I was with a delightful lady the other day - and she told me that she wished to get off... by me masturbating her!  she instructed me to grasp her clitoris between my thumb and forefinger - and "roll" it around between my fingers... that do it for anyone else - or is she unique?

I kinda thought that would either be uncomfortable, hurt or just not sexy???

Confused in Philly!

I do that for my wife when she is riding CG.  It works for her. I thought it might provide some additional stimulation, and it did.

As with anything you do down there...it can either feel super good or hurt. You just have to pay attention to your partner to figure out the right pressure and pace

You have to rely on picking up the cues and her directly and clearly communicating what she likes and does not like.

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different. What might work for one may not work for another.

Different things can work differntly each time.

I've notice what works for me can change as well.

I have noticed that also.  Each encounter is unique so different things turn me on at different times.  
As for my partner I am a pleaser by nature so as long as I know what someone likes I really enjoy giving them pleasure just the way they want it. I have found if they do not tell me clearly it is best to ask or just pay very close attention to the cues. Seems to work really well for me.

Ah broke my smiley habit.

I can be very verbal and once I am on a roll watch out. I will tell you how to please me and even help.

Most men that I have seen get very excited right along with me. Now I can get off many times, you guys are lucky to get off twice. It's wonderful to be a women!

The finger motions would work for me but I would need some spit or lube as well.

Kisses Haley

If you take your juicy dick and roll it around my clitoris while speaking in French or Latin, that will make me orgasm.

It's different for everyone, but thanks for sharing. I always enjoy reading about what makes people orgasm. Really.

Hugs,
Ciara

and while my fingers were busy with her clit... hers were busy with her nipples!  actually kinda hot - as she got this very intense look on her face and began to have a very light sweat on her skin... she says she had a great time! and so did I!

takes so many out of their ordinary reluctance about talking or telling their partner "what pleases them" and makes it more than ok... makes it "normal?"

Since partaking in this hobby - i have done all kinds of things I would never have dreamed of... and found that by taking chances I am rewarded a hundred fold back....   not bad... not bad at all.  And along the way I have met extra ordinary folk!  who dine at somewhat "normal places" such as Denny's!  lol!

just imagining such a thing is making me want to scream in pain and agony. but even the lightest, faintest touch to my clitoris is painful for me.

every woman is different...very VERY different. what is arousing to one, will be unbearably painful to another, dreadfully dull to another, and ho-hum to yet another.

it was VERY clear though that this lady was extremely turned on by this... funny, she did not impress me as someone who would be as physical as she is... but she is also fun to talk with!

that under the table part......Uh huh, yup, I remember it well. Check please!

For me NG
Lips thong and fingers.

Consider a car. Have you ever driven a car that performed exactly like another car? No? I have nothing more to say on the matter.

I think anyway you can get a lady off is sexy. Maybe not to all but to her. I like mine to be....well I will save that for a more intimate conversation in a more intimate place.

Anyway, as long as you got her there and she didn't say, "STOP!" You did good! Muah!