Ladies, are your O' s more intense when anal play is involved?  ( a gentle finger or a well placed anal vibrator )
It has been my experience, that yes would be the answer.
Very erotic. I M H O

You've got some splaining to do! No, fingers and a vibrator in my ass do nothing for me, but other things do. The REAL thing.

hat r u doin here?...lol.  
The real thing?

For me it's distracting at best, painful at worst.

it's alive!  It's alive!!!!!!

I understand.
Not sure why it's just the opposite for others........pleasurable.
Maybe it's not being done the correct way. ( to you )

I had a civi GF that used to reach back and stick her finger in her ass every time we did doggy. She had a very sexy ass  
oh that little perfect ass. Bat shit crazy but fun to ride. If she provided I would see her again. I would see them all again.

welcome back to the Board

to have that starfish played with, and I more than obliged.

I don't think that's the issue. It's just not my thing. Pretty sure that in order for a chick to enjoy butt stuff, she has to be somewhat relaxed, and that's just not going to happen for me.  

Are you open to DATO? Just curious if that area is totally off limits or just penetration

I'm not totally against DATO, it just doesn't do much for me.  

Maybe you should try a finger in your ass to start with, and move on to bigger & better.  Take your own advise you might just rally enjoy it!