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Re: Not cool if all she gives is CBJ
ComradeM 46 Reviews 2218 reads
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Yesterday, I had a session that was one of the best I've experienced.  A solid 9/10 looks and what should be a 10 performance.  Sexy, hot, energetic, and an all around fantastic date.

However, due to the TER rules, I can only give her a 7 on performance.  The fact that she didn't kiss and did a CBJ was FAR (and I don't use the all caps lightly) overshadowed by the rest of the experience.  It was so good, I am considering going back to see her today in the next city on her tour.

One might say "Give the review, abide by the 7 limit, and put this in the comments."  I feel that's not the point.  Someone who give this kind of rare performance should not be limited by arbitrary restrictions, especially when many of us don't care about some of the acts that they are based on.  I've been to Greece.  Don't really need to go back.  

Providers who put this much effort and enthusiasm into their sessions deserve to be rewarded with high review scores.  It's simple

FlaSailorRon 24 Reviews 888 reads
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2 / 34

Not what the lady does but how well she does it.  



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OSP 26 Reviews 908 reads
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Is all the damn10/10's from a single reviewer. How can a person have more than one "once in a lifetime"? I have only given one ten in performance and she really was. Well, except for the imaginary wife lol.

I know guys who, with 10 reviews, have given MOST 10/10's. Of course their reviews are for crap.

I am open to more 10's though lol. Ladies, who see couples, keep those hopes alive.........if you're under 30 anyways.

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 793 reads
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4 / 34

Someone’s credit rating. It is purely a subjective scoring systems with some few guidelines provided by those manage and allow you to use it for your fun.

Why try to make it something other than what it really is.  

See this crap come every now and then and the result is always the same. Realize the fact that what you see as a 10 could be someone else’s 5 or 7.

ComradeM 46 Reviews 638 reads
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5 / 34

Realize the fact that what you see as a 10 could be someone else’s 5 or 7."

This contradicts your own argument.  If someone's 7 is someone else's 10, why must I limit myself to someone else's definition of what can be a 10

AnotherPerspective 806 reads
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6 / 34

If I want  to copy a Rembrandt I  paint by numbers .
  When I search for a 9/10 in performance I am not looking for  
a CBJ .  
 From my perspective ,  It would be a complete waste of  my time , with no amusement value , reading through  no kissing / CBJ details , when searching for mine  and   TER's  perspective ,  of a true  9/10 .  
  If she doesn't kiss , how do you know she didn't just shave her beard ?  :-D
   
   
   

Posted By: ComradeM
Yesterday, I had a session that was one of the best I've experienced.  A solid 9/10 looks and what should be a 10 performance.  Sexy, hot, energetic, and an all around fantastic date.  
   
 However, due to the TER rules, I can only give her a 7 on performance.  The fact that she didn't kiss and did a CBJ was FAR (and I don't use the all caps lightly) overshadowed by the rest of the experience.  It was so good, I am considering going back to see her today in the next city on her tour.  
   
 One might say "Give the review, abide by the 7 limit, and put this in the comments."  I feel that's not the point.  Someone who give this kind of rare performance should not be limited by arbitrary restrictions, especially when many of us don't care about some of the acts that they are based on.  I've been to Greece.  Don't really need to go back.    
   
 Providers who put this much effort and enthusiasm into their sessions deserve to be rewarded with high review scores.  It's simple.  
   
   
   
 

ComradeM 46 Reviews 853 reads
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7 / 34

Who are you referring to here?  I've only given 2 tens for performance in 39 reviews.

chrisstl 14 Reviews 713 reads
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8 / 34

that is once in a life time performance ..... Haven;t found one yet.  If I find one, that's the end of my life!!!

AnotherPerspective 860 reads
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9 / 34

In case you haven't noticed ,  most guys with numerous 10's are two , three, sometimes four times the age of the ten he reviewed . Put yourself in his shoes if you are fortunate enough to live that long .  
   Try not looking at her perspective or your picture could be muddled .
  With age , bless their hearts , first goes their eyesight ,  next their memory loss .  
  Put yourself in his shoes , if he forgot the ten he saw last week ,  his new ten is legitimate .  
  Why else would they do a review as soon as they leave her in call ?  

Posted By: OSP
Is all the damn10/10's from a single reviewer. How can a person have more than one "once in a lifetime"? I have only given one ten in performance and she really was. Well, except for the imaginary wife lol.  

I know guys who, with 10 reviews, have given MOST 10/10's. Of course their reviews are for crap.

I am open to more 10's though lol. Ladies, who see couples, keep those hopes alive.........if you're under 30 anyways.

ComradeM 46 Reviews 748 reads
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10 / 34

You can already exclude profiles that do not show kissing or BBBJ when you search.  So you shouldn't have to worry about seeing a 10 that doesn't match up with your definition.

AnotherPerspective 734 reads
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11 / 34

When I find a new Ten in performance I change my only  ten to a nine .  
 I'm with you , I don't want to die ,  not until I find a legal/age  10/10 , 80% younger than me , or  
I marry a provider that can do the math .  
  With that in mind  
I'll  live a long and happy life ,
  Without a wife .  
 
   

Posted By: chrisstl
that is once in a life time performance ..... Haven;t found one yet.  If I find one, that's the end of my life!!!

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 799 reads
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12 / 34

always have been, always will be. It's what's written in the juicy details that counts.  I really could care less if she gets 7 or a 10. If I like what's WRITTEN than I'll consider see someone.  

Posted By: ComradeM
Yesterday, I had a session that was one of the best I've experienced.  A solid 9/10 looks and what should be a 10 performance.  Sexy, hot, energetic, and an all around fantastic date.  
   
 However, due to the TER rules, I can only give her a 7 on performance.  The fact that she didn't kiss and did a CBJ was FAR (and I don't use the all caps lightly) overshadowed by the rest of the experience.  It was so good, I am considering going back to see her today in the next city on her tour.  
   
 One might say "Give the review, abide by the 7 limit, and put this in the comments."  I feel that's not the point.  Someone who give this kind of rare performance should not be limited by arbitrary restrictions, especially when many of us don't care about some of the acts that they are based on.  I've been to Greece.  Don't really need to go back.    
   
 Providers who put this much effort and enthusiasm into their sessions deserve to be rewarded with high review scores.  It's simple.  
   
   
   
 

JoeBanzai 30 Reviews 792 reads
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13 / 34

While I don't always agree with TER's policies. I have to agree with them in this case.

Every rating system gives and takes points according to how it's set up.

The provider who chooses not to kiss and offers only CBJ should not be able to get above a 7 or maybe an 8.  

There are several guys who have reviewed DIY girls and given 9's. Ridiculous.

Under your rules, If I had a tremendous phone sex session and jacked off to a tremendous O, would the gal deserve a 10?

The gals that provide the most menu options AND do a great job should be rewarded with the highest scores.  

The system is not perfect, but it's OK.

toofuckingstupid 810 reads
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14 / 34

actually, you miss the point and that point is, this is TER. if you don't like the system, don't review her here. do it somewhere else, but don't come onto their turf then bitch about the way reviews are scored. it's been that way from day one. if they did not have it like that, some of you would be giving out 10s for a hand job and boob slide.  

Posted By: ComradeM
 
 "Realize the fact that what you see as a 10 could be someone else’s 5 or 7."  
   
 This contradicts your own argument.  If someone's 7 is someone else's 10, why must I limit myself to someone else's definition of what can be a 10?  
 

Retired-Guy 675 reads
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15 / 34

lifetime.

For example, I met a girl who totally mind fucked me while she physically fucked me at the same time, and that was the first time in this lifetime that that had ever happened and was clearly once in a lifetime.  Then I met a girl that gave me the most realistic passionate nights of my life, and we also had sex, yet I would say that this has never before happened to me in this hobby, hence also once in a lifetime.  Then I met another girl that gave me the anal ride of my life (or should I say let me give her the anal ride of my life) and that was also once in a lifetime And the list goes on and on.

Just because they all have the common denominator of sex doesn't mean that they were not also unique once in a lifetime experiences.  Some of the boys here are looking to just get laid, and whoever does it the best in their mind, gets the ten.  I've got no problem with that, except that at some point you clearly experienced your once in a lifetime up to that point in your life, and you probably could have been justified giving a 10, but you never will, because you always hope that there is something better out there.  While I applaud your optimism, I would suggest that at this rate the only 10 you'll ever be able to give is when you are 92 years old, and at that point your memory will be so shot that you wouldn't know any better.

Every 10 I've given has either been once in a lifetime up to that point in my life (and yes, I'm to lazy to re-score every review) or has had some unique element of performance that had never happened to me that made the experience distinct and in my subjective and apparently no-so-humble opinion a 10.

To be honest, if I thought I was never again going to have a once in a lifetime experience, I'd probably call it a day and attend Seminary.

 
Posted By: AnotherPerspective
 In case you haven't noticed ,  most guys with numerous 10's are two , three, sometimes four times the age of the ten he reviewed . Put yourself in his shoes if you are fortunate enough to live that long .  
    Try not looking at her perspective or your picture could be muddled .  
   With age , bless their hearts , first goes their eyesight ,  next their memory loss .    
   Put yourself in his shoes , if he forgot the ten he saw last week ,  his new ten is legitimate .  
   Why else would they do a review as soon as they leave her in call ?  
   
Posted By: OSP
Is all the damn10/10's from a single reviewer. How can a person have more than one "once in a lifetime"? I have only given one ten in performance and she really was. Well, except for the imaginary wife lol.  
   
 I know guys who, with 10 reviews, have given MOST 10/10's. Of course their reviews are for crap.  
   
 I am open to more 10's though lol. Ladies, who see couples, keep those hopes alive.........if you're under 30 anyways.

Retired-Guy 744 reads
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Posted By: chrisstl
that is once in a life time performance ..... Haven;t found one yet.  If I find one, that's the end of my life!!!

Retired-Guy 636 reads
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Posted By: chrisstl
that is once in a life time performance ..... Haven;t found one yet.  If I find one, that's the end of my life!!!

MojoRizon 757 reads
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18 / 34

Fuck those people who complain about people like you giving too many 10's. You make an excellent point, it's possible to have several unique experiences that qualify as a 10.  

And I look at the list of ladies you have reviewed who you have given 10/10...I have seen several of them as well and they are absolutely worthy of those scores.  

So my point is...depends on who you are reviewing. The girls on your list are high end...and charge a lot more than average .  It makes sense you will give more 10/10s.  

Some people on here are so dumb, seriously...they get pissed when they see high scores and call BS without even looking at the providers.

dicktracy 3 Reviews 736 reads
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19 / 34

So long as the review specifies that kissing and BBJ are not offered, I don't see why he can't give out the rating he wants.  

On my scale, a BBW wouldn't receive above a 6 in looks, but if the review makes clear that the provider is a heavy, then I will know that I am not interested and move on. It is the same concept w/ CBJ and no kissing. Some guys don't even like kissing in their ordinary (non-hobby) sex lives. I love DFK & DATY, but others are either indifferent, or prefer to avoid them.  

It is obviously TER's right to set up the reviews any way they choose. But there is nothing wrong with a member his expressing an opinion in the general discussion forum.

no_email 3 Reviews 830 reads
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20 / 34

and say you got a BBBJ, then say YMMV.

I'm not in favor of deceiving people, but if you feel that strongly about giving this lady a 10.

Give her a 10.
Posted By: ComradeM
Yesterday, I had a session that was one of the best I've experienced.  A solid 9/10 looks and what should be a 10 performance.  Sexy, hot, energetic, and an all around fantastic date.  
   
 However, due to the TER rules, I can only give her a 7 on performance.  The fact that she didn't kiss and did a CBJ was FAR (and I don't use the all caps lightly) overshadowed by the rest of the experience.  It was so good, I am considering going back to see her today in the next city on her tour.  
   
 One might say "Give the review, abide by the 7 limit, and put this in the comments."  I feel that's not the point.  Someone who give this kind of rare performance should not be limited by arbitrary restrictions, especially when many of us don't care about some of the acts that they are based on.  I've been to Greece.  Don't really need to go back.    
   
 Providers who put this much effort and enthusiasm into their sessions deserve to be rewarded with high review scores.  It's simple.  
   
   
   
 

OSP 26 Reviews 694 reads
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21 / 34

TER has been known to disapprove, or ammend, reviews which don't meet their requirement for a high score.

I know some very "easy" reviewers who are/were targets for girls wishing high marks. Like I said, I never paid their reviews any mind.

LoboGris 3 Reviews 681 reads
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22 / 34

.... hide our own Easter eggs.. don't diss it until you've tried it :)

ComradeM 46 Reviews 704 reads
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Anonomousfun's first reply stated that this isn't a new topic, so my opinions aren't unique.

I am sorry you think it's wrong to have debate and discussion about policy, and are ok with doing something that's been practiced from 'day one.'  By the way, the world isn't flat, and women can vote now

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 668 reads
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24 / 34

Her performance was...
an 8/10
a 9/10
a 10/10

When someone scores a 10, it's because if he were to score her performance out of 10, it would be a ... ten.

Ever seen Dancing with the stars? Have judges ever given more than one ten in a night? YES.

HarleySullivan 124 Reviews 616 reads
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25 / 34

That we don't have any local ladies worthy of a 10 performance?  

Well... You are probably right.

But... We do have several that are definitely worthy of a 9.

justanillusion 626 reads
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You would not want to put her in a difficult position by lying. It will only hurt her in the long run.

toofuckingstupid 737 reads
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tru dat and it still would not change the score. her profile has to say x, y, and z are available to be eligible for a higher score, not the guy reviewing her after the profile has been created. if he puts bbbj and kissing in his review, he would also have to file a problem report and then that would be expected from every guy she sees, or back to the 7s when they get pissed off.  

Posted By: justanillusion
You would not want to put her in a difficult position by lying. It will only hurt her in the long run.

Retired-Guy 662 reads
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28 / 34

Expanding the scope of one's hobbying may prove to increase the likelihood of seeing a 10, and may at the same time cause you to reevaluate your other scores.

Posted By: Myinnershrek
That we don't have any local ladies worthy of a 10 performance?    
   
 Well... You are probably right.  
   
 But... We do have several that are definitely worthy of a 9.

HarleySullivan 124 Reviews 796 reads
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Don't get me wrong... There are several local ladies that are wonderful as well... But the great thing about this community is the variety IMHO.

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 684 reads
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Or they look at the providers and call BS purely based on their rates. Cause "no piece of ass is worth x...", and MT must feel compelled to give 10s. Lol!

I agree. Fk those naysayers. Some guys just know how to pick great experiences and have the luxury to afford them. There will always be Aesop's foxes about.

I always wonder about gents who constantly score low. I think to myself- haven't they figured out how to pick decent providers yet??? Lol! Gluttons for punishment, I suppose.

-- Modified on 9/1/2013 9:48:38 PM

mrfisher 115 Reviews 653 reads
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This gets debated thoroughly about once every four months and I've seen this over that last 8 years - but TER is sticking to their rights to do as they see fit.

The only way around it is to make up for that in the description where you can state that it ought to be a 9 or 10; and let that be what you can do.

Also, you can try to push the score up a point or two - it often gets by.

kweezy619 4 Reviews 760 reads
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for what it is worth, I agree with you. I have even included this IN a review before. I could care less about most of the crap that they require to give a girl a score above 7. I DO care about bbbj vs cbj, but I don't care if she is actually into women, or if she just fakes it for the money. how would you really know anyway, unless she was bad at faking things, in which case she just isn't good at her job period

MrSelfDestruct 44 Reviews 751 reads
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Not going to go into my rationale for the current crowd here, other than to say that when the only score above "I forgot it was a service" is "Once in a lifetime", I have no problem giving multiple OIAL's when the experience is perfect.

Retired-Guy 805 reads
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Posted By: LoboGris
 
 .... hide our own Easter eggs.. don't diss it until you've tried it :)

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