "maybe the next time". Now how BFE (boyfriend experience) is that.

Kisses Haley

-- Modified on 11/6/2008 9:10:21 AM

Re: Ladies - what do you wish that the clients who visit you....

Good Things:

1) Have a pleasant demeanor and we'll have lots of laughs and memorable moments.

2) Be spanking clean, to include your breath, and we'll have a great love-making date.

3) Be responsive to my questions about what you like or do not like.


Bad Things:

1) You are not an animal outside of bed, so quit peeing on my bathroom floor and leaving it for me to clean up. If your dick is really small, then sit on the friggin' toilet. Sorry, but I couldn't resist that one. It's happened to me so much lately.  Disgusting!

2) Okay, anyone who's spent time with me knows I'm not a clock watcher (at least with someone I connect with and who is pleasant), but please do not take advantage of my time, unless I say it's okay to stay over with me. I tend to see a lot of this happening lately: Guys who say they'll book more than an hour if things go okay but say, "Let's start with one hour and see how it goes."  Then, they stay past that hour and say things that try to make you feel guilty about asking them to leave --- RUDE! Please, don't come to see me expecting to go over an hour and then when I ask you if you'd like a shower, don't ignore what I'm saying and try to stay past your time. That means I have other things arranged for in the day and need to attend to them. I have told a few men that I need to get ready to go somewhere, that they need to start getting dressed or take a shower, etc. I've even said, "Okay, I'm going to be late if I don't get out of here soon, hon." I actually had to take a guy by his arm and lead him to the door a few weeks ago. I've never had to do that before, and it was unpleasant but I did it with a smile.

Now, on to the next scheduled program. This message was approved by "some jackass who is no longer running for some type of office."

Hugs,
ciara





-- Modified on 11/6/2008 9:44:11 AM

generally speaking, I would just ask that they please, please, please have washed and clean hands before exploring my lady-parts. I think that's just common consideration and courtesy, but maybe some guys get off on being germ-fiends.